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Posted: 4 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: brat2008

Oh great

Hope your theory went well

Good luck for your clinicals 👍

Sleep well eat well and do your best ❤️Dear

I went back allmost 30 yrs to my MDS exams 😆

This forum is a total stress buster 😃

Dont be away for too long 🤗

Yes okayish....thank you so much😊 and yes will try to be more active here
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nomadic_Vibe

That's why I said her love isn't unconditional and controlling. Bit like Ishwari in KRPKAB but there Devi was emotionally attached to Ishwari and was indebted too while Shaurya is detached to her. I don't think it's about knowing minute by minute detail only. It's that also but there is genuine love and concern for his well-being. She had the same concern and care when in the initial episode Shaurya broke off with Shagun. Her insecurities about Astha is a factor along with the realization that Shaurya is not that emotionally attached to her inspite of everything. That's why she constantly keeps on reminding him to feel grateful. The bigger question for me is than if Devi loves Shaurya, is that if Shaurya loves her?


I personally find Devi an interesting character, so people having different pov about her isn’t surprising; but I can never consider her worry or concern and instinct of a mother.


@bold: she does subconsciously know ki she only has hold over shaurya until shaurya naturally doesn’t go towards someone else (eg anokhi)

But consciously she still convinced herself that shaurya is closest to her.


The thing is in an effort to push aastha away from him she made him so indebted to him and idk if she realises shaurya feels just that feeling towards her and this is something shaurya himself doesn’t realise, so yeah I don’t think shaurya loves her.


I think of Devi’s love as obsessive controlling manipulative wala love; so yeah love is there from her side but very toxic;

I think we both agree with each other

Just one point ki I don’t find anything nice in her concern.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Dude I totally felt your absense.

Cause you were always there lurking around making sense !

I am missing Ash too. Both of you just kind of eloped

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: EternalSoul17


I personally find Devi an interesting character, so people having different pov about her isn’t surprising; but I can never consider her worry or concern and instinct of a mother.


@bold: she does subconsciously know ki she only has hold over shaurya until shaurya naturally doesn’t go towards someone else (eg anokhi)

But consciously she still convinced herself that shaurya is closest to her.


The thing is in an effort to push aastha away from him she made him so indebted to him and idk if she realises shaurya feels just that feeling towards her and this is something shaurya himself doesn’t realise, so yeah I don’t think shaurya loves her.


I think of Devi’s love as obsessive controlling manipulative wala love; so yeah love is there from her side but very toxic;

I think we both agree with each other

Just one point ki I don’t find anything nice in her concern.

Yes it's a toxic mix of love and manipulation. And yes I agree with your point. I like her equation with Tej lol but I can get why she is so hated
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Akanksha29100

Dude I totally felt your absense.

Cause you were always there lurking around making sense !

I am missing Ash too. Both of you just kind of eloped

I would have been here sooner only I had exams...which are finally partly over. So I'll be around here often. Thank you. It felt nice knowing you are missed 😊
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Posted: 4 years ago
#26

Originally posted by: Nomadic_Vibe

Hola Peeps.

Missed me??? Not even a bit...okay. I missed you all a ton.

So I wanted to express an unpopular opinion...as usual. But I must say Devi really has Mother's instinct and intituation that her child was unwell or there something amiss. That instinct can't come without love and care for the child even if he's not yours. As much as I don't like Devi and her thought process or her manipulation she really loves Shaurya. May be her love isnt unconditional and is controlling but with sense of security and safety in knowing Shaurya is her even if Astha is back will make her see light. Please let me know your thoughts 🙏🙂

I liked this post...becoz I was also thinking on the same lines. If we look hard, we can find actual Mothers like Devi who r possessive abt their kids and refuse to let them grow up.

Although, she never bore Shaurya, she love shaurya as his mother. All good or bad qualities that Shaurya has, is given/taught by Devi. Astha was never there to take care of him. Lets ignore the reason.

2 scenes I will love to see,

1, where Devi stands for Shaurya against Tej, for his happiness, may be accepting Anokhi.

2, Astha acknowledging the fact, that like Yashoda and Devaki, Shaurya has 2 mothers, not one.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Devi is actually a nice woman who does everything to keep her family together. She preserves our ancient traditions and tries to maintain order and discipline in the family and to prevent it from falling apart (a la Dina Pathak in Khoobsurat, old one). She is only against those who try to break the family, like Aastha. She never tried to throw Gayatri and Kanchan out before. It was only when they tried to meet Aastha that she went against them. She actually believes Aastha is a selfish irresponsible woman and that is what she has told Shaurya. What is wrong in that? She has given all her love and attention to the lonely child who was abandoned by his mother so it is not wrong for her to expect that he marries a woman she approves. Most mothers do that. Even though she did not give birth to Shaurya, her maternal instincts are strong. She knows something is wrong with Shaurya. She is against Anokhi because she feels Anokhi is a stubborn girl who will not listen to her elders and this will cause chaos and conflict, and she is not wrong. Anokhi will actually question when she feels something is not justified.

It is Astha who is the villain. She is using Anokhi as a pawn to get back at the Sabharwals for throwing her out of the house. She waited 25 years for the correct opportunity. She is now trying to trap Shaan and her next target will be Shaurya. Slowly she will strenghten her foothold in the family and then usurp all the power from the Sabharwals. Who knows Ahir might be her son from an aduterous relationship who is also a co conspirator. Her actions are so subtle that we are not even aware of it and only seeing Devi's manipulations. Poor Shaurya and Anokhi are unaware that they are just pawns in her game.

