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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Arnav90

So the consummation happened between Kunal and Nandini...

This is the reason for all the halla hoo here 😆

I would just like to know what do people expect out of the extra martial affair, Is extra martial affair means just the dating but not the consummation, what do u expect them to play Teen Patti with each other instead of making out 😆
And what was EMA fans expecting from audience?To drool over Ku**Nan chemistry?to support EMA?to distribute sweets as our divine couple has done coitus?

If someone is having affair outside marriage its not just for talking chatting on phone they will eventually do everything with other, Our divine couple don't believe in wasting time talking,chatting,bonding..they directly jumped into bed..now si nce the thirst is quenched can we expect some emotional bonding?
They feel more attraction n passion from there respective partner at home, They lie they hide it from the society, Nobody just go to there partner and tell them listen i am having an affait could you give me a divorce and leave. They would feel its wrong that they are cheating at the start but once they are into it , It starts to matter less and less with every passing day, Slowly they wont be feeling any remorse in lying to there loved one's

If CV's have to make them feel shit all the time about what they are doing they wouldn't have started the affair at first place, If they have started they will do everything without any regret. It is why we call it extra martial affair.
From where did you come to conclusion that people indulging in EMA don't have any guilt..they won't have any guilt if they don't have any moral values..may be that's the case with Ku**Nan.
From the 1st promo of the show it was clear that its going to be EMA between the leads, The voiceover of kunal clearly said how things changed after a frnd entered there life, People are having trouble digesting it bcoz CV have not shown anyone negative,
???😲😲Then what are Kunal and Nandini!!! positive?😲
They may have expected that Mauli will be negative or something, She will do something really bad to make kunal seeks love out of Marriage, But CV's never took that turn they were brave enough to show it as in bold way, Here the wife is positive and loving still husband fell for another one..
ya ya..very brave and bold that they have to bring the divine angle to sell the EMA.
If they would have tragic way and negative way Kunal may have got sympathy from audience but mat he CVs didnt want to show it, They want to show it as rejection from society, Mauli's mother gave a trailor to Nandini already.

Usually what happens in show is that love return from past but here kunal nandini had only one connection that is Mauli, No one is shown highly negative , It just happened..

Regarding God sign was shown from Nandini side not from kunal, Nandini was into abusive realtion kunal came like a fresh air caring helping n everything women want in their partner (May ne they went bit extra notch in showing it).
Sorry dear you forgot the most important thing a woman want in her partner and that is FAITHFULNESS/FIDELITY.

Two ppl are having EMA how does it mean they dont have morals related to other aspects of their life , How it means they are not humans anymore or have humanity left to feel fir society's other issues, How that justify that Nandini cant feel bad for what rajdeep did to her recently, Just bcoz they are having an affair doesnt mean they have no values left for other relations of there life.
if a person does not give a second thought before hurting their close ones, don't feel any guilt for giving them extreme amount of pain then how can we expect them to feel for the society,show kindness towards others?



Edited by Ardhanarishwara - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
#42
So the consummation happened between Kunal and Nandini...
This is the reason for all the halla hoo here 😆

I would just like to know what do people expect out of the extra martial affair, Is extra martial affair means just the dating but not the consummation, what do u expect them to play Teen Patti with each other instead of making out 😆

If someone is having affair outside marriage its not just for talking chatting on phone they will eventually do everything with other, They feel more attraction n passion from there respective partner at home, They lie they hide it from the society, Nobody just go to there partner and tell them listen i am having an affait could you give me a divorce and leave. They would feel its wrong that they are cheating at the start but once they are into it , It starts to matter less and less with every passing day, Slowly they wont be feeling any remorse in lying to there loved one's

If CV's have to make them feel shit all the time about what they are doing they wouldn't have started the affair at first place, If they have started they will do everything without any regret. It is why we call it extra martial affair.

From the 1st promo of the show it was clear that its going to be EMA between the leads, The voiceover of kunal clearly said how things changed after a frnd entered there life, People are having trouble digesting it bcoz CV have not shown anyone negative, They may have expected that Mauli will be negative or something, She will do something really bad to make kunal seeks love out of Marriage, But CV's never took that turn they were brave enough to show it as in bold way, Here the wife is positive and loving still husband fell for another one..


If they would have tragic way and negative way Kunal may have got sympathy from audience but mat he CVs didnt want to show it, They want to show it as rejection from society, Mauli's mother gave a trailor to Nandini already.

