Ishwar should be forgiven or not?

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MadameX

@MadameX

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Posted: 14 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: tejeshec
The kashyaps have infact forgiven him. They are not filing a case against him for fraud. They are allowing him to lead his own life and are least bothered about him. Yeh forgiveness nahin toh kya hai.

That's not forgiveness. They're just tolerating him hoping he will go away on his own. 😆 It's like you have a mouse in your house and you're scared to go near it, your traps aren't working so now you sit there and wait till it somehow magically dies. 🤣 At least that's the current situation with me in my house. 😆

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Tejesh Ejanthkar

@tejeshec

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Posted: 14 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: MadameX

That's not forgiveness. They're just tolerating him hoping he will go away on his own. 😆 It's like you have a mouse in your house and you're scared to go near it, your traps aren't working so now you sit there and wait till it somehow magically dies. 🤣 At least that's the current situation with me in my house. 😆

That mouse is never gonna die unless u be strong. BP won't leave unless Kashyap's are strong and show that they are not at all affected by its presence.

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desighal

@desighal

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Posted: 14 years ago

#23

Forgiving and Accepting are two different things. I think they should forgive him - but not forget what he did and not accept him back in their life.

They've created a world without him, and he is sadly not needed in that world.

He should suffer in know that his mistake was forgiveable but that does not mean that his actions are acceptable. He will not be accepted or loved the same way.

what he killed can not be revived- and he killed his relationship with "shailu," his kids, his parents and his sibilng

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Tejesh Ejanthkar

@tejeshec

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Posted: 14 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: desighal
Forgiving and Accepting are two different things. I think they should forgive him - but not forget what he did and not accept him back in their life.

They've created a world without him, and he is sadly not needed in that world.

He should suffer in know that his mistake was forgiveable but that does not mean that his actions are acceptable. He will not be accepted or loved the same way.

what he killed can not be revived- and he killed his relationship with "shailu," his kids, his parents and his sibilng

@red exactly my point

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ramzzz

@ramzzz

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Posted: 14 years ago

#25

i kinda agree with tj .. its more lyk forgive n forget kind of situation..wea u forgive a person n move on not beta accept tHat person be part of ur life o ani decision makin process.:

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ice.maiden

@ice.maiden

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Posted: 14 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: MadameX

That's not forgiveness. They're just tolerating him hoping he will go away on his own. It's like you have a mouse in your house and you're scared to go near it, your traps aren't working so now you sit there and wait till it somehow magically dies. At least that's the current situation with me in my house.

The only diffrence Ekta is that a mouse would love to be ignored not human beings:)

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Tejesh Ejanthkar

@tejeshec

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Posted: 14 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: ramzzz
i kinda agree with tj .. its more lyk forgive n forget kind of situation..wea u forgive a person n move on not beta accept tHat person be part of ur life o ani decision makin process.:

Jules high five😆

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ramzzz

@ramzzz

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Posted: 14 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: tejeshec

Jules high five😆

Gosh u i was trin to be serious here:.But anihu..hi 5..:D

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poonam balani

@shilu999_balani

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Posted: 14 years ago

#29

actually yelling arguing and talking back is not going to work with him..

this man is just living in his own world... he doesnt realize how much hurt he has caused his wife, children, parents and siblings...

he is in denial that he is not wanted by his family and just wants to continue life as it was 15 years back magically removing them from memory...

but since this is not possible and just the sight of him will make make everyones blood boil... and the peace and happiness of the family is also lost...

radha bua, alok, inder and panna have tried their best but with no results... so now shailaja needs to take a tough stand... she should remove all her symbols of marriage and then face him strongly.. instead of being scared of him/

the whole family is behind her and will support her once she opens her mouth and faces him and makes him realize that they have moved on with their life and dont want him no more... that is the only solution i think...

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SriB

@SriB

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Posted: 14 years ago

#30

Originally posted by: AHF_S
Oh I agree that family matters should stay within family...but here I am pretty sure everyone who knows them will know about Ishwar who had suddenly left etc. Tongues will wag either way...so the family can decide on that. I decided something else...differing perspectives.

I don't care if they forgive...but after forgiveness I don't want acceptance ji. I only hope that this is dealt with properly and that forgiveness does not make way for acceptance. What I meant to say at the start was, forgiveness giving way for acceptance is not possible for the family b/c there is too much hurt involved, and I want it kept that way.

I think I forgot my acceptance part in the first post🤔...sigh..

This part I agree .wether he s forgiven or not doesn't matter either wAy .he CANNOT be accepted into the family Noway