🤣

Don't think the heat has got to my head. I would actually watch the hell out of such a show. They have given so much depth to Devi, why would Aastha be left behind. Aajkal wo kafi bland ho gayi hai, so I added some shades. 😉 I would rather have her as a grey character than the bechari abla nari version we are seeing lately.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Idiotboxer

Devi is actually a nice woman who does everything to keep her family together. She preserves our ancient traditions and tries to maintain order and discipline in the family and to prevent it from falling apart (a la Dina Pathak in Khoobsurat, old one). She is only against those who try to break the family, like Aastha. She never tried to throw Gayatri and Kanchan out before. It was only when they tried to meet Aastha that she went against them. She actually believes Aastha is a selfish irresponsible woman and that is what she has told Shaurya. What is wrong in that? She has given all her love and attention to the lonely child who was abandoned by his mother so it is not wrong for her to expect that he marries a woman she approves. Most mothers do that. Even though she did not give birth to Shaurya, her maternal instincts are strong. She knows something is wrong with Shaurya. She is against Anokhi because she feels Anokhi is a stubborn girl who will not listen to her elders and this will cause chaos and conflict, and she is not wrong. Anokhi will actually question when she feels something is not justified.

It is Astha who is the villain. She is using Anokhi as a pawn to get back at the Sabharwals for throwing her out of the house. She waited 25 years for the correct opportunity. She is now trying to trap Shaan and her next target will be Shaurya. Slowly she will strenghten her foothold in the family and then usurp all the power from the Sabharwals. Who knows Ahir might be her son from an aduterous relationship who is also a co conspirator. Her actions are so subtle that we are not even aware of it and only seeing Devi's manipulations. Poor Shaurya and Anokhi are unaware that they are just pawns in her game.

🤣

Don't think the heat has got to my head. I would actually watch the hell out of such a show. They have given so much depth to Devi, why would Aastha be left behind. Aajkal wo kafi bland ho gayi hai, so I added some shades. 😉


CVs might get idea from you😆

Good plot I must say😆

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Idiotboxer

Devi is actually a nice woman who does everything to keep her family together. She preserves our ancient traditions and tries to maintain order and discipline in the family and to prevent it from falling apart (a la Dina Pathak in Khoobsurat, old one). She is only against those who try to break the family, like Aastha. She never tried to throw Gayatri and Kanchan out before. It was only when they tried to meet Aastha that she went against them. She actually believes Aastha is a selfish irresponsible woman and that is what she has told Shaurya. What is wrong in that? She has given all her love and attention to the lonely child who was abandoned by his mother so it is not wrong for her to expect that he marries a woman she approves. Most mothers do that. Even though she did not give birth to Shaurya, her maternal instincts are strong. She knows something is wrong with Shaurya. She is against Anokhi because she feels Anokhi is a stubborn girl who will not listen to her elders and this will cause chaos and conflict, and she is not wrong. Anokhi will actually question when she feels something is not justified.

It is Astha who is the villain. She is using Anokhi as a pawn to get back at the Sabharwals for throwing her out of the house. She waited 25 years for the correct opportunity. She is now trying to trap Shaan and her next target will be Shaurya. Slowly she will strenghten her foothold in the family and then usurp all the power from the Sabharwals. Who knows Ahir might be her son from an aduterous relationship who is also a co conspirator. Her actions are so subtle that we are not even aware of it and only seeing Devi's manipulations. Poor Shaurya and Anokhi are unaware that they are just pawns in her game.

🤣

Don't think the heat has got to my head. I would actually watch the hell out of such a show. They have given so much depth to Devi, why would Aastha be left behind. Aajkal wo kafi bland ho gayi hai, so I added some shades. 😉 I would rather have her as a grey character than the bechari abla nari version we are seeing lately.


Girl!!! For a minute I though you are serious😂😂

I was like kya likh rhi ho tum; I was ready with all my counter points lmao; phir when I read aastha para I understood it’s all sarcastic😭🤡

Though This can be an amazing story in alternate universe. Devi aur uske sangharsh ki kahani🤧

Posted: 4 years ago
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Hey, hope you're fine..

Well, if you wanna hear my opinion Devi is just an overprotective character for all the absurd reasons we are aware of. She cares about the Sabherwal family reputation, status & likewise the reason of her bringing Shagun back in Shaurya's life is for her to keep on controlling him, making him believe what she decides is the best for him & distance Shaurya from the threat called Anokhi, whom she considers as a girl Aastha is using to take charge of the Sabherwal's again.

Shaurya comes home on time, he obeys (used to obey we can say 😆) the elders of his family & he knows badi ma cares about him but things have started changing & the constant darr of whether Shaurya can go missing all of a sudden without anyone of them knowing could be a problem for her. Its like he's slipping away from her hands & there was a scene of Devi few weeks back when she said this as a monologue

Just because we feel worried about someone or their health doesn't have to mean that we're connected to them by heart or we are actually concerned 🤷🏻 (Saying with experience) Even if its with your close people

But yeah I don't completely disagree with you either. At least about 25% of care must be there. At least when bringing up Shaurya she didn't let him feel left out or anything as a child growing in to a man. Devi is a manipulative figure with no self-respect LOL That's what makes us feel nothing about her worrying for Shaurya even for real

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