Episode 1: The entire system is responsible! - Page 4

Originally posted by: FollowYourHeart

Before going out and changing the police, the hospitals and the courts what needs to be done is to change our own society, our own so called samaj and its orthodox thinking towards women and above all towards rape and sex and all these things, why is woman's purity dependent on whether or not she is a virgin...why can't raped and sexually assaulted women dream of a better tomorrow, of a life partner, of love and respect? why her own family members and husbands wish to throw her out as if her only existence in their lives was limited to her being their lust satisfying machine, and now that someone else has used her for that same purpose uski utility khatam ho gayi? woh gandi aur impure ho gayi? woh layak nahi rahi kisike pyaar ki samman ki?...I mean WOW...just wow...till the damn time this pathetic psychology isn't changed ki sex, rape being a virgin doesn't freaking DEFINE kisi ki "izzat"...izzat RESPECT HONOUR that doesn't comes from being a damned virgin, from just being used by one man ie your husband over and over again...and wohi izzat doesn't vanishes into thin air just because some darinda comes and violates your body, HELLO izzat respect honour these are HUGE words and they come from speaking the hell up, form fighting against injustice, form having zero tollerance for any kind of crap, from having the damned courage and strength to fight, to hope amidst all possible odds...who has given this samaj, these men to define our izzat only in terms of whether or not we are virgins?...is love all abt just having that one girl who hasn't been touched by anyone else ever before?...is this the meaning and definition of love or is this a deciding ground for going out and purchasing a new COMMODITY? jab koi cheez khareedne jate hai thats when we want brand new, untouched stuff, toh ek aurat aur cheez main koi farak nahi?

till the time women wld be considered as mere sex sedating objects, things wld never ever change, hell to me that woman wld be hundred thousand times more respectable who even though might have slept with HUNDRED men but in her work, in her deeds is honest and sincere and compassionate, as compared to a beautiful, fragile virgin who just obeys and surrenders to her husband but behind all her timidness is a manipulative b@@@h...sleeping with number of men, being touched by number of men SHOULDN'T DEFINE THE AMOUNT OF OUR IZZAT FOR GOD'S SAKE!1!

Originally posted by: zebbie0504

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Originally posted by: ...Jes...

@Bold: and i totally DO believe that .. it is not our fault but it is our nature .. every creature it not same powerful .. like even tigers and lions r stronger than us..so what? we need to over come taboos and only then we can think of getting proper right and judgement .. ! and also awareness in girls is also required .. they need to give priority to their safety and needs to stop get swept away by emotions as well .. :)

And the topic of PROPER JUDGEMENT !!! it is also in our hands ..like Aamir said for this we need to change ways of thinking and force the higher authority ..it is us who made them !!!! unless change won't happen .. and JUST giving them punishment is not the solution also .. u can give punishment to how many ppl when about 80% cases are not even registered?

Originally posted by: -Wanderer-

Hi Jes! Its Shreya here(if you remember)

I just wanted to post exactly what you said!

Your thinking is really good!👏Love it! Agree 100%

Its not the system!

It is us! We are the cause of all this. We make the system. It is us who look down on rape victims and make them feel like their life is over, they have committed the crime, they are at fault and they deserve it somehow.

We should be so ashamed. People in other countries now look down at our people because of this.

We lack compassion towards our fellow humans. Not only men but women too make women suffer.

This episode has taught me a lot.

Brilliantly researched episode.

I will change myself before changing others. Change comes first from within.

Shwets.. agree with you. entire system is responsible. But for me, saddest part was medical treatment! never imagined that even in hospital some girls had to bear torture. I appalud Amir for this effort. I am a huge fan of Amir after SMJ as a person. I don't mind how much he charges, but for the fact that he is taking an initiative, is what makes him stand out from the rest! I got to know so many facts which I wasn't aware through SMJ. And I know I am not in India, but given a chance, I would like to contribute one day to help someone if I could. Thanks to the team, who came with one center treatment for Rape cases. I wish that gets applied in all of India. And, a huge applaud to lady & her husband. SMJ starts with issue, spread lights about other factors affecting it, but never leaves you at that. They show solutions & efforts of the people who worked towards making a chnage. And, then survivors to make others victims strong enough to fight. That's how A show should be. You feel sad, you cry but at the end.. you feel proud of survivors & look towards bringing a change through the solutions mentioned! that how I felt for how the Rape issue was handled in SMJ's episode. Thanks to the team.