Usually what happens in show is that love return from past but here kunal nandini had only one connection that is Mauli, No one is shown highly negative , It just happened..

Regarding God sign was shown from Nandini side not from kunal, Nandini was into abusive realtion kunal came like a fresh air caring helping n everything women want in their partner (May ne they went bit extra notch in showing it)

Two ppl are having EMA how does it mean they dont have morals related to other aspects of their life , How it means they are not humans anymore or have humanity left to feel fir society's other issues, How that justify that Nandini cant feel bad for what rajdeep did to her recently, Just bcoz they are having an affair doesnt mean they have no values left for other relations of there life.


People who engage in affairs don't understand boundaries. It's why society shows them reacts to them in the manner we do. If you don't have boundaries in one area, chances are you will cross them in others. These are people who cannot be trusted; this is why society tends to shun cheaters. They are capable of anything. If you can't be truthful to the person you swore to be faithful to in front of God, who can trust you? Fundamentally, this is what people think when they think of cheaters. Whether or not they still have humanity, whatever. The issue is cheating has consequences. Cheaters are selfish by nature, and especially if they are married, they want their cake and eat it too. This Kunal character (😡 ) is especially heinous because he is spineless. You say people can't be blamed if they fall out of love; the heart what it wants. Well, you know what? that's fine but it's a CHOICE to deceive your wife/husband. The cheater is choosing to have the status of marriage/family along with the side piece. Second, cheaters affair down; meaning the person they are cheating with is often inferior to the spouse. Case in point, Nandini. She is a mess. A weak, pathetic woman.
I don't see how Mauli is so stupid. Oh, yes she is, so dumb. Everyone knows you never bring a miserable woman into your life. It's only a matter of time before she wants what you have. Really. It's as clear as day why they are cheating: Nandini is jealous of Mauli's life and wants it. Now she has it. Kunal is angry at his more successful wife. He feels emasculated. His turn to the even in distress Nandini makes him feel good about himself. Like a man. Finally, he can come to the rescue!

This has nothing to do with love. Lust sure. Most affairs occur because the cheater is missing something with him/herself and they look OUTWARD to fill the void. You can see these characters a mile away. They are never happy. The grass is always greener on the other side. It's the thrill of the chase, the fantasy, the escape. They don't have the drudgery of bills, children, healthcare. It's all lala land. This is why Mauli is never even considered in their trysts because they are living in a dream state. You know when it ends? When the affair is exposed. No longer will it have the titillating aspect to it. Then you see what type of love the cheaters really shared.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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People who engage in affairs don't understand boundaries. It's why society shows them reacts to them in the manner we do. If you don't have boundaries in one area, chances are you will cross them in others. These are people who cannot be trusted; this is why society tends to shun cheaters. They are capable of anything. If you can't be truthful to the person you swore to be faithful to in front of God, who can trust you? Fundamentally, this is what people think when they think of cheaters. Whether or not they still have humanity, whatever. The issue is cheating has consequences. Cheaters are selfish by nature, and especially if they are married, they want their cake and eat it too. This Kunal character (😡 ) is especially heinous because he is spineless. You say people can't be blamed if they fall out of love; the heart what it wants. Well, you know what? that's fine but it's a CHOICE to deceive your wife/husband. The cheater is choosing to have the status of marriage/family along with the side piece. Second, cheaters affair down; meaning the person they are cheating with is often inferior to the spouse. Case in point, Nandini. She is a mess. A weak, pathetic woman.

I don't see how Mauli is so stupid. Oh, yes she is, so dumb. Everyone knows you never bring a miserable woman into your life. It's only a matter of time before she wants what you have. Really. It's as clear as day why they are cheating: Nandini is jealous of Mauli's life and wants it. Now she has it. Kunal is angry at his more successful wife. He feels emasculated. His turn to the even in distress Nandini makes him feel good about himself. Like a man. Finally, he can come to the rescue!

This has nothing to do with love. Lust sure. Most affairs occur because the cheater is missing something with him/herself and they look OUTWARD to fill the void. You can see these characters a mile away. They are never happy. The grass is always greener on the other side. It's the thrill of the chase, the fantasy, the escape. They don't have the drudgery of bills, children, healthcare. It's all lala land. This is why Mauli is never even considered in their trysts because they are living in a dream state. You know when it ends? When the affair is exposed. No longer will it have the titillating aspect to it. Then you see what type of love the cheaters really shared.


