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Posted: 7 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: pamk06


I have more hope in her character than that and Nandini is the center of this drama. They will not make her that negative. I do think that subconsciously she does feel guilty but between Kunal's love and Mauli's friendship, Kunal's love is more important. Hence, may be, in her innocence she is thinking that if Mauli does not know then its all OK. Same concept, if you don't know, you are not hurt.

So, coming back to their friendship, I do agree with explanation on the dynamics of their friendship but even if Mauli needs Nandini more, that friendship is important to Nandini. Add to the fact that she is lying when she has never before done, in Mauli own terms. So, when faced with the accusation, its natural that the all the guilt for lying, for loving becomes the emotional overload that comes out in the form of tears. Tears have been her constant companion and because she was not able to defend herself in front of Rajdeep, tears were her expression to show all her displeasure, suffering, pain etc. Also, because she is not used to lying, she fumbles so her first reaction is always admitting to the crime.

When this blows up, I think her guilt will overshadow her love, more for breaking her love's marriage than her friendship. I do think she will leave and the child might be her support.

PS: As they are getting a good TRP, I don't think Mauli will find the whole truth, may be an inkling, confront them too but she just might go back to her happy world if they convince her. Rajdeep will fall on his face or go to jail (CCTV's in Nandini house will prove the domestic violence) and there might be a leap






am expecting that nandini might become grey. am reminded of cartoons where a character wears the wrong coloured bracelet -- they get strength and energy but it is the wrong/evil type. so then there is havoc. and then the bracelet gets broken and they are worn out and faint. then they have to rebuild themselves? so am thinking nandini might have that type of journey. as she gets more strength and confidence from kunal's love, she will also become more demanding -- right now, she has little self-esteem and is happy with scraps that kunal gives. but as she gets confidence, she is going to demand more from him...

or, alternatively, if CVs stick to this whole fated love angle (which is kind of weird but lets go with it), then nandini will remain nandini. the darkness may come more from rajdeep's character. probably watch too many detective shows but I keep thinking with a character like rajdeep, we can expect murder or attempted murder...

and yea, I don't expect mouli to find out for quite some time. the suspense has to build before the storm breaks... but like you said, she is going to feel more guilt for bringing havoc into kunal's life than for mouli. her priority and loyalty is to kunal.
Edited by mango_pudding1 - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: pamk06


Frankly, Mauli confuses me more than Kunal and Nandini. I just don't know how she will react. On one side we see this strong woman who can cut anyone in half but only if she does not care for them. But then we see her with her mom, she is not strong there at all. She is very insecure in that relationship and hence she might have clung to Nandini initially. Nandini's calming presence might be her solace in the teenage years and Nandini was the person who gave that confidence that she can do it (Remember Nandini used to push her to be the doctor).

Then, later in life, it is Kunal who help her with her insecurities as a homemaker. For her, the ideal homemaker is Nandini and Kunal would have been more happy with her. Hence, subsconsiously she want to be like Nandini, hence we see her always comparing be it Rangoli, dance, food, etc.

Finding out of the betrayal would be her worst fear coming to life, it would be devastating. I will go with denial but going with her character sketch, she will confront them, If they explain her logically, she would accept it (especially if the truth has come from Rajdeep) and go back in her happy world. (in a way denying as that better than facing the pain of betrayal). That has been her graph till now and if they are sticking to the original storyline

If now based on the backlash, if they make this Mauli's story, then we might see something different.







@summerrain7 -- I can definitely see that kind of scenario happening. rajdeep tells her but she takes it as his vengeful spirit and gives him a slap instead. 😆

@pmk06 -- yea, same here. more than nandini, it is mouli who I find confusing. so not sure how she will react. at least in other ema stories, a new guy gets introduced who usually helps the wife after she is devastated. a prince to the rescue! whether or not it will happen here, we will have to see.
Edited by mango_pudding1 - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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@summerrain7 -- I can definitely see that kind of scenario happening. rajdeep tells her but she takes it as his vengeful spirit and gives him a slap instead. 😆

@pmk06 -- yea, same here. more than nandini, it is mouli who I find confusing. so not sure how she will react. at least in other ema stories, a new guy gets introduced who usually helps the wife after she is devastated. a prince to the rescue! whether or not it will happen here, we will have to see.


