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Posted: 13 years ago
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Okay guys dont shot me .. but why are they treating this little girl like he is 2 years old. Okay she must be like what 11 years old or so.

It seems like she kind of gets her way in the family at a lot. No one can yell at her when she is wrong or anything. her grandmother said no one to spank her or yell at her. How are you suppose to teach her anything. I know ther are people out there that feel spanking or raising your voice on a child is wrong. Fine but babying them is even more wrong. They grow up to be spoiled brats ( case in point Suhanna)

They need to explain everything to Meethi about BP so she can understand what is going on. I feel bad for Inder and he is taking it out on her. But I think for her to start crying all the time is wrong also. I yell at the kids and they dont burst in to tears at the drop of dime.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Thank you so much for making this topic and bringing this point to the front!! I was wonderding how come no one is saying anything about that because honestly speaking, she's getting on my nerves now (her crying all the time!!)
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: madhoo

Thank you so much for making this topic and bringing this point to the front!! I was wonderding how come no one is saying anything about that because honestly speaking, she's getting on my nerves now (her crying all the time!!)



I too wanna say same thing but abt Ishika..she is also considered the same as Meethi... 🥱
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Oh good, I thought I was only one thinking she deserved a spanking. 😆 I don't like crybabies...actually, I think Meethi at this point should be able to understand her parents' emotions: ie, when you see your parents looking tense, absent-minded, upset, or whatever...a kid should be able to understand that this isn't the time to whine and cry your eyes out...kid doesn't need to know the reasons why parent is like that but surely kid should have some sense to understand that there's something bothering the parents hence she should stay out of their way or at least adhere to their orders.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: greenleaf007



I too wanna say same thing but abt Ishika..she is also considered the same as Meethi... 🥱



I'm telling you...all short people get considered as the bache log. 🤣
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Posted: 13 years ago
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hehehehe...meethi and ishika are truly underestimated...
i still remember meethi from the initial episodes...the girls has grown up so quickly...😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: pretty54

Okay guys dont shot me .. but why are they treating this little girl like he is 2 years old. Okay she must be like what 11 years old or so.

It seems like she kind of gets her way in the family at a lot. No one can yell at her when she is wrong or anything. her grandmother said no one to spank her or yell at her. How are you suppose to teach her anything. I know ther are people out there that feel spanking or raising your voice on a child is wrong. Fine but babying them is even more wrong. They grow up to be spoiled brats ( case in point Suhanna)

They need to explain everything to Meethi about BP so she can understand what is going on. I feel bad for Inder and he is taking it out on her. But I think for her to start crying all the time is wrong also. I yell at the kids and they dont burst in to tears at the drop of dime.


she was 6yrs. old when ishan got married..so as per the serial she must be 8yrs old...i agree that u should not beat the kids(though i do it with my kiddo once in a while😆) but the kid should at least sense that their parents are upset on some issue...crying all the time is not the solution of every problem..she should ask her parents why they are so upset & try to understand the situation...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: MadameX

Oh good, I thought I was only one thinking she deserved a spanking. 😆 I don't like crybabies...actually, I think Meethi at this point should be able to understand her parents' emotions: ie, when you see your parents looking tense, absent-minded, upset, or whatever...a kid should be able to understand that this isn't the time to whine and cry your eyes out...kid doesn't need to know the reasons why parent is like that but surely kid should have some sense to understand that there's something bothering the parents hence she should stay out of their way or at least adhere to their orders.


Agree . Usually Kids know when their parents r upset or something is bothering them . More than anything They just know what their parents don't want them to do . Besides during Diwali Episode , Ishika told everyone that Even after she told Meethi NO , she keeps going back to see BP . At that time Inder yells at her but not like today . This r easy instructions for 8 year old to understand .
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Okay when an adult and that being your parents have already told you not to go and talk iwth that stranger even if that stranger is in your house then that child should respect her or his parents wishes and not go and talk with that person.

She is way to spoiled. Her mother cannot say anything to her like do her homework or do something else with out have RB,BM, Rano, Dadaji, Dadi, Disha and so on and so on tell her to stop yelling at the "poor Child"

Okay once a kind knows right from wrong its time to stop babying them over everything. Her father and mother tell her something and yet she is not listing at all. She knows full well taht no one in the family is talking to BP and they have said that in front of her and yet she still does not listen.

If she was my child and Yes I do spank and raise my voice on my kids. She would be in her room grounded for a long time. Not because of crying but because of being so disrespectful of not listening to her parents. Her father has told her to stay away from BP and yet she goes there all the time.

Its the same way they treat Suhanna in the house. BM famous line is "its okay she is a child" No Suhanna is not a child, she understands what it means to have a husband, have a boyfriend, be physical with her husband, go shopping. She should also know how to take care of a house. She needs to grow up and help with the rest of the family with the daily house chores and take some of the purdon off there hands. There is not reason what so ever that a grown women who has no kids and its only her and her husband in the house and she is not working, not to be able to do the cooking, cleaning of the house and should not have a maid coming to do those for her.

Come on its only 2 people. How much food do you need to cook. I have a job, and have my parents and 2 kids at home and yet when I leave my job i go and get groceries, run my errands, and cook dinner at home. I do the laundry and clean the house.

Edited by pretty54 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Agree with you.She does get on my nerves sometimes with her crying.But I feel,even her parents are at fault.Especially Rajni.whenever Meethi does something unintentionally wrong(like playing ludo with BP etc),I have always seen Rajni shouting and saying Meethi to go and do homework.If instead of mere shouting at her,Rajni can tell why is she scolding her,I am sure Meethi won't continue doing things for which she goes on getting scolded.

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