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Posted: 13 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: MadameX

I'm telling you...all short people get considered as the bache log. 🤣

Show your FB pictures(the one in which you're standing near your tv and showing off)here and one more name will be added into the bacche log-Meethi,Ishika and MadameX🤣
I thought of pullying Sushma di's leg too lekin jaaon chod diya😃😆

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Netri

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Posted: 13 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: .sb.
Agree with you.She does get on my nerves sometimes with her crying.But I feel,even her parents are at fault.Especially Rajni.whenever Meethi does something unintentionally wrong(like playing ludo with BP etc),I have always seen Rajni shouting and saying Meethi to go and do homework.If instead of mere shouting at her,Rajni can tell why is she scolding her,I am sure Meethi won't continue doing things for which she goes on getting scolded.

Shounak , V all act to pressure differently . Rajni is not too different . I believe Rajni is under lot of pressure right now . Her husband [ Inder has turned in to ticking time bomb] , BM [ Rajni wants to make BM's life easier by not having conflict ] but end of the day Rajni is the one who works full time around House & Kitchen so Yes she can't say anything Inder right now [ Mostly spouses realize their stress on each other ] Meethi is easy target .

even after repeatedly NO by Rajni - Ishika , Meethi is doing what she wants to do . Rajni knew from the moment she saw Meethi with BP what Inder is going to do !!! It was not Rajni's fault but Inder was going to yell at Rajni for not keeping Eye on Meethi . While Second time Gandhi ji's example Meethi said too much which she shouldn't have . My own Mother would have slpa me hard If I wass butting in Elder's problem .

Mostly I think reason for Rajni's stress reason is Inder . It's end of the Rajni who has to handle Inder in his angry fase .

besides U think Rajni is wrong than U should see My SIL , My Neice makes her MOM's life hard . 😆

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Posted: 13 years ago

#13

but I have seen this attitude of Rajni from the start.Whenever Meethi tries to speak in between something about which she doesn't know,Rajni shouts and tells her to do her homework.Instead she can scold once and tell her not to talk when elders are speaking.i mean that's what we are told when we are small right?I somehow find Rajni to be a very rude mom..dont know why.

Netri,you made a boo boo.Its rajni not ragini😆

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Netri

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Posted: 13 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: .sb.
but I have seen this attitude of Rajni from the start.Whenever Meethi tries to speak in between something about which she doesn't know,Rajni shouts and tells her to do her homework.Instead she can scold once and tell her not to talk when elders are speaking.i mean that's what we are told when we are small right?I somehow find Rajni to be a very rude mom..dont know why.

Netri,you made a boo boo.Its rajni not ragini😆

seems to me they told her not to go around BP or talk to him yet meethi is doing everuything she shouldn't . I don't think Rajni is bad mom , I find her real .

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MadameX

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Posted: 13 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: .sb.

Show your FB pictures(the one in which you're standing near your tv and showing off)here and one more name will be added into the bacche log-Meethi,Ishika and MadameX🤣
I thought of pullying Sushma di's leg too lekin jaaon chod diya😃😆

Oh you can chod Sushma, but not me eh? 😡😆 And no way I'm putting my photos here. Just people knowing I'm a shorty is enough. 😆

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gracious45

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Posted: 13 years ago

#16

It is simple because the parents or family members never taught her anything. Everytime the girl wants to talk or anything she is always told to go play or yelled at to go play. They need to remember that the child needs to be raised and just giving her food, clothes and letting play is not going to raise her and is not the only responsibility of a parent. I have never seen the parents teaching her anything. They never nicely tell her not cry so much and bother everyone but instead she is slapped and yelled at. she will not learn anything from that. Even during the khushi track, nobody sat with her and try to tell her that she is not always going to be the only baby in the house and she needs to love her sis and understand that she was a baby and needed more attenttion. In the mean time the parents needed to make sure to give attention to meethi and not make her feel left out all the time but no instead rajni was beating her and yelling at or telling her to go an play. Another thing i dont get is that why are they forcing their hatred on the kid. BP might be bad but he is not so bad that he would hurt or molest his own grandchild. He hasnt done anything to harm meethi so why should she hate him and not go talk to him. They need to teach that kid to always respect elders and by telling her not to talk to BP and stay away from him and by seeing everyone be rude with her that is exactly the treatment she would give to any elder. Meethi is too young to know everything that happened so they need to be careful when they are around her. she is too young to learn hating. She will not know who to hate and be nice with at this age.

