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It is simple because the parents or family members never taught her anything. Everytime the girl wants to talk or anything she is always told to go play or yelled at to go play. They need to remember that the child needs to be raised and just giving her food, clothes and letting play is not going to raise her and is not the only responsibility of a parent. I have never seen the parents teaching her anything. They never nicely tell her not cry so much and bother everyone but instead she is slapped and yelled at. she will not learn anything from that. Even during the khushi track, nobody sat with her and try to tell her that she is not always going to be the only baby in the house and she needs to love her sis and understand that she was a baby and needed more attenttion.
Has Meethi been slapped? Well, I don't remember but as far as I can remember, she's always received a small yelling/stern scolding, however way you want to look at it, and that's it. Yes, perhaps Rajini should be teaching her not to cry too much and bother others but then I think back to my own life and try to remember how I learned to not bother others and when to cry and when not to. Turns out I wasn't given any explicit training; rather I learned to judge by myself. So it's more of an internal thing being able to recognize someone being upset and then choosing to give them space or not. Think about it, if you're upset, you obviously want space too so by that logic, others probably feel the same. It's really a general concept that even Meethi should know. Plus, I'm pretty sure her parents taught her to do unto others as you want done to yourself (ie, treat others the same way you want to be treated). SO I think this is more of Meethi's fault for ignoring the underlying emotions that everyone else is feeling and just going by her own selfishness.In the mean time the parents needed to make sure to give attention to meethi and not make her feel left out all the time but no instead rajni was beating her and yelling at or telling her to go an play. Another thing i dont get is that why are they forcing their hatred on the kid. BP might be bad but he is not so bad that he would hurt or molest his own grandchild. He hasnt done anything to harm meethi so why should she hate him and not go talk to him. They need to teach that kid to always respect elders and by telling her not to talk to BP and stay away from him and by seeing everyone be rude with her that is exactly the treatment she would give to any elder. Meethi is too young to know everything that happened so they need to be careful when they are around her. she is too young to learn hating. She will not know who to hate and be nice with at this age.
Okay, first of all, the elderly are wiser and more experienced. They usually know what's good and what's bad for their children. And so they have the rights to make decisions for their children up untilt he point when the child can manage on their own and make proper decisions themselves. Having said that, BP is a very shameless man...he as a character is disgusting and worthy of being looked down upon. Everyone is right in warning Meethi and keeping her away from him since he is bad...he can instill bad values into her too since she is very impressionable. It's like there's a mafia in the world who kills people and commits evil crimes. The gang leader is hardcore evil but I haven't been touched by his crimes...the general population also hates him. Now just because I haven't reached the crossroads of his crimes doesn't mean that I don't stay away from him...he is epitome of evil and it's best to stay off his path and to hate him for his crimes. Also, Meethi doesn't necessarily need to hate BP...actually, she won't evenr be able to even if she knows of what he has done because only those who undergo the pain that BM, BP, Inder, Alok, Panna went through would be able to understand the hate and actually feel it. Secondhand accounts usually don't infuse the same feelings. Plus, they're not teaching her to hate...they're only telling her to keep away from this man as he is dangerous. That's not hate...that's just like me telling you to stay away from the cholera-infested marshes of the woodlands for your safety. Would you hate the cholera filled woodlands? No.
Plus she will obviously bother everyone because she has nothing else to do. She has no friends from what they have shown us and she is at an age where she needs to interact with other people and not just play all the time. Rajni and inder need to involve her in some extracurricular activities so she learns responsibilities and has something to do so when she comes home she is tired and does not bother anyone. Spanking and yelling might help for the time being but not in the long term and it wont teach the kid anything about life.
Meethi is pestering everyone at a time when they are highly tense...if she was understanding of the emotions that everyone was feeling and sympathetic to it, she would quietly find things to alleviate her boredom in ways that would not further trouble everyone and aggravate the situation. She would stay on the low until things have been sorted out.
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