why soumya has to be this selfish

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Posted: 8 years ago
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how much more selfish can she get... first she does not want to be in kinner society *fine* then be with harman eventhough that is ripping off his relation with his parents and has called off his marriage also in mid pheras..now when her sister is marrying the person she chose whom she already left in mandap in order to save her somu di and that person is ready to keep her in his house with him she wants to be with harman and for that she wants her sister to be his child making machine so that she can continue to be harman's wife and can keep romancing harman peacefully without any guilt or any taunts from preeto🤢... when she can make harman to accept to marry surbhi by threatening to kill herself why couldn't she do it to stop surbhi from making that sacrifice(if she really does not want it rather than simply putting blame on preeto n justify herslef) or ask harman to leave her move out of his house(if she really wants to leave him for his goodness) .. really why does she always need preeto to tell her how she is spoiling harman's life and to stay away from him couldn't she see it by herself and leave that house without any majboori dramas n playing the victim card, then atleast harman could have moved on with someone whom he might have liked at some day, rather than forcing surbhi on him...kam se kam harman ki feelings ki toh kadar karti... only harman can see his kinner gulabo as innocent otherwise she is full of herself, her life, her happiness etc baaki sab can go to hell, this is what soumya is...she has made maninder's worst fear of surbhi's life getting ruined due to soumya also to come true...even if surbhi is marrying harman with ulterior motives n kicks out soumya it will not neutralize how selfish soumya was in getting her sister married to her husband...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Completely agree with you.
Soumya ka ye act pure selfish hai
Promo to aur disgusting hai
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Agree...
She is being selfish. Surbhi n nanni has asked many times to come with them. No she wants to stay with harman taking all the insults.
Abishake n surbhi has asked her to come n stay with them after their marriage. But no, she wants a small corner in harman's house. This is stupidity.
She wants to live in harman's house , others all can go to hell!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Two points...
Firstly...Saumya just needs a safe place to live...so I just could
not buy that argument of Surbhi yesterday to Abhishek that
Saumya would not be happy in his house...whey the guy
clearly offered to keep her with them...This was just too lame..
Her the question is of her safety...and even when Nimmi was
alive and the proposal of Abhi had come...even that time Nimmi
told Surbhi the same...you get married...and then you can take
care of your sister...to which Surbhi had agreed that time...

Secondly...I feel Saumya should have got out of Singh house-
hold...rather than push Harman to marry Surbhi...she could
have stood her ground for Surbhi's happiness too...how did
she return to Singh house knowing that Surbhi will be
pushed into marriage with Harman...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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exactly my feelings..Saumya luks completely obsessed wid Harman...Only thing she wants is to stay close to Harman..n for dat she is ready to ruin Harman n surbhi's life...
she cn ask for a house from singh's and monthly compensation or simply live wid abhishek n surbhi..bt no she just wants to stick wid harman n make a mockery of marriage. n sisterhood...

I dnt understand her love for Harman bt surbhi she is her sis ..Hw cn she think of ruining her life..wen she knws harman loves her...is dis hw she is returning surbhi's favor..wat has she done for surbhi till nw as elder sis...

Shudnt she simply leave Harman if she wants to fulfill preeto's wishes..Becos after some years Harman wil surely move on...wats d need of complicating his life den..
He wil live in guilt dat he is cheating both girls..for saumya he will think dat he cud nt give her full rights n for surbhi he will think he cud nt give her love which any wife deserves...

It looks like Saumya is using both harman n surbhi...n dey luk foolish in her love...

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Posted: 8 years ago
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She should just go do those overly make up and beg on the roads and trains and sing and give blessings to newly born babies👏. That what she is is reality. She does not deserve to be with someone hom she she loves so much because his so progressive parents don't want an incomplete woman as their DIL. She does not deserve to be in civilized society.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Agree with your each and every word
Just for shelter she is ruining 2 lives how disgusting. she did not once said that she love harman na insted she says she love only her sister and she cant ruin her life what about harman that poor guy always put his life on stake to keep her safe fighting with his blood relations for who this girl who cant even support him.
Do she really love harman?
I dont think so.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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First of all, Soumya never wanted to be with Kinners, is that wrong. Just because she is a born with some sexual disorders she does not have right to think for herself. Even if she was made to stay with them was she safe there, those two girls Rani and Raveena were after her life always. They even sold her off to some people. Just because she is not like any normal it is ok for her to be sold off. And who was the mastermind behind this, The great mother Preeto whose relation with her son is more important than one human life. After Nimmi's death she had no place to go and Harman brought her to Singh family. After that not a single day had passed when she is not taunted for being a Kinner but now I am made to think was it justified as people are justifying Preeto's acts but questioning Soumya's desire not to live with Kinners. When she learnt abot Surbhi's love for Abhishek she stepped out of the house and again kidnapped by Varun. She went wrong when she started blindly obeying Preeto and taking her insults and forcing Harman to get remarried. But she was shown like that. She longed for her father's love but always got rejection and insults. He even tried to kill her so many times. Nimmi did not educate her neither she made her self independent. She made her like she will be always dependent on someone. Now even if she goes out what will she do other than begging or joining the kinner group as someone suggested in this thread. That will give just one message, " If you are a transgender or intersex or you are infertile just dont dream to have a family and dont even dare to love someone."
In my opinion both Harman and Soumya should just leave that singh household and start living separately and then go to some doctor to know what exactly is Soumya's problem. If she wants to be cured then they should go for it otherwise thy can live like they are now.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Agree with u dear..
Nice post..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: -JaZ-

how much more selfish can she get... first she does not want to be in kinner society *fine* then be with harman eventhough that is ripping off his relation with his parents and has called off his marriage also in mid pheras..now when her sister is marrying the person she chose whom she already left in mandap in order to save her somu di and that person is ready to keep her in his house with him she wants to be with harman and for that she wants her sister to be his child making machine so that she can continue to be harman's wife and can keep romancing harman peacefully without any guilt or any taunts from preeto🤢... when she can make harman to accept to marry surbhi by threatening to kill herself why couldn't she do it to stop surbhi from making that sacrifice(if she really does not want it rather than simply putting blame on preeto n justify herslef) or ask harman to leave her move out of his house(if she really wants to leave him for his goodness) .. really why does she always need preeto to tell her how she is spoiling harman's life and to stay away from him couldn't she see it by herself and leave that house without any majboori dramas n playing the victim card, then atleast harman could have moved on with someone whom he might have liked at some day, rather than forcing surbhi on him...kam se kam harman ki feelings ki toh kadar karti... only harman can see his kinner gulabo as innocent otherwise she is full of herself, her life, her happiness etc baaki sab can go to hell, this is what soumya is...she has made maninder's worst fear of surbhi's life getting ruined due to soumya also to come true...even if surbhi is marrying harman with ulterior motives n kicks out soumya it will not neutralize how selfish soumya was in getting her sister married to her husband...


thanks you jaaz for this great post, i'm 100% with you, you expressed exactly what lot of fans are feeling, i find really Soumya is selfish, none tell me she is still child or encapsuled, cuz in many situations she could react, now she wants her sister ruin her life for her own happiness, what about Harman?? this gentlman who faced his family for her? this is solution to marry her sister.
Honnestly i don't find any logic in this story and if i'm following this show it's only for Vivian, cus he is making all his effort and need our support.

Thank you;

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