I would have agreed with you on Nandini turning grey if they would not have quoted this as the fated love story. Kunal genuinely seems in love with her and they confirmed it twice, quite recently for us. Also, I doubt DD would agree to be negative.

And then it also about business, Everyone wants Mauli;s story and if they show that, then how long can they pull the show and how many viewers will continue watching it. Mauli is the hook and Kunal-Nandini the pull, even if its negative. As long as they keep that suspense, viewers will keep watching the show. If they would not have maintain the TRPs, then yes, it would be a full disclosure but I do see another earthquake coming to the forums😉. I do hope not though.

For a change, this show has been a surprise as its dared to show something not the norm. Like they knew the reaction that they will get with consummation but they still went ahead with it. That is something.

Next week, will tell us whether the ball is in Mauli's court or Nandini? Kunal has no choice, lets see where he lands.😆






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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: pamk06


I would have agreed with you on Nandini turning grey if they would not have quoted this as the fated love story. Kunal genuinely seems in love with her and they confirmed it twice, quite recently for us. Also, I doubt DD would agree to be negative.

And then it also about business, Everyone wants Mauli;s story and if they show that, then how long can they pull the show and how many viewers will continue watching it. Mauli is the hook and Kunal-Nandini the pull, even if its negative. As long as they keep that suspense, viewers will keep watching the show. If they would not have maintain the TRPs, then yes, it would be a full disclosure but I do see another earthquake coming to the forums😉. I do hope not though.

For a change, this show has been a surprise as its dared to show something not the norm. Like they knew the reaction that they will get with consummation but they still went ahead with it. That is something.

Next week, will tell us whether the ball is in Mauli's court or Nandini? Kunal has no choice, lets see where he lands.😆





@pamk06 -- find this whole fated love story kind of weird. as in am not sure what the CVs are trying to tell and can understand why some find that really aggravating. if we look at it from a literature classics view, a fated love story is always almost tragic and ends with two lovers getting killed and mayhem and chaos for everyone else. even if it isn't exactly tragic, there is still this element of people trying to fight their fate but then finding themselves unable to and succoming to it. so in the classics, fate is almost like a cruel puppet master and falling in love has rather tragic consequences...

in current day real life, fate has different meanings at different times. when people's marriages are fixed or celebrating wedding, people often attribute it to fate -- they were meant to meet. it was destined etc. but then ask married couples of a few years about how they got married, there is a wry response -- "fate!" followed by a huge sigh or a shake of the head. it indicates a complicated relationship - neither happy neither sad, just life. so in that situation, what is fate? is it positive or negative?

then, we have our serials where we viewers are constantly clobbered in the head about how the leads are destined to be. then they hit the 150 episode mark and it turns into saas bahu nonsense and there is no more talk of fate or destiny except when folks are getting exasperated with each other...😆

in most serials, the leads are single and so the whole destined to be sounds romantic. here, the leads are married to other people and it is an affair. so if the CVs are saying it is a destined love story, then what exactly is his marriage to mouli? or, they saying from a literature classical way where fate is cruel and so these two are going to end up destroying each other? or is this element of fate to explain that they don't have any control over the situation?

wish the CVs would clear this up a bit better but then, part of me wonders if the CVs are pushing the fated love story simply to create controversy and TRPs. people are probably watching just to yell at the tv! 😆
Edited by mango_pudding1 - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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@pamk06 -- find this whole fated love story kind of weird. as in am not sure what the CVs are trying to tell and can understand why some find that really aggravating. if we look at it from a literature classics view, a fated love story is always almost tragic and ends with two lovers getting killed and mayhem and chaos for everyone else. even if it isn't exactly tragic, there is still this element of people trying to fight their fate but then finding themselves unable to and succoming to it. so in the classics, fate is almost like a cruel puppet master and falling in love has rather tragic consequences...

