I feel sorry for Rajbeer.. - Page 2

@ _Vrish_: I agree with parts of what you said. Not every parent deserves all the respect and glory they might think they do. Like shown in the show Rajbeer didn't have a mum that showed that she cared or loved him. Even if she had troubles getting along with his dad, that's no excuse to take it out on her son. And then she left with another person (her choice, but after you decide to have kids, it'll ALWAYS effect them). So, Rajbeer's feeling are justified.

even i felt sorry for rajbeer. i just hope dhruv comes in instrumental in clearing preeto's misunderstanding by telling her rajbeer's disturbed childhood.

Originally posted by: ~Deep~

@ _Vrish_: I agree with parts of what you said. Not every parent deserves all the respect and glory they might think they do. Like shown in the show Rajbeer didn't have a mum that showed that she cared or loved him. Even if she had troubles getting along with his dad, that's no excuse to take it out on her son. And then she left with another person (her choice, but after you decide to have kids, it'll ALWAYS effect them). So, Rajbeer's feeling are justified.

But from Preeto's POV, she's never had any other parents then those who care so much for all the 5 daughters. That's the parents she's trying to help out by working as a tailor, trying to be the son of the family to help them out. The amount of respect she has for them is very clear. And Rajbeer did misbehave with them for no appearant reason. She didn't say anything to him when he pushed her away, but when he did the same thing with her mum, she reacted. So her actions are justified too.

I agree that most of what she said wasn't very true, but she doesn't know what made Rajbeer act like that, and probably felt even more hurt cause of the expectations she had for the evening and how it turned out to be.

I feel more sorry for Rajbeer then Preeto in this case. He's about to loose what he was so close to having. Preeto might have gotten her heart broken, but she has lots of people for support, and probably never has to have the feeling of not being appreciated and loved.

Deep

I think Preeto would have been justified had she just slapped him and told him how dare you assault my mother. That would have been adequate. There was no need to pad it up w/ lies of her own. I do think Rajdeep owes the parents an apology, but he doesn't owe one to Preeto, and he shouldn't keep going after her. My real problem w/ Preeto was all the bakwas she said, not her initial reaction of slapping him.

^ I agree with that. :) He owes an apology to her parents (mum) and not her.

I just wish someone tell Preeto why Rajbeer reacted that way so that she realizes she might have said a little too much in anger.. The matter won't get any better if both do nothing.

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~Deep~

I Posted: 30 September 2011 at 3:40am | IP Logged

@ _Vrish_: I agree with parts of what you said. Not every parent deserves all the respect and glory they might think they do. Like shown in the show Rajbeer didn't have a mum that showed that she cared or loved him. Even if she had troubles getting along with his dad, that's no excuse to take it out on her son. And then she left with another person (her choice, but after you decide to have kids, it'll ALWAYS effect them). So, Rajbeer's feeling are justified.