A perfect response 👏

Your 2nd para is point On !!! Sadly This is the Mauli's biggest blunder, complete
trust in her so called backstabber BFF who gives a damn about their friendship
Mauli is such a sweetheart, I feel terrible to call her dumb, but yes she is to some
extent 😕


And to the TM, what do you expect ...instead of criticizing, Embrace their
so called Divine EMA, applaud & encourage the characters to continue their
backstabbing ?????
These two characters have gone down to the gutters now. A very very minute
chance for any sort of redemption.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Arnav90



The God angle was shown from Nandini's perspective, It was shown in way for girl who was getting abused met someone very caring an ideal kind of a person, It was not shown from Kunal's perspective...

EMA is wrong i agree but how can u say those person who are committing this cannot be good, They are cheating with there partner its definitely there mistake but that doesn't mean they dont have any moral values left regarding other ppl related to them, They don't any humanity left..

What is destiny as per you, Anything that happens unexpectedly in our life which we didn't knew will happen we name it as Kismat destiny weather its good or bad, Didn't ppl say shayad bhagwan ki yahi marzi thee when they dont understand things, It makes them feel better...

Regarding Jajbaat thing what is jajbaat it simply means feelings which include everything love lust attraction etc so what is wrong in saying it as jajbaat



Can you say a person who commits murder is moral? Especially a full grown adult? Can you say an adult that sexually harasses has good morals otherwise? Same goes for EMA. I'm sorry but you are too some extent being a blind fan here.
Edited by grumpydwarf - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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TM when promos were released, it showed both Kunal and Nandini feeling GUILTY and CONCERNED for Mauli. How they were not acting on their feelings due to how it would affect her. Maybe you think this show is in line with the initial selling point of the promos, I certainly think it is nowhere similar.
This is not just some chick Kunal slept with and Kunal is not some guy Nandini banged. I'm sorry to be crude here.

What they did was more than just an affair, it is a huge betrayal of trust. If a person who put everything on the line for you in terms of her own security and was a huge support to you, would you go and screw that person's spouse? This is what the show is telling us. It is romanticizing what is a betrayal there in lies the problem.

Ok they slept together fine but after that Nandini acts like literally it is the most normal thing ever. This serial is so badly written I swear- lmfao I can't wait for it to crash and burn.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: grumpydwarf



Can you say a person who commits murder is moral? Especially a full grown adult? Can you say an adult that sexually harasses has good morals otherwise? Same goes for EMA. I'm sorry but you are too some extent being a blind fan here.

Sorry but how can you compare something as extreme and heinous as murder or sexual harassment to EMA? How can taking away life or harassing someone or not knowing what consent is be compared to EMA? There is a reason offenses like murder, rape and sexual offenses are punishable by every law in every country but not EMA. EMA isnt right but certainly isn't on the level of murder and rape .That comparison seems invalid and far fetched in my opinion.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Alohomora_


Sorry but how can you compare something as extreme and heinous as murder or sexual harassment to EMA? How can taking away life or harassing someone or not knowing what consent is be compared to EMA? There is a reason offenses like murder, rape and sexual offenses are punishable by every law in every country but not EMA. EMA isnt right but certainly isn't on the level of murder and rape .That comparison seems invalid and far fetched in my opinion.



First thing I wasn't talking about laws and punishment. I was talking about morals. Even some forms of racism and misogyny are legal. But that doesn't make them right. Nor do most people consider racist and misogynist moral in all other forms.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: kim-900

Welcome to the World of haters who likes to repeat themselves like broken record we get it please stop it

They using god to justify their affair
It is not love but lust
she is abuse victim
I am watching this for Mauli's journey
Nandini seduced Kunal
Nandini dressin code
Mauli is a perfect wife
blah blah blah blah blah blah 🤣
In reality you don't even feel bad for Mauli, What bothers you is that your shipping is sinking,Kunal does not love Mauli 💔 for crying out loud find something else to talk about


I am yet to find anyone who is shipping Kunal and Mauli. No one expects or wants these 2 to be together or gives a damn to that ship.

That's highly delusional of anyone to think that people want Kunal-Mauli together. Kunal can go ahead to screw any woman as he likes. No one cares about him.

Wanna talk about shipping. It was when Klaus and Caroline were shipped for years even when Klaus and Camille went on together. Or it is when Jamie and Brienne of Tarth are shipped.

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