in current day real life, fate has different meanings at different times. when people's marriages are fixed or celebrating wedding, people often attribute it to fate -- they were meant to meet. it was destined etc. but then ask married couples of a few years about how they got married, there is a wry response -- "fate!" followed by a huge sigh or a shake of the head. it indicates a complicated relationship - neither happy neither sad, just life. so in that situation, what is fate? is it positive or negative?

then, we have our serials where we viewers are constantly clobbered in the head about how the leads are destined to be. then they hit the 150 episode mark and it turns into saas bahu nonsense and there is no more talk of fate or destiny except when folks are getting exasperated with each other...😆

in most serials, the leads are single and so the whole destined to be sounds romantic. here, the leads are married to other people and it is an affair. so if the CVs are saying it is a destined love story, then what exactly is his marriage to mouli? or, they saying from a literature classical way where fate is cruel and so these two are going to end up destroying each other? or is this element of fate to explain that they don't have any control over the situation?

wish the CVs would clear this up a bit better but then, part of me wonders if the CVs are pushing the fated love story simply to create controversy and TRPs. people are probably watching just to yell at the tv! 😆


I, myself, was surprised that they went with this fated angle based on how they showed the initial story. If they would have shown that he was not happy or he knew her before, it would have made more sense and we could have accepted it. Because they went for something so different or something that we cannot imagine can happen, its more difficult to swallow. Like he is happily married. Thus everyone has a hard time believing that he can fall in love. But it happens. May be the angle that they are going is love can happen anytime, anywhere with anyone irrespective of the human boundaries that we have instill around ourselves.

Love with anger, pride, lust are natural reactions but ethics, morals, loyalty are emotions that come with upbringing, character etc. Thus even though love can happen, what we do about these boundaries is the choice that we make based on our ethics, moral, character etc, be it anytime in our life. Like even if your teenager fallen in love, your boundaries are your parents, caste, society etc. There was also a time when love was considered a taboo, a sin but then it became more acceptable with time. But even now, if your parents or society does not agree, like if it is intercaste marriage, it again comes to choice you make. Whether you hurt your parents or sacrifice your love.
But love before marriage and love after marriage are two completely different things because marriage is a sacred bond. Love after marriage can be more destructible than before marriage. May be the CV's are trying to show this, that how love is not controllable but what we do with it, can make it beautiful or destructive. Sacrifice vs selfishness? We will know more based on Kunal's reaction after and if Mauli finds out.

The only thing that I can compare this to is Neetu Singh in "Jab tak hain Jahan". There she fell in love with Rishi Kapoor and choose him over her daughter, Katrina. Her only regret was that she had to stay away from her daughter her whole life but she still decided to go with love as she thought that she will be unhappy and in turn, will make her daughter unhappy.

Thus, like Neetu Singh, it would really help if they start showing them more mature and less teenager like. Its high time, Nandini grows up to her character and start taking some meaningful decisions of something called "Life". Especially if they want to show this as fated love story which should be more of sacrifice then selfishness. Like you said tragic.




Edited by pamk06 - 7 years ago
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Some interesting discussions here. Just dropped by to ask you all what you feel might happen post revelation? A major leap on the way?
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Originally posted by: chulbuliladki

Some interesting discussions here. Just dropped by to ask you all what you feel might happen post revelation? A major leap on the way?



absolutely no clue! hahahah... am guessing that mauli may try to self-delude herself that it is not what she thinks but she will struggle with feelings of insecurity and may lash out at kunal. what was fun was everyone saw and everyone's eyebrows were raised -- but then he has drunk baang? and so it can be attributed to just bad drink?

