Revised: Virat doesn’t want to marry Heer, he wants to protect her

So now these writers want to go that route ,..make virat heers protector . Firstly Heer is an educated strong young woman..in this day and age ..we need to protect ourselves...we don’t need a man to protect us. Secondly heer has her family ...her grandparents and brother Rohan ..they will love and give her all the support she needs. Heer doesn’t want or need a protector ..she wants a lover and husband ..she always wanted to be a bride,. And it’s ridiculous that they think they can show us in 2020 that heer and Virat will be happy in a marriage with no physical sexual relationship. All Heer needs is proper medical intervention and she can lead a normal life with Virat.. But back to the show...Virat really deserves the 2 slaps he gets from first Heer and then Preeto...he insulted and hurt heer very badly..he really deserved those slAps. Also I really want to see how Virat came to the decision that he wants to marry heer, After his strong disgust with her being a kinnar we need to see how he accepts that he wants to be with her forever..so we need to see this scene..I think it’s too important for them to omit it. We need to see him acknowledging to himself that he can’t live without heer. And that he accepts her for what she is,...because he took a vow that he will not accept her the way she is ...so how did that change ? 🤷🏻‍♀️

You’ve written my thoughts.....like seriously! I just asked the makers on IG, how the heck he’ll be her lifelong partner, protector, friend when he’s getting married to another woman? Makes absolutely no sense! 🙄🙄🙄 He truly deserved those two slaps, especially Preeto aunty’s. Like dude, are you out of your mind?

Show Heer as an independent, working woman. She doesn’t need a man to “as in her words to V....”be all clingy” 🤣🤣🤣 If they wanna show them as a couple, let them do it properly. Btw, I’ve seen in recent BTS pics and videos, Heer is wearing what looks like a wedding band. 🤔🤔 Don’t know what’s the meaning of that.

Disorders of sex development can take many forms from the easy forms which are visible only to doctors to the most complicated ones.

I don't understand why in the case of Saumya and Heer the CV have gone for the worse scenario where there is no possibility for intimate relationships or for fertility.

By trying to raise awareness regarding this community there are actually reinforcing the same prejudices and the same stereotypes they are fighting against.

Is not true that all transgenders can't have normal intimate relationships and is not true that they are all infertile.

One research was mentioning 20 healthy babies born out of transgender mothers. In most of these cases, the mothers got pregnant without performing any gonadectomy (surgical removal of testis). As long as these women have a uterus and at least one functional ovary there are high chances for them to get pregnant and that too without getting any additional treatment.

But here the CV makes it look that all transgenders are the same with no uterus, no ovaries, no periods... and there is no chance for them to have a marriage life at least they find a man willing to make one sacrifice after another and live as brother and sister and raise children of their siblings or adopt one.

They shouldn't have open such a subject if they are not willing to look into all the medical aspects that are involved. The probability for Heer to have the same disorder as Saumya is very low. After all, that's why is called a disorder... It doesn't have rules and regulations... it can take many forms.

They promised that Heer and Virat's story is going to be different. But I don't see how since Heer is exactly as Saumya and Virat's family is even more obsessed with having grandchildren than the family of Harman's was. I can't even imagine the pressure is going to be on Virat to have a second marriage and a child when they will find about Heer. Even too I hope that I'll be proven wrong.

I think that the story would have been better made into a miniseries where the main focus should have been on how kinnars can work normal jobs if they are giving the chance and the love stories to be on a secondary plan. On a daily soap, they are forced to focus on love story for the sake of ratings.

Originally posted by: Etna_Dia

Disorders of sex development can take many forms from the easy forms which are visible only to doctors to the most complicated ones.

I don't understand why in the case of Saumya and Heer the CV have gone for the worse scenario where there is no possibility for intimate relationships or for fertility.

By trying to raise awareness regarding this community there are actually reinforcing the same prejudices and the same stereotypes they are fighting against.

Is not true that all transgenders can't have normal intimate relationships and is not true that they are all infertile.

One research was mentioning 20 healthy babies born out of transgender mothers. In most of these cases, the mothers got pregnant without performing any gonadectomy (surgical removal of testis). As long as these women have a uterus and at least one functional ovary there are high chances for them to get pregnant and that too without getting any additional treatment.

But here the CV makes it look that all transgenders are the same with no uterus, no ovaries, no periods... and there is no chance for them to have a marriage life at least they find a man willing to make one sacrifice after another and live as brother and sister and raise children of their siblings or adopt one.

They shouldn't have open such a subject if they are not willing to look into all the medical aspects that are involved. The probability for Heer to have the same disorder as Saumya is very low. After all, that's why is called a disorder... It doesn't have rules and regulations... it can take many forms.

