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Posted: 4 years ago
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Hola Peeps.

Missed me??? Not even a bit...okay. I missed you all a ton.

So I wanted to express an unpopular opinion...as usual. But I must say Devi really has Mother's instinct and intituation that her child was unwell or there something amiss. That instinct can't come without love and care for the child even if he's not yours. As much as I don't like Devi and her thought process or her manipulation she really loves Shaurya. May be her love isnt unconditional and is controlling but with sense of security and safety in knowing Shaurya is her even if Astha is back will make her see light. Please let me know your thoughts 🙏🙂

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I missed you

You and aish are gayab 😕

I was about to tag you today but was inactive myself

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Love is there, yes but so is insecurities and also her obsession with the thought ki shaurya should be in her control; hence She is hellbent in bringing back shagun afterall Shagun toh ab already manipulate ho chuki hai.

I somewhere feel she jaan buch ke created circumstances Which would make aastha leave so that shaurya would be in her control. So aastha coming back would just be like taking away her ‘wajood’ as she calls it hence I feel she will get even more enraged if this happens.

Devi’s love is not only conditional but also controlling. To me her concern felt more like ki she has to know minute to minute details about him and when she doesn’t her insecurities surfaces.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nomadic_Vibe

Hola Peeps.

Missed me??? Not even a bit...okay. I missed you all a ton.

So I wanted to express an unpopular opinion...as usual. But I must say Devi really has Mother's instinct and intituation that her child was unwell or there something amiss. That instinct can't come without love and care for the child even if he's not yours. As much as I don't like Devi and her thought process or her manipulation she really loves Shaurya. May be her love isnt unconditional and is controlling but with sense of security and safety in knowing Shaurya is her even if Astha is back will make her see light. Please let me know your thoughts 🙏🙂

Devi's love is not secure at all....she is a very insecure person

Her main worry is because...shaurya saw shagun and she is really apprehensive of his actions...

For her...it's her way in the name of child's well-being like a controlling parent...

No woman with a mother's instinct will fill hatred against another mother in the child and allows that to grow and be the way devi did...

Anything which is based on conditions is not love for me...

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I feel the same her intuitions are on point

And she loves shaurya not unconditionally but she does i can see that in her actions

Bandi ki insecurities hi bahut zyada hai that she cannot fathom that shaurya loves her but also feels indebted to her which a child shouldn't i guess. Thats where she is failing as a mother she has been insecure since his childhood and her actions due to her insecurity is making her evil and shaurya is moving away unknowingly.

Agar anokhi ko patao mission mein devi ne support kiya hota to shaurya usko sar pe baitha ke rakhta

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: wamavasant

I missed you

You and aish are gayab 😕

I was about to tag you today but was inactive myself

I had my final exams...still have them but the practicals got postponed...it's good to be back. Thanks 😊
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: EternalSoul17

Love is there, yes but so is insecurities and also her obsession with the thought ki shaurya should be in her control; hence She is hellbent in bringing back shagun afterall Shagun toh ab already manipulate ho chuki hai.

I somewhere feel she jaan buch ke created circumstances Which would make aastha leave so that shaurya would be in her control. So aastha coming back would just be like taking away her ‘wajood’ as she calls it hence I feel she will get even more enraged if this happens.

Devi’s love is not only conditional but also controlling. To me her concern felt more like ki she has to know minute to minute details about him and when she doesn’t her insecurities surfaces.

That's why I said her love isn't unconditional and controlling. Bit like Ishwari in KRPKAB but there Devi was emotionally attached to Ishwari and was indebted too while Shaurya is detached to her. I don't think it's about knowing minute by minute detail only. It's that also but there is genuine love and concern for his well-being. She had the same concern and care when in the initial episode Shaurya broke off with Shagun. Her insecurities about Astha is a factor along with the realization that Shaurya is not that emotionally attached to her inspite of everything. That's why she constantly keeps on reminding him to feel grateful. The bigger question for me is than if Devi loves Shaurya, is that if Shaurya loves her?
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Originally posted by: Athiraachu

Devi's love is not secure at all....she is a very insecure person

Her main worry is because...shaurya saw shagun and she is really apprehensive of his actions...

