Ishwar should be forgiven or not? - Page 3

Originally posted by: tejeshec

The kashyaps have infact forgiven him. They are not filing a case against him for fraud. They are allowing him to lead his own life and are least bothered about him. Yeh forgiveness nahin toh kya hai.

Originally posted by: MadameX

That's not forgiveness. They're just tolerating him hoping he will go away on his own. 😆 It's like you have a mouse in your house and you're scared to go near it, your traps aren't working so now you sit there and wait till it somehow magically dies. 🤣 At least that's the current situation with me in my house. 😆

Originally posted by: desighal

Forgiving and Accepting are two different things. I think they should forgive him - but not forget what he did and not accept him back in their life.

They've created a world without him, and he is sadly not needed in that world.

He should suffer in know that his mistake was forgiveable but that does not mean that his actions are acceptable. He will not be accepted or loved the same way.

what he killed can not be revived- and he killed his relationship with "shailu," his kids, his parents and his sibilng

Originally posted by: MadameX

That's not forgiveness. They're just tolerating him hoping he will go away on his own. It's like you have a mouse in your house and you're scared to go near it, your traps aren't working so now you sit there and wait till it somehow magically dies. At least that's the current situation with me in my house.

Originally posted by: ramzzz

i kinda agree with tj .. its more lyk forgive n forget kind of situation..wea u forgive a person n move on not beta accept tHat person be part of ur life o ani decision makin process.:

Originally posted by: tejeshec

Jules high five😆

Originally posted by: AHF_S

Oh I agree that family matters should stay within family...but here I am pretty sure everyone who knows them will know about Ishwar who had suddenly left etc. Tongues will wag either way...so the family can decide on that. I decided something else...differing perspectives.

I don't care if they forgive...but after forgiveness I don't want acceptance ji. I only hope that this is dealt with properly and that forgiveness does not make way for acceptance. What I meant to say at the start was, forgiveness giving way for acceptance is not possible for the family b/c there is too much hurt involved, and I want it kept that way.

I think I forgot my acceptance part in the first post🤔...sigh..