They promised that Heer and Virat's story is going to be different. But I don't see how since Heer is exactly as Saumya and Virat's family is even more obsessed with having grandchildren than the family of Harman's was. I can't even imagine the pressure is going to be on Virat to have a second marriage and a child when they will find about Heer. Even too I hope that I'll be proven wrong.

I think that the story would have been better made into a miniseries where the main focus should have been on how kinnars can work normal jobs if they are giving the chance and the love stories to be on a secondary plan. On a daily soap, they are forced to focus on love story for the sake of ratings.

Originally posted by: burnnotice

You’ve written my thoughts.....like seriously! I just asked the makers on IG, how the heck he’ll be her lifelong partner, protector, friend when he’s getting married to another woman? Makes absolutely no sense! 🙄🙄🙄 He truly deserved those two slaps, especially Preeto aunty’s. Like dude, are you out of your mind?

Show Heer as an independent, working woman. She doesn’t need a man to “as in her words to V....”be all clingy” 🤣🤣🤣 If they wanna show them as a couple, let them do it properly. Btw, I’ve seen in recent BTS pics and videos, Heer is wearing what looks like a wedding band. 🤔🤔 Don’t know what’s the meaning of that.

I really don’t know what to say after today’s maha episode. To catch Sohum. Virat and Preeto came up with a plan which basically tortured Heer and audience. Felt so sad for Heer. Anyway, as per precap...Sohum is exposed, so now what?????? Will Virat go ahead and marry Jharna and according to Jharna, Heer will be the Sautan? 🙄🙄😡😡 I just wanna bang my head with the nonsense. Why can’t they tell Heer she’s a Kinnar and take the story from there? I don’t want a married Virat anywhere near Heer.

Again in BTS/offscreen clicks, Heer is wearing a wedding band. Now I’m confused if it’s the character or actor. 🤔

Originally posted by: burnnotice

I really don’t know what to say after today’s maha episode. To catch Sohum. Virat and Preeto came up with a plan which basically tortured Heer and audience. Felt so sad for Heer. Anyway, as per precap...Sohum is exposed, so now what?????? Will Virat go ahead and marry Jharna and according to Jharna, Heer will be the Sautan? 🙄🙄😡😡 I just wanna bang my head with the nonsense. Why can’t they tell Heer she’s a Kinnar and take the story from there? I don’t want a married Virat anywhere near Heer.

Again in BTS/offscreen clicks, Heer is wearing a wedding band. Now I’m confused if it’s the character or actor. 🤔

But the only sautan in the room is and will always be Jharna... as Virat married Heer months ago at the temple. Just because later they've got angry with each other and don't acknowledge that marriage anymore, doesn't mean it did not happen.

Originally posted by: burnnotice

I really don’t know what to say after today’s maha episode. To catch Sohum. Virat and Preeto came up with a plan which basically tortured Heer and audience. Felt so sad for Heer. Anyway, as per precap...Sohum is exposed, so now what?????? Will Virat go ahead and marry Jharna and according to Jharna, Heer will be the Sautan? 🙄🙄😡😡 I just wanna bang my head with the nonsense. Why can’t they tell Heer she’s a Kinnar and take the story from there? I don’t want a married Virat anywhere near Heer.

Again in BTS/offscreen clicks, Heer is wearing a wedding band. Now I’m confused if it’s the character or actor. 🤔

The writers have lost the plot and their minds. In the Maha Episode he asked Preeto aunty to get him married to Heer. He went home as if he didn’t and did his Haldi ceremony. Now you’re telling me in today’s episode, (I won’t see it till tonight,) that he was saying that he’ll be Jharna’s husband but Heer’s protector?😡😡 What trash is this? All he’ll be doing is bringing shame and more pain for Heer. Let him have the normal hubby/wifey relationship with Jharna and leave Heer alone. I am so mad. And to make matters worse is they have Heer’s attempted murderer still living at home because he threatened to expose Heer 😳😳 🙄 Like what the hell, that’s the best thing to happen. Let Heer know she’s a Kinnar. This trying to kill her and only Superman Virat can save her is stale and stupid now.

I can’t stand Sohum now and my dislike for the ML is growing.

Originally posted by: burnnotice

The writers have lost the plot and their minds. In the Maha Episode he asked Preeto aunty to get him married to Heer. He went home as if he didn’t and did his Haldi ceremony. Now you’re telling me in today’s episode, (I won’t see it till tonight,) that he was saying that he’ll be Jharna’s husband but Heer’s protector?😡😡 What trash is this? All he’ll be doing is bringing shame and more pain for Heer. Let him have the normal hubby/wifey relationship with Jharna and leave Heer alone. I am so mad. And to make matters worse is they have Heer’s attempted murderer still living at home because he threatened to expose Heer 😳😳 🙄 Like what the hell, that’s the best thing to happen. Let Heer know she’s a Kinnar. This trying to kill her and only Superman Virat can save her is stale and stupid now.

I can’t stand Sohum now and my dislike for the ML is growing.