why soumya has to be this selfish - Page 2

Originally posted by: naaju

@yajnaseni and janeman

I dnt think anybdy here is saying dat saumya shud go to kinnar world..everybdy is saying dat she shud live wid Abhishek n surbhi..if she wants Harman to get married again..

Harman was ready to take saumya wid him n leave his parents bt it was saumya's decision to become servant ...

She had rejected options given by harman n surbhi bt she only chooses d option given by preeto..Den whose fault is dis..She blindly obeys preeto's orders n doesnt listen to surbhi n harman...

Nw if she herself wants a disgusting life den who can help her..

Wat is irking d fans is how cn she ruin Harman n surbhi's life..Hw cn she blackmail harman to marry her sis..n wen surbhi cn sacrifice her life for saumya den shouldn't saumya do d same for her sis n sacrifice her happiness...isnt she d so called elder sis...

Originally posted by: ..yajnaseni..

First of all, Soumya never wanted to be with Kinners, is that wrong. Just because she is a born with some sexual disorders she does not have right to think for herself. Even if she was made to stay with them was she safe there, those two girls Rani and Raveena were after her life always. They even sold her off to some people. Just because she is not like any normal it is ok for her to be sold off. And who was the mastermind behind this, The great mother Preeto whose relation with her son is more important than one human life. After Nimmi's death she had no place to go and Harman brought her to Singh family. After that not a single day had passed when she is not taunted for being a Kinner but now I am made to think was it justified as people are justifying Preeto's acts but questioning Soumya's desire not to live with Kinners. When she learnt abot Surbhi's love for Abhishek she stepped out of the house and again kidnapped by Varun. She went wrong when she started blindly obeying Preeto and taking her insults and forcing Harman to get remarried. But she was shown like that. She longed for her father's love but always got rejection and insults. He even tried to kill her so many times. Nimmi did not educate her neither she made her self independent. She made her like she will be always dependent on someone. Now even if she goes out what will she do other than begging or joining the kinner group as someone suggested in this thread. That will give just one message, " If you are a transgender or intersex or you are infertile just dont dream to have a family and dont even dare to love someone."

In my opinion both Harman and Soumya should just leave that singh household and start living separately and then go to some doctor to know what exactly is Soumya's problem. If she wants to be cured then they should go for it otherwise thy can live like they are now.

Originally posted by: rakshaanra

She did not pressure Surbhi, she just revealed what Preeto wanted.

She needed to get it off her chest.

And besides we all know that Surbhi could have refused but she never had any passion for Abhishek, he was just the good guy, but in the first episode where she sees Harman she ogles over him and there is alway a passion from her side.

Soumya is gonna suffer like hell. she will be mahaan and remove herself from her sisters happiness.

And Have some empathy, I am sure most of us would choose Harman over Abhishek if we were in same situation