What Nandini expects from Mauli??? - Page 9

this entire story line didnt connect with me at all..for whatever reason. I watched for Drashti for a while..thats all.

Originally posted by: music_l0ver036

Okay I did make a general assumption and I apologize for that. But the ending of your original post talks about Nandani calling for Mauli and Nandani expecting Mauli to help her as something totally drastic and unrealistic. Yes Nandani is in this situation with kunal, which is wrong for many reasons. But that does not mean that Nandani contacting the people that have been helping her from the start is unreasonable. Nandani wasn't upset at Mauli nor Kunal for not picking up the phone, if she was then that would have been a little stupid. But her first thought was to contact Mauli because it's what she was TOLD to do ever since she moved out. If she needed anything then to call them. And her character growth isn't so fast that she'll be able to take care of herself right away, especially when it comes to Rajdeep. So the people laughing at this post are also unintentionally trivializing Nandani's need for support when she's vulnerable. And it is not looking at her experiences as a whole and only nitpicking her faults. I am sorry once again that I didn't articulate my thoughts at all when replying the first time. I was obviously angry.

I get ur frustration, fans r irritated tat ppl r daily criticizing & Nandini is bearing the major brunt of this criticism. The prob is neutral viewers like me r just plain annoyed with the character Nandini. Sometimes its shoddy writing, sometimes the direction, in some cases its the acting. Sometimes DD's crying annoys me. 1 eg is that scene in Goa where she listened 2 Mauli's speech. Her expressions were OTT.

If the writers want us 2 sympathize with this character the writing s'd b clear. For eg I used 2 watch BP earlier. Even there POOSH were having affair but none of the viewers downright despised these 2 characters. There were posts aft posts in the forum pointing out the flaws in Adi & Zoya citing reasons why POOSH were unhappy in their respective marriages. Ppl still disliked POOSH but there was no downright condemnation or revulsion. Though the CVs dint justify EMA viewers still understood the cracks/issues in the 2 marriages. Here there is no proper lead up. Yes Nandini suffered immensely in her marriage. But tat doesnt justify having an affair with ur best friend's hubby.

Chalo lets just say she has her own reasons 4 having an affair with a married man. How does she even ve the audacity to talk 2 Mauli, pretend everything is fine, hug her & all the while flirting with Mauli's hubby. Even yest she called Mauli when she was attacked by Rajdeep, I was like WT*. You are having an affair with this woman's hubby & u r calling her for help. Look, if u decide on something u must ve the courage & conviction 2 stick by ur decision. Here the line has been crossed. Nandini has decided 2 ve an affair with Kunal. Then she has 2 accept the consequence. She s;d no longer expect any help from Mauli. Hell this is the woman u r cheating & u want her help. Kya logic hai yeh. She has 2 choose. Does she want Mauli's friendship or Kunal's love. She cant ve both! Its like she has a switch. 1 moment Rajdeep is terrorizing her, trying 2 rape her & she is all broken down (which is valid & understandable). Then next moment she is all decked up & flirting with Kunal. When i was in college, once a man grabbed me in bus. For 1 week I was so panicky, scared, angry on all men & refused to go by bus. My parents had 2 counsel me. Here imm next day she is flirting with Kunal. Is tis even possible? How can I person b so normal so soon aft such a trauma...

Originally posted by: music_l0ver036

you are oversimplifying what Nandani has been through. I understand you don't agree with the premise of the show but that doesn't mean you criticize every aspect of Nandani. She has layers, faults, goodness, and she has been through traumatic experiences like humans usually go through. You can't take an event from her life and keep berating her and insinuate that she deserves to be raped. That is what almost everyone in this post is saying, that Nandani deserves all the things thats been happening to her because she is making a mistake.

Originally posted by: oldanurprernfan

this strategy isn't gonna work. No-one said nandu deserves to be abused or raped. Not the first time people tried to ruin topic by making such claims. Not gonna work here. The same thing is repeated in every post where nandu is criticised . I m sick of the deliberate ploy to destroy topic
🥱People here are adults and having discussion simply

Ignore

when Nandini has not fallen in love with Kunal those who criticize Nandini use to say that Kunal falling in love with Nandini look unrealistic but instead if Nandini first fallen in love with Kunal it would be realistic

because Nandini has reason to fall in love with Kunal because Kunal has save Nandini life many times so it is naturally Nandini fall in love with Nandini

but Kunal fall In love with Nandini look unbelievable

those who r crictizing Nandini use to say such things

but when she fell for Kunal .here people crictizing her

kyon ab Nandini ka Kunal ko chahna natural nahi lagta ?

pehle to yeh kaha jaata tha that they would have understood if Nandini fall for Kunal . but how Kunal falling for Nandini is not understandable

Originally posted by: surabhi01

when Nandini has not fallen in love with Kunal those who criticize Nandini use to say that Kunal falling in love with Nandini look unrealistic but instead if Nandini first fallen in love with Kunal it would be realistic

because Nandini has reason to fall in love with Kunal because Kunal has save Nandini life many times so it is naturally Nandini fall in love with Nandini

but Kunal fall In love with Nandini look unbelievable

those who r crictizing Nandini use to say such things

but when she fell for Kunal .here people crictizing her

kyon ab Nandini ka Kunal ko chahna natural nahi lagta ?

pehle to yeh kaha jaata tha that they would have understood if Nandini fall for Kunal . but how Kunal falling for Nandini is not understandable

Originally posted by: surabhi01

when Nandini has not fallen in love with Kunal those who criticize Nandini use to say that Kunal falling in love with Nandini look unrealistic but instead if Nandini first fallen in love with Kunal it would be realistic

because Nandini has reason to fall in love with Kunal because Kunal has save Nandini life many times so it is naturally Nandini fall in love with Nandini

but Kunal fall In love with Nandini look unbelievable

those who r crictizing Nandini use to say such things

but when she fell for Kunal .here people crictizing her

kyon ab Nandini ka Kunal ko chahna natural nahi lagta ?

pehle to yeh kaha jaata tha that they would have understood if Nandini fall for Kunal . but how Kunal falling for Nandini is not understandable

Originally posted by: arshi_asya

And did people forget to mention the guilt part of Nandini if ever she fell for Kunal. I don't think so. Did people not say about Nandini being upfront witb Mauli on Kunal? Did people not say despite falling for him hard, she shouldn't be engaging in any relationship with him, rather she should begin to maintin her distance? Did people not consider her denying Kunal's advances for Mauli's sake.

Nandini isn't having guilt, she is lying and walking in her friend's home as if all is fine even when it isn't, not even trying to maintain a distance or saying No at the first direct confession that came to her, not establishing a clear line. How hard did Nandini fight her feelings? How much did she think of the whole situation. Where did Nandini create a line? Nowhere.

Nandini falling for Kunal isn't a problem but Nandini going ahead to have an affair despite knowing he is her friend's husband is. People don't start a relationship immediately everytime they like begin to like someone. Besides, no one expected Nandini to fall for him with Babaji ka prediction. Nandini's feelings were supposed to be gradual, once she was done with Rajdeep and had estblished a little in her life.

This woman is a mess at current situation.

How hard is it to comprehend that?

I am not a avid watcher but IMO ,what is confusing people is the duality in Nandini's characterisation.

they have shown three episodes of her guilt .

first


return from Temple
she hold photo of mauli and cry bitterly

2 when she was under shower . she was saying how can I do such things to mauli

3 when she wrote letter to mauli