Plus she will obviously bother everyone because she has nothing else to do. She has no friends from what they have shown us and she is at an age where she needs to interact with other people and not just play all the time. Rajni and inder need to involve her in some extracurricular activities so she learns responsibilities and has something to do so when she comes home she is tired and does not bother anyone. Spanking and yelling might help for the time being but not in the long term and it wont teach the kid anything about life.

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Shehreen

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Posted: 13 years ago

#17

Mmm...I'm 12 ..and if my mom and the other family members told me to stay away from any stranger in our house I would try and stay away from that person ..but if my mom would shout at me and the stranger would come to me and say nice stuff I would obviously be nice to the stranger and respect him..! But ..like meethi said forgive bp gandheeji said .. I wouldn't say that unless I know everything that happened long ago..the reason why BP left..the reason everyone's angry at him! All the reasons! Meethi looks about 9/10 ..maybe?

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Pearl Ali

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Posted: 13 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: pretty54
Okay guys dont shot me .. but why are they treating this little girl like he is 2 years old. Okay she must be like what 11 years old or so.

It seems like she kind of gets her way in the family at a lot. No one can yell at her when she is wrong or anything. her grandmother said no one to spank her or yell at her. How are you suppose to teach her anything. I know ther are people out there that feel spanking or raising your voice on a child is wrong. Fine but babying them is even more wrong. They grow up to be spoiled brats ( case in point Suhanna)

They need to explain everything to Meethi about BP so she can understand what is going on. I feel bad for Inder and he is taking it out on her. But I think for her to start crying all the time is wrong also. I yell at the kids and they dont burst in to tears at the drop of dime.

If this family can change the spoilt brat Suhana then sweetheart it is there meethi

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Pearl Ali

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Posted: 13 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: pretty54
Okay guys dont shot me .. but why are they treating this little girl like he is 2 years old. Okay she must be like what 11 years old or so.

It seems like she kind of gets her way in the family at a lot. No one can yell at her when she is wrong or anything. her grandmother said no one to spank her or yell at her. How are you suppose to teach her anything. I know ther are people out there that feel spanking or raising your voice on a child is wrong. Fine but babying them is even more wrong. They grow up to be spoiled brats ( case in point Suhanna)

They need to explain everything to Meethi about BP so she can understand what is going on. I feel bad for Inder and he is taking it out on her. But I think for her to start crying all the time is wrong also. I yell at the kids and they dont burst in to tears at the drop of dime.

No some kids are sensitive and seeing Meethi she doesnt get her parents love only but the love of the whole family buwa dadajee baray dadajee than she must be observing the tears of bari dadijee also than what she should do a mother bari dadijee

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MadameX

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Posted: 13 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: SGPianShehreen
Mmm...I'm 12 ..and if my mom and the other family members told me to stay away from any stranger in our house I would try and stay away from that person ..but if my mom would shout at me and the stranger would come to me and say nice stuff I would obviously be nice to the stranger and respect him..! But ..like meethi said forgive bp gandheeji said .. I wouldn't say that unless I know everything that happened long ago..the reason why BP left..the reason everyone's angry at him! All the reasons! Meethi looks about 9/10 ..maybe?

Thank you for posting your thoughts, seriously. 👏 It's always good to have two sides of the coin brought out for a thorough discussion/analysis, not just one. Plus, now that most of us are no longer in the same age range as Meethi, it kinda gets hard to remember what it's like to be that age as we are now clouded with our own adult biases and judgements. So you also agree with us...cool. Btw, in relation to what you said (highlighted in bold), I'd like to pose a scenario for you.

What if you just made a friend in the park and you brought her home but your parents upon inquiry ask who she is, you give her full name and a bit of background that you learned from her to them, and they visibly look upset and tell you that you are not to play with her? Right now I'm going to withold the reasons the parents have told you that so for now tell me what your response would be, what would you think, what would you do, etc, etc.

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