don't wish to take any names and offend any fans but wonder if the CVs are taking inspiration from certain actors of previous generations who have had similar kind of stories/experiences.
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@pamk06 @summerrain7 -- do you understand rajdeep? he is pretty hilarious but I am wondering what track the CVs have him on. so right before kunal starts beating him, rajdeep actually seemed extremely amused. he knew exactly what he was doing and he almost seemed to wink at mouli or maybe he just likes wriggling his eyebrows! hahahahha...

but then, when kunal is yelling at him, rajdeep looks like he is about to burst the bubble and is warning kunal that it wont' be bad for him, but for everyone. he looks at mouli and not sure what he thinks but actually holds his tongue -- I was like "what on earth was that????????"

and when mouli talks to him separately, he is almost weirdly gentle --- he isn't gloating but instead more exasperated. basically saying "hey I am the villain but girl, use your brain!" his dialogues were so on point but it was his delivery that confused me -- is he playing mind games with her that he almost cares?
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Originally posted by: mango_pudding1

@pamk06 @summerrain7 -- do you understand rajdeep? he is pretty hilarious but I am wondering what track the CVs have him on. so right before kunal starts beating him, rajdeep actually seemed extremely amused. he knew exactly what he was doing and he almost seemed to wink at mouli or maybe he just likes wriggling his eyebrows! hahahahha...

but then, when kunal is yelling at him, rajdeep looks like he is about to burst the bubble and is warning kunal that it wont' be bad for him, but for everyone. he looks at mouli and not sure what he thinks but actually holds his tongue -- I was like "what on earth was that????????"

and when mouli talks to him separately, he is almost weirdly gentle --- he isn't gloating but instead more exasperated. basically saying "hey I am the villain but girl, use your brain!" his dialogues were so on point but it was his delivery that confused me -- is he playing mind games with her that he almost cares?



I think its all mind games. He is indirectly playing on her vulnerabilities and was kind of pointing out to her that "Look at your husband and his attitude toward Nandini". She is, anyways, insecure about Nandini, now with all this in her mind, she will start looking at them closely and with each interaction she witnesses,she might think that there is something going on and that Kunal prefers Nandini which also her biggest fear. And then would be her breaking point, lets see what that is.
I do not think Rajdeep cares for her but for Nandini because he think as long as Mauli is with Nandini, he will never have her back. So, if Mauli throws Nandini out, she will have no support and Nandini will come back to him. But in reality, Nandini strength is not Mauli but her love for Kunal which will stop her from going back to him and move forward in life.
Edited by pamk06 - 7 years ago
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@mango_pudding1 - I agree with pamk06, Rajdeep is playing mind games with Mauli. He has already tried to character- assassinate Nandini, so no one will anyways believe him without proof. Also, I think he is taking pleasure in this slow torture that he is doing to Mauli. A seed of doubt has already been planted in her mind and I think she will start to look at Kunal and Nandini with new eyes. Rajdeep is shrewd and not always a joker.

In yesterday's epi, the whole dance competition thing was such a bore. Who on earth keeps that kind of competition for Ganesh Utsav? Nandini's dance was still a little classical in nature but that white sari womam was dancing like Raveena Tandon in the song tip tip barsa paani 😃

The bits I liked in yesterday's episode was obviously Nandini's guilt and Kunal Bhaiyya's blatant lying. Nandini has snapped out of that trance like state at least temporarily. And like another member mentioned here , they are focussing on Nandini's wringing hands every now and then. I really hope this is something to do with her anxiety and trauma and the makers will address it.

Kunal's blatant lying is making him look like a grey character now and that is how it should be. But I also want to see him disturbed because of this duality that he has to maintain. For someone like Kunal who is not used to this kind of deception, these things should be difficult and I want to see all this taking a toll on him. But he still doesn't worry about Mauli, does he? He looked like he was in a daze when Mauli was hugging him and saying all that. Does he even feel a little bad for her? If he were to look at her once with some pain etched on his face and thinking, " what am I doing to you?" that would have worked for me. I still find it so hard to believe that he can fall out of love with Mauli so easily and so quickly.


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