For her...it's her way in the name of child's well-being like a controlling parent...

No woman with a mother's instinct will fill hatred against another mother in the child and allows that to grow and be the way devi did...

Anything which is based on conditions is not love for me...

A Woman is a woman too and not every mother is perfect. They are flawed too. I could never like Devi for keeping Shaurya away from Aastha but I wouldn't deny the fact that she does genuinely care for her and has a mother's intuition about him. Be it him falling for Anokhi or that Shuarya was unwell and something was amiss.
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Originally posted by: wamavasant

I feel the same her intuitions are on point

And she loves shaurya not unconditionally but she does i can see that in her actions

Bandi ki insecurities hi bahut zyada hai that she cannot fathom that shaurya loves her but also feels indebted to her which a child shouldn't i guess. Thats where she is failing as a mother she has been insecure since his childhood and her actions due to her insecurity is making her evil and shaurya is moving away unknowingly.

Agar anokhi ko patao mission mein devi ne support kiya hota to shaurya usko sar pe baitha ke rakhta

Bold everything I agree 💯💯💯
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nomadic_Vibe

Hola Peeps.

Missed me??? Not even a bit...okay. I missed you all a ton.

So I wanted to express an unpopular opinion...as usual. But I must say Devi really has Mother's instinct and intituation that her child was unwell or there something amiss. That instinct can't come without love and care for the child even if he's not yours. As much as I don't like Devi and her thought process or her manipulation she really loves Shaurya. May be her love isnt unconditional and is controlling but with sense of security and safety in knowing Shaurya is her even if Astha is back will make her see light. Please let me know your thoughts 🙏🙂


I have a differing opinion. I don't think it was intuition but rather what she knew that got her worried. let us look at the sequence of events-

1) She talks to Shaurya who tells her he is headed home shortly.

2) Shagun makes an appearance and Devi knows that Shaurya tried to find her in rain desperately. She thinks he had an emotional response as expected (she does not know what he truly thinks because for most part Shaurya is an introvert )

3)Shaurya vanishes off the scene, there is no call and he does not return home. Her fear stems from the fact that she might have underestimated his reaction and he was truly affected enough to hide and sulk somewhere or have had an accident in his emotional state in the rain.


This was no life threatening situation. If she really had a mother's intuition she might have had panic attacks when he got caught in riots or was dealing with kidnappers.


If the precap is right, she is publicly casting doubt on Anokhi and Shaurya's relationship. It will destroy Anokhi and her life but it will also impact Shaurya. Anokhi can be a gold-digger, seductress but what does staying overnight with Anokhi in his college's hostel say about Shaurya's character. She is willing to pay that price. I can't see Astha ever doing that or any mother putting their Raja beta son in that situation without assessing the truth.


However I cannot deny that she loves him in her own way as long as she can wrap him around her finger. It is interesting that she filled Shaurya's head not only with hatred for Astha but also drew him afar from his father. She rarely intervened when Shaurya spouts nonsense like accusing Shaan of calling media. In other words she wants to be the only person who matters to Shaurya. She is smart enough to know if Shaurya let Shagun go that easily, he had no feelings for her. Look at how desperate he was to stop Anokhi even though you can chalk a lot of that desperation to guilt. When Shaurya returned back with Anokhi, she did not ask where he was and what happened. Her stance was you disappointed me and you have stopped sharing secrets. Only a promise could appease her.


There are things that I don't understand like why she zeroed in on Shaurya instead of Yash. The guy is 30 years old, why does she think she can control him with her lies. If she really loved Shaurya and thought Shaurya loved Shagun, why did she incite Shaurya against Shagun?

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