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Posted: 13 years ago

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are you an animal activist?

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and in the end let me tell u one thing ... i dotn care what ur opinion about me is ... as u seem to over look the fact ALL posts in this thread are agaist mine! but i have reacted to only one!

the worst thing is someone commenting on someone's kid and ones feelings attached with her. if u comment or even suggest " but if the cap fits ... go right ahead"

shows whther ur opinion / response is worth bothering about or not.

wasting my energy in typing a counter reply , ur simply not worth it.

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Posted: 13 years ago

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people think ...if they pick out only seeminly weak areas of someone's post .

dissect it, mutilate it and then distort its meaning and then write a "fitting" reply ... they have written a great response.

how a mother decides to raise her child is again free will.

whether one chooses to advocate divorse or not, lie amir khan or not is again free will.

if one posts one views on internet forums and defends when one's sensibilities are hurt is again free will.

what proponents of free will havea very subjective definition of free will.

how ironic!

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: znursingh

oh now i think i know where this is coming from. i can understand now u need a punch bag on regular basis thats why u go on defending posts which r not even urs.

even if i am regressive i choose o be one! according to u idea of free will i ahve the right to. the day u force ur pseudo modern twaddle down my throat ... u r acting against ur own principle of free will and choice to all.

thanks.

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Posted: 13 years ago

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I fully agree with earth and his view points.

Society is ofcourse there and rules are made by humans .

It is the way how u perceive the things and give a food of thought.

Forum should not be used to just bang someone with their thoughts including personal feelings.

So without getting too much personal and bringing the personal life in between...why cant nur singh u just write your personal views.

World is open society and people thinking are alwasy different ...and better we stick to topic rather than getting personal is better,.

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Posted: 13 years ago

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thnak u for ur support but i fear that u may have to bear the burnt of an agressive forum policing now which applies to only selective some who seem to nto write what they want to hear.

and ahh i will have the pleasure to hear that it is i and not jaynya who chose to bring mother daughter relationship in thi discussion of divorse ... responsible for this discussion turning personal.

is dealing with adults not enough that now we have o involve little kids of a forum member we dont like!

absurd ... i for one will not do that becuase i have respect for kids and mother - daughter relationship of anyone and everyone ... not just go commenting on it for the sake of proving a point in my silly internet argument.

then these people have the courage to talk about : respect , grace, call defensive argments mad and recommend respect ful interactions. what double standards.

edited to add : no one here knows what i feel for my daughter and after how much difficulty she is in my life, no one knows what i have sacificed for her and am willing to sacrifice for her , no one knows how i have struggled at every point in my life to give her the absolute best , how i have made my daughter my life, still people here are making comfortable assumptions that i am passing on centuries old ideas and poisoning my own well!

and i am supposed to embrace such comments with grace!

thanks but no thanks i am indeed not going to post here now ... for such people are just not worht it!

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Originally posted by: earth1978
are you an animal activist?

NO-I'm a Common Sense Activist!!

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Originally posted by: khargosh
I fully agree with earth and his view points.
Society is ofcourse there and rules are made by humans .

It is the way how u perceive the things and give a food of thought.

Forum should not be used to just bang someone with their thoughts including personal feelings.

So without getting too much personal and bringing the personal life in between...why cant nur singh u just write your personal views.

World is open society and people thinking are alwasy different ...and better we stick to topic rather than getting personal is better,.

Luddites of the world unite,you have nothing to loose but you misconceptions!

I did NOT make any personal remarks-why don't you take off your blinkers and read the responses properly? I posted MY OPINION to the post that happen to be contrary-if disagreement is mistaken for bashing,what can I do about it?!There IS free speech allowed in India-isn't it?

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thnak u for ur support but i fear that u may have to bear the burnt of an agressive forum policing now which applies to only selective some who seem to nto write what they want to hear.
@@@ Your paranoia is showing!

and ahh i will have the pleasure to hear that it is i and not jaynya who chose to bring mother daughter relationship in thi discussion of divorse ... responsible for this discussion turning personal.
@@@ You are welcome and you did!
is dealing with adults not enough that now we have o involve little kids of a forum member we dont like!
@@@ THERE-you are doing it AGAIN-bringing in kids/personal issues.

absurd ... i for one will not do that becuase i have respect for kids and mother - daughter relationship of anyone and everyone ... not just go commenting on it for the sake of proving a point in my silly internet argument.
@@@ Admirable self-assessment!

then these people have the courage to talk about : respect , grace, call defensive argments mad and recommend respect ful interactions. what double standards.
@@@ THERE-you are doing it again!! Putting your faults on the shoulders of others!

edited to add : no one here knows what i feel for my daughter and after how much difficulty she is in my life, no one knows what i have sacificed for her and am willing to sacrifice for her , no one knows how i have struggled at every point in my life to give her the absolute best , how i have made my daughter my life, still people here are making comfortable assumptions that i am passing on centuries old ideas and poisoning my own well!
@@@ This is NOT the forum to boast of your motherhood-post this @Childcentre.com

and i am supposed to embrace such comments with grace!
@@@ GRACE????NOT TO WORRY! Nobody is expecting that from you!

thanks but no thanks i am indeed not going to post here now ... for such people are just not worht it!
@@@ REALLY? THANK YOU!

If I'm not mistaken this thread is on an admirable subject of people's sometimes regressive view on marriage/divorce/attitudes to it, NOT a forum to whine if your post is not greeted with unalloyed joy!
We are trying to discuss a thorny subject-YOU keep dragging your daughter and your sterling pure motherly qualities here-which is very commendable of you-we all genuflect before you because if the rest of US are mothers,well,our children are being neglected to combat drivel on the forum!!

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Excellent post Annika. Really admire you for admitting that mistake of yours in judging your and your resolution to make amends. May I suggest that you don't wait for meeting him. Send him an email or write a letter to him about how your feelings have changed and how you realize your mistake now. It'll make him happy to hear from you and he'll appreciate your gesture all the more. Then when you meet him you need not to say anything, only behave normally as you would with any other favorite uncle.

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