Mauli has her own flaws too!!!! - Page 9

Originally posted by: pamk06

I meant medicines or machines to treat the poor for free. I don't know about anyone else, but I would definitely want to see the house before buying it. Be part of the selection of the paint , see the unfurnished house, see if I like the location, selecti the windows if possible , if it's under contrcutio check the plan, and select the floor too. Infact now when I think about it , I would be mad if he just dumps the house on me like that.

Anyways, everyone is different and some people are Ok with certain things and not Ok with certain things , I am a person who thinks that big investments should be a joint decision. There is a difference between "Let's go buy a house vs " I have bought a house

Originally posted by: DimpledGirl203

People say its wrong that mauli is surprising her hubby by gifting him a clinic on which he can build his dreams because she is doing behind his back...

What about the gift Mr. Kunal is giving to mouli's friend behind her back?🤢 oh yea right that is out of louuu..and they are destined couple...ok fine!!😆

Originally posted by: amortentia15

No one is perfect! Mauli isnt as well but she comes as close to perfection as one can in terms of integrity, honesty, responsibilty, to stand for what is right and what is not...

Financial decisions...i dont know if kunal is even thinking of his clinic anymore... Arent his thoughts hovering around Nandini all the time... He might be stupefied now if MAULI sat down to discuss logistics and finance with him...😆

I genuinely want to know whether all of her flaws as mentioned are grave enough to drive such a deep wedge as will be shown if Kunal's feelings for Nandini were not involved in the middle???...

Would he blow off the lid the same way if he still loved his wife???

Originally posted by: whatthelife

I guess we are forgetting a dialogue between Mauli and Mauli's mother-in-law.

When they visited the clinic, Mauli was excited about how the clinic is going to be built and she also said "there is a playground, cafe (can't fully remember), JUST LIKE KUNAL WANTS"

So, she is getting the clinic done keeping his likes and interests in mind. It hints they had spoken about it in the past.

Originally posted by: Jiggy7

Then we have to agree to disagree.. If my finances permit, I won't mind giving a costly real estate as gift to my partner... Similarly I would like it if he does same.. Unless either of us makes a decision which may force us to go under, there is no reason to take a surprise negatively...

Originally posted by: intruderfast

10 pages 😆. Wow Mauli is very popular I must say.

Kaun keh raha tha show sirf Kunan kaa hai😆.

Saari baat Ek Taraf rakho,kyaa Kunal ko Mauli ke behaviour se problem thi. I guess not. And if he has why hasn't he voiced it.. Every couple has diff way to make their marriage work.

Some might feel Mauli is doing wrong, some may not.

There is no perfect formula for successful marriage. Each couple has their own way.

As I see it, the marriage was going gr8 guns till Kunal jazbaaton (yaa kahoon baarish) mein beh gaya. And then Kunal has stopped expressing herself to Mauli, is keeping a distance from her. Mauli has repeatedly asked him what's the issue but he is obv not telling. Upar se wo child jaata hai aaj kal Uske Upar.

There is a big communication gap now btwn them and that's only cos of Kunal.

Originally posted by: amortentia15

Mauli not being popular would be a little weird...she resonates with me is all i can say and with a lot of people...i mean i have admired her for a lot of things but i used to cheer for her the way she handled Rajdeep... Who does that for a friend taking on a debauch like Rajdeep so valiantly! Sadly she is going to pay very dearly for all her good work...

Originally posted by: arshi_asya

I have closely observed blowing off the lid in the same way even when there was no 3rd person involved. Somethings aren't simple & bring out the same reaction no matter if there is any 3rd person or not.

If my husband was being all secretive about things that are personally of importance to me, I would have been hell angry at him for doing that. There are times when I want to be helped & there are times when I don't want to be. And partner has to be understanding enough to understand that. Even my partner expects the same from me. Then why should I not have same standards.

As for financing Kunal's dreams, did Mauli tell Kunal that she will finance him. No. Mauli began to do another job & told Kunal that she is doing it because they have personally asked her to do it. Only Kunal's mom knows about why Mauli is doing this another job.

Being considerate is good but it's not seen by everyone in the same way. So, it's better to do certain things direct way.

Anything can drive wedge in the couple, there is no one formula for it.

Originally posted by: amortentia15

Of course there is no fixed formula to it...and no one's saying Mauli is perfect but today if kunaal berates Mauli for what she's doing for him out of sheer love then a lot of of it will be becsuse of his feelings for N... Do you really thing he would have lashed out at her or manhandled her the way he did if it wasn't for his feelings for Nandini... In the same way his reactions in this case will also be influenced by his emotions for Nandini...

Let's agree to disagree on the part that it would drive the exact wedge between them if there was not the presence of a third person in their relationship...