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Posted: 8 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: sparklingeyes

Get over actors n think from characters POV

U will understand saumya
N why she deserves Harman I will make a new post on it soon
But for now a girl who takes all abuses from ur parents just to not act as a barrier b/w parents n son who love each other so much but just have different POV
Is the girl every guy deserves including Harman
N we all know how much Harman loves his parents n when they were leaving in hut.. How much he missed them
N parents do have first right on u
N the day everyone stop seeing Harman love on saumya as a favor on a girl with defect then u won't ever ask this question again... N when u guys take it as a favor... Why cannot saumya feel the same after hearing those harsh words from Harman


I didn't talk about actors at all

I'm talking about characters
Vivian portraying Harman perfectly and Rubina portraying Somya well

so the discussion here is about characters not actors


about taking all abuses from his family and not do anything about it

it is her hapit

she takes abuses from any1 her father her grandmother her sister her in-lows even Kareena and other kinners and all she can do is just crying and begging for them to not hate her

the only one she can't accept any hard word from him is Harman the one who did a lot for her

so it is not a favor for Harman to take abuses from his parents and do nothing about it


and Harman never ever wanted her to accept abuses from any1 and do nothing
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Posted: 8 years ago
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For me harman doesn't deserves all this insultation and humiliation after what he has done for her till date, so much attitude and cold shoulder from other side, nope, he deserves better
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Hend_Refai



It is the first time for me to ask this question

it is not her decision to leave him and end this relationship

and tell me one thing
how come all what Harman did for her is just a favour

standing against his family and all the society is favor

risking his won life to rescue her over and over is a favor

sacrifice his won desires as a man and accept her as a wife and never think of marring another woman who can satisfy his desires is a favor

leaving his home and live in streets to just be with her is a favor

leaving his country and travel to another country to search for her and rescue her again is a favor

paying 2,000,000 to buy her instead of another strange man who can do whatever he wants from her is a favor

if all this are favor
so what is love according to Somya

Can I suggest you to look at your comment once again? By counting all these things aren't you saying that harman has done so much for her which he shouldn't means again 'favour'.. I know you will not agree with me but when fans say that harman has done so much for her of which saumya can't return even 1% is actually mean that all think that harman is doing favour by loving saumya because she is a kinner n so harman doesn't need to do so as he can easily get any other normal girl. N I think because of fans only writers brought of this 'favour' thing so that this issue can be solved.

Saumya decided to leave harman when he told her on her face that yes he loved her because of her beauty n now with time things have changed so he is changing his decision of accepting her with her real identity in front of society. After listening all these from harman only how can she stay with him because she was staying there for his love n if that love is changing with time then there is no need to stay there where nobody wants to see her.

I know now some will say that she is not ready to listen harman n he has tried his best to explain everything but sorry I didn't saw anything like this in episodes. I didn't saw him explaining anything. When saumya was with kinners then he just wanted to take her home n now when he brought her back then he is busy in maalik-gulam banter n no talk. He had enough time to tell her that how much he has done for her but have no time for asking her problem n giving his explanation.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Hend_Refai



I didn't talk about actors at all

I'm talking about characters
Vivian portraying Harman perfectly and Rubina portraying Somya well

so the discussion here is about characters not actors


about taking all abuses from his family and not do anything about it

it is her hapit

she takes abuses from any1 her father her grandmother her sister her in-lows even Kareena and other kinners and all she can do is just crying and begging for them to not hate her

the only one she can't accept any hard word from him is Harman the one who did a lot for her

so it is not a favor for Harman to take abuses from his parents and do nothing about it


and Harman never ever wanted her to accept abuses from any1 and do nothing

Because harman is the only person who has to sacrifice so many things to be with saumya n if he has any shame because of saumya then he should just leave her which saumya wants.

Here by 'shame' I mean what saumya is thinking right now.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: RIMO9013

For me harman doesn't deserves all this insultation and humiliation after what he has done for her till date, so much attitude and cold shoulder from other side, nope, he deserves better


I hope she appreciate him and be the woman he deserve

cause I know he will never love any other girl but her
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: LuvRUBI

Can I suggest you to look at your comment once again? By counting all these things aren't you saying that harman has done so much for her which he shouldn't means again 'favour'.. I know you will not agree with me but when fans say that harman has done so much for her of which saumya can't return even 1% is actually mean that all think that harman is doing favour by loving saumya because she is a kinner n so harman doesn't need to do so as he can easily get any other normal girl. N I think because of fans only writers brought of this 'favour' thing so that this issue can be solved.

Saumya decided to leave harman when he told her on her face that yes he loved her because of her beauty n now with time things have changed so he is changing his decision of accepting her with her real identity in front of society. After listening all these from harman only how can she stay with him because she was staying there for his love n if that love is changing with time then there is no need to stay there where nobody wants to see her.

I know now some will say that she is not ready to listen harman n he has tried his best to explain everything but sorry I didn't saw anything like this in episodes. I didn't saw him explaining anything. When saumya was with kinners then he just wanted to take her home n now when he brought her back then he is busy in maalik-gulam banter n no talk. He had enough time to tell her that how much he has done for her but have no time for asking her problem n giving his explanation.


the only one mention the word favor is Somya we never heard it from any fans before Somya said it

and for me I don't see Harman accepting Somya is a favor cause none can do a favor huge like that

I can give some one some money
help some one in doing something
but I can't sacrifice my whole life just for a favor

he said every man loves his wife beauty
and he is right
yes he loves her beauty even if she is ugly cause if he sees her ugly he wouldn't love her
he didn't lie
but he doesn't love her only for her beauty
or he would love any other woman more beautiful than Somya and live a normal life with her
but he choose Somya and choose to live with her even if their life is complex and full of problems

and she never asked him why he changed his mind
she just left the house and give him no chance to say anything


and Malik Gulam relation she the one choose it

after he rescue her from the kidnapper in Bangkok she refused to back with him
so he had to use this card that he bought her and she must follow him and say nothing
and that's the truth
even if he didn't buy her she must obey him because he is her husband

I will just ask you one question
If you have a brother
and his wife treats him the way Somya treats Harman now
because he hurt her or said to her harsh words
can u accept that for your brother
to be humiliated like that and insulted like that from his wife
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: LuvRUBI

Because harman is the only person who has to sacrifice so many things to be with saumya n if he has any shame because of saumya then he should just leave her which saumya wants.

Here by 'shame' I mean what saumya is thinking right now.


If he has any shame from Somya and his love changed then he wouldn't go to another country to search for her or make a tent in front of the house she live it till she accept to back with him
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Posted: 8 years ago
#18
She doesn't deserve him🤔after all sacrifices that harman did for her..she shows this type of hatred..the way she threw his handkey..it totally burnt me😕😭..actually she doesn't care fr him..all that she cares fr is her vajood and asthiva she is very irritating..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Hend_Refai


and why all that?

why hurting the only one caring for u
the only one who loves you
why doing that


Maybe this is her love. Coz she wants Harman to lead a happy life in society. And society is just after people's personal lives. So it's basically the society which is enemy
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: chocolate_boy


Maybe this is her love. Coz she wants Harman to lead a happy life in society. And society is just after people's personal lives. So it's basically the society which is enemy


let say one thing
Somya doesn't sacrifice her happiness for Harman happiness this time
she did in trio marraige track
and she realized that he can't be happy away from her
she accepted the fact that he is her husband and she is his wife

so it is pointless to repeat the same thing again

this time she is angry cause he didn't accept her and her identity in public
that's why she left him and still doesn't want to be with him

so it is not about sacrificing or about his happiness anymore

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