I feel sorry for Rajbeer..

I feel sorry for Rajbeer after today's epi. There's definitely no excuse for showing someone's anger on someone else, and especially those who've done you nothing but good. I feel sorry for him since he's about to loose all the relations he'd felt after such a long time - the caring of a mother, the blessings of elders, the closeness with friends and siblings. He'll loose all of that just when he probably needs it the most.. :(

It's safer to push people away then to let them get so close to you, giving them the chance to break you from within. And you get to see who cares enough to still try to get close to you, to break down the wall around you. I'm glad he still has Dhruv and Jogi..

Btw: The last scene with Preeto having those flashback made me think how extremely different Rajbeer has been in the last two episodes. While watching him drunk and in that way I never conntected that to the earlier Rajbeer. He was so sweet and different then! Kudos to Aditya Redij for managing the change in personality so well actingwise! 👍🏼

originally posted by Deep

I agree that Preeto was justified in confronting Rajbeer, but what she said to him was plain bakwas. Rajbeer is not the guy who tries to set up relationships w/ certain families - Preeto is!!! That's how it started - she wanted to hook Rajbeer w/ Ishu. Of course, since Dhruv wanted her, she didn't have to push this too hard.

But what Rajbeer said was quite accurate - the Dhillons are all about one thing and one thing only - marriage, even to the extent of wanting it quickly for Bani & Sonu. So they do tend to try and set up relationships, and that's exactly what Ishu & Meeta have been trying to nudge Preeto into as well. Of course, Rajbeer was too drunk to point that out.

Also, Preeto's argument that Rajbeer doesn't know how to respect his elders - not all elders deserve to be respected. When he is sober, even if he apologizes to the Dhillons, he can still make it clear that his parents are not worth respecting, and he doesn't want to hear anything about his relationship w/ them from Preeto or anyone else. Unlike others, I'm not so much in favor of a Rajbeeto jodi if it means his having to compromise w/ the abuse he suffered due to them. He should dump Preeto if that's what it takes to preserve his honor. And Preeto's other statement - that Rajbeer would have no one to care for him - was bakwas as well. Just as he saved Preeto, he saved other people as well - in the start when he was introduced, he saved a couple from a gang. So a lot of people would be happy to help him, w/o getting into bed w/ him.

Rajbeer should also read Dhruv the riot act and tell him not to drag him into the Dhillons due to his own engagement w/ Ishu.

Originally posted by: _Vrish_

I agree that Preeto was justified in confronting Rajbeer, but what she said to him was plain bakwas. Rajbeer is not the guy who tries to set up relationships w/ certain families - Preeto is!!! That's how it started - she wanted to hook Rajbeer w/ Ishu. Of course, since Dhruv wanted her, she didn't have to push this too hard.

But what Rajbeer said was quite accurate - the Dhillons are all about one thing and one thing only - marriage, even to the extent of wanting it quickly for Bani & Sonu. So they do tend to try and set up relationships, and that's exactly what Ishu & Meeta have been trying to nudge Preeto into as well. Of course, Rajbeer was too drunk to point that out.

Also, Preeto's argument that Rajbeer doesn't know how to respect his elders - not all elders deserve to be respected. When he is sober, even if he apologizes to the Dhillons, he can still make it clear that his parents are not worth respecting, and he doesn't want to hear anything about his relationship w/ them from Preeto or anyone else. Unlike others, I'm not so much in favor of a Rajbeeto jodi if it means his having to compromise w/ the abuse he suffered due to them. He should dump Preeto if that's what it takes to preserve his honor. And Preeto's other statement - that Rajbeer would have no one to care for him - was bakwas as well. Just as he saved Preeto, he saved other people as well - in the start when he was introduced, he saved a couple from a gang. So a lot of people would be happy to help him, w/o getting into bed w/ him.

Rajbeer should also read Dhruv the riot act and tell him not to drag him into the Dhillons due to his own engagement w/ Ishu.

First of all calm down...and stop blaming Preeto😕...u knw like others iam also not angry at Rajbeer .😭.iam feeling sorry for him 😭though it was not good to just listen to some random ppl's bakwaas talk😡 and get drunk and insult everyone who comes near him.😡...fine he is hurt, fine he has a dark past 😕...but thats wat Preeto has been trying to tell him...Forget the past.😊..unless u wont let it go ...u cant move on...u cant build a future😕...Rajbeer's was drunk and hurt so i forgive him.😭😕...no grudges..😳..but think as a girl who was about to confess her love for him...as a girl who trusted him so much...i mean wen he forcefully pinned her to the wall...she was smiling😳 and nervous she thought Rajbeer wanted to be alone wid her...the pain😭 and shock in her eyes wen he said those hurtful things and literally threw her away😡😭...was heart breaking.😭😕...also think as a daughter for whom her parents are everything😊...can u see ur parents gettting insulted , pushed away like that.😡🤢😡...sorry i cant😡😡 and iam sure none of the daughters who love thier families can😡😡🤢. She was hurt😭 and Angry.😡...so she said all those things😡 ...maybe she was wrong in some of her accusations ...i will agree to that....but she was terribly hurt.😭...give the girl some space. I mean if u can defend Rajbeer for his rude behaviour giving the excuse😡 that he was drunk and hurt😭...then same applies to Preeto too😭...she was angry.😡...hurt...😭..in pain😭 and she doesnt knw anything bout his past😭...how is she supposed to knw...wat is she an Antaryami...😡...he nvr told her anything😡

All I can say after seeing yesterday s episode is Poor Rajbeer and poor Preeto 😭. Where Rajbeer is concerned - yes he should not have over reacted and insulted preeto s mom, and I am sure that after he sobers up he will feel sorry for that. But that said sometimes it is not easy for people to come out of years of abuse and misery just because someone tells u to get out of it. While logically the right thing is to forget the past and move on, the fact is that humans are rarely logical when it comes to emotions. So Preeto should also reflect on the fact that a guy who otherwise was very helpful and polite and kind , when he reacts like this there must be some deeper reason for that. After all human beings are not one dimensional. They all have different layers and react differently in every situation. So I feel Preeto should think calmly about it and try to understand him better. Hopefully this will be shown in the coming episodes.

I really felt bad for Rajbeer but that doesnt mean Preeto was wrong..her reaction was totally justified.. no girl or boy would tolerate their parents being insulted or abused.. but Rajbeer too had a strong reason to behave like that..
so i would say both Rajbeer and Preeto are right and at the same time,wrong in their own ways.. the misunderstanding can be only cleared when the whole mystery behind Rajbeer's past would unfolded before Preeto..

actually ,i felt sad 4 both preeto nd rajbeer
as both were not wrong
rajbeer was disturbed about his mother,so he said he hate women and scolded preeto mom(actually he didnt know wat he was doing as he was drunk)
preeto got angry as rajbeer insulted her mother,