Does Somya deserve Harman and his love? - Page 3

Absolutely agree with all you said Hend. Her identity has now become more imp than Harman or Chintus love. She used the word Malik before Harman. Harman has tried 4 times to tell Saumya that he will accept her identity in front of all and twice tried to explain to her. But yes he could have made more efforts to explain which the CVs messed up. And they are suddenly trying to pour an element of Saumya sacrifice and repeating the trio story since viewers started disliking Saumya. And no one in this discussion has mentioned the actors.

No she doesnt deserve his love...will not get again into how what

Originally posted by: anitarani

No she doesnt deserve his love...will not get again into how what

and why...but after seeing all...she doesn't...Its another story

that Harman cannot see life beyond her...She so easily forgave

Surbhi...who prompted her to suicide...and Maninder who always

wanted her dead...but failed to see the depth of Harman's love...

no words...But yes...will give her grace...for being so

emotionally damaged for a long time...

Originally posted by: Hend_Refai

the only one mention the word favor is Somya we never heard it from any fans before Somya said it

and for me I don't see Harman accepting Somya is a favor cause none can do a favor huge like that

I can give some one some money

help some one in doing something

but I can't sacrifice my whole life just for a favor

he said every man loves his wife beauty

and he is right

yes he loves her beauty even if she is ugly cause if he sees her ugly he wouldn't love her

he didn't lie

but he doesn't love her only for her beauty

or he would love any other woman more beautiful than Somya and live a normal life with her

but he choose Somya and choose to live with her even if their life is complex and full of problems

and she never asked him why he changed his mind

she just left the house and give him no chance to say anything

and Malik Gulam relation she the one choose it

after he rescue her from the kidnapper in Bangkok she refused to back with him

so he had to use this card that he bought her and she must follow him and say nothing

and that's the truth

even if he didn't buy her she must obey him because he is her husband

I will just ask you one question

If you have a brother

and his wife treats him the way Somya treats Harman now

because he hurt her or said to her harsh words

can u accept that for your brother

to be humiliated like that and insulted like that from his wife

See..you are again telling me to count his favours by saying that he has done this for her n that for her n this is what everyone is doing n harman has done this too... n this will not solve their problem..

Let's be practical n see what happens in real life... if you love someone n got hurt by him then u needed explanation for that but if your partner will not give any explaination n start counting his favours expecting u to think all these n just keep quit then it will only increase your anger n your love will not be the same anymore. If I talk about myself then my mom is everything for me but whenever I got hurt by her words then I start throwing all tantrums in my home n in that process I even hurt everyone n then my mom n my other family members try to kill that reason of my anger by giving proper explanation of everything so that my mood can change.. they don't start counting that she has done this for me n that for me.. as Love can't get counted but Favours does get counted.. which people here are doing..

However, I know that harman is angry on that selling thing n that's why he refused to give any explanation n first want her to admit her mistake n accept his love then he will do anything but then this is not going to solve anything n things will turn more ugly.

Whether it is about my bro or someone else.. you just can't expect things to be same even after hurting someone. If u will hurt anyone then u must give proper explanation... by forcing or by getting angry on situations u can't solve issue.

Just because saumya is a kinner n we think that harman is doing so many sacrifices that doesn't mean that she must live her life bowing down her head n with no rights of asking questions n expecting any answer n if she has to live like this only then living with kinners is better where harman's life doesn't getting messed up n his family will also be at peace.

By rejecting to accept saumya with her real identity in front of society he himself made saumya feel that he is somewhere ashamed of her identity.

Originally posted by: Shonal8

Absolutely agree with all you said Hend. Her identity has now become more imp than Harman or Chintus love. She used the word Malik before Harman. Harman has tried 4 times to tell Saumya that he will accept her identity in front of all and twice tried to explain to her. But yes he could have made more efforts to explain which the CVs messed up. And they are suddenly trying to pour an element of Saumya sacrifice and repeating the trio story since viewers started disliking Saumya. And no one in this discussion has mentioned the actors.

The fact is the CVs are trying to sell a story that many viewers are not buying and in that process the Saumya character is getting damaged and the MU track has become confused with the themes of revealing identity and not thinking she is good enough and self sacrifice. In less than 1 year of her marriage Saumya decided Harmans has only accepted her beauty and not identity when her mother hid her identity for 21 years. I am not saying that the mother did right. But she did what she did out of love and good intention. Yet she is not as angry and unforgiving towards her mother. If a person faces trauma they are not angry with only one person who 99% of the time showed his love not in the form of favour, but unconditional love and one time he failed. When I love someone I don't give up on them so easily and I trust them. Hence what the makers are trying show makes no sense to me. Over time anger calms down as well but no progress there either. She has even forgiven Kareena and Ravina who tried to kidnap, sell and murder Saya. And what about Saya? In the irresponsible manner she sent Saumya to Bangkok. If Harman had not reached on time what would have happened to Saumya. Is Saya grateful to Harman for saving her so called daughter? No she is obesesed in making Saumya her daughter and making her live with her. Sayas intentions are not good as portrayed by the CVs.

Originally posted by: Shonal8

The fact is the CVs are trying to sell a story that many viewers are not buying and in that process the Saumya character is getting damaged and the MU track has become confused with the themes of revealing identity and not thinking she is good enough and self sacrifice. In less than 1 year of her marriage Saumya decided Harmans has only accepted her beauty and not identity when her mother hid her identity for 21 years. I am not saying that the mother did right. But she did what she did out of love and good intention. Yet she is not as angry and unforgiving towards her mother. If a person faces trauma they are not angry with only one person who 99% of the time showed his love not in the form of favour, but unconditional love and one time he failed. When I love someone I don't give up on them so easily and I trust them. Hence what the makers are trying show makes no sense to me. Over time anger calms down as well but no progress there either. She has even forgiven Kareena and Ravina who tried to kidnap, sell and murder Saya. And what about Saya? In the irresponsible manner she sent Saumya to Bangkok. If Harman had not reached on time what would have happened to Saumya. Is Saya grateful to Harman for saving her so called daughter? No she is obesesed in making Saumya her daughter and making her live with her. Sayas intentions are not good as portrayed by the CVs.

Yes Hend I don't understand why Surbhi can't meet Harman and find out instead of again going through a contrived way through Varun. The way these CVs minds work is unbelievable.

Originally posted by: Hend_Refai

We all saw how far Harman can go for Somya love

and how he sacrifice everything for her

and we all saw how badly she is breaking his heart over and over and never cared for his feeling

in tonight episode after all she is doing with her and hurting him all the time

he is making party for her and planning to say sorry for her and hopping she forgive him

is this normal?

in a relationship one is all the time caring and sacrificing and the other one all the time is hurting his partner