Ishwar should be forgiven or not?

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MadameX

@MadameX

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Posted: 14 years ago

#11

@ AHF_S: First of all, family matter should stay within family...why have outsiders have a chance to gossip about inner family turmoils and whatnot? Secondly, BP should be forgiven so that he can be forgotten and eradicated from the minds and hearts and lives of the Kashyaps. Because as I said before, not forgiving will mean holding anger and hate inside yourself and hence continuing to keep an emotional link between you and this person. Forgiving will break that emotional link and finally end everything.

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quiet_chaos

@quiet_chaos

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+ 5

Posted: 14 years ago

#12

Oh I agree that family matters should stay within family...but here I am pretty sure everyone who knows them will know about Ishwar who had suddenly left etc. Tongues will wag either way...so the family can decide on that. I decided something else...differing perspectives.

I don't care if they forgive...but after forgiveness I don't want acceptance ji. I only hope that this is dealt with properly and that forgiveness does not make way for acceptance. What I meant to say at the start was, forgiveness giving way for acceptance is not possible for the family b/c there is too much hurt involved, and I want it kept that way.

I think I forgot my acceptance part in the first post🤔...sigh..

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Nivina Dek

@nivi.divi

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Posted: 14 years ago

#13

That last scene with Panna was intense!

Very realistic I mean...

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RandomSquared

@RandomSquared

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Posted: 14 years ago

#14

no way. forgiving and accepting are to different things. this man left this parents, his wife and his two kids for his own selfish reasons. never kept in touch...not even for HIS children. married another woman and basically cheated this entire family. and now that all that didnt work out for him he is back because he has no where else to go.

n ok he can ask to be forgiven by his parents and his children n maybe even the woman he left behind (his wife) but he shud never be accepted into this family again. How dare he force himself into the lives of the ppl he cheated for 15 years. maybe one day they will forgive what he did but i dont think he should ever be accepted into the house n be able to just live with them.

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LoLo

@LoLo

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+ 2

Posted: 14 years ago

#15

Here's one question: If Shailaji had left Ishwar and her children and family to be with another man, would Ishwar accept her back? Would the family accept her back? (I guess that was two questions. LOL) We all know the answer to that, so why should anyone in that family accept Ishwar back? (Oops that's three questions.)

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kiara

@Karan.G.king

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+ 5

Posted: 14 years ago

#16

forgiveness my foot,he should be kicked out of india for doing what he did.

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leo4ever

@leo4ever

Rocker

Posted: 14 years ago

#17

noone deserves to be forgiven after giving up his family, ever!!!

and irrespective of his method, he doesnt feel sorry rather he feels enough is enough, how can you forgive someone who doesnt regret?never should he be forgiven rather should be kicked out and all ties should be broken i dont like ppl calling him by his relation, rather i prefer indar andpanna calling him ishwar, i want bm to remove sindoor and mangalsutar, and family to stop calling him bhayyia

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rosha.a

@rosha.a

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Posted: 14 years ago

#18

FORGIVENESS...
This is such a good and powerful word; a medicine to many broken relations. But I don't think this word has any relevance here. How can a person like BP be forgiven. It is not easy to forgive and forget all the taunts and tortures the family; especially BM, Inder and Panna would have received just because of BP. I agree with leo4ever. The family should stop calling him bhaiya and I like the way Inder and Panna address him as Ishwar Kashyap. When he have no answers to the questions of Inder and Panna he yells at BM saying she haven't taught "his children" any manners. I just feel like giving him a tight slap hearing that.

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Sam

@shaffa

Voyager

Posted: 14 years ago

#19

IK doesnt want forgiveness he wants his old life back... and the 15 years or so he has been away no one should mention ot take about...he thinks he has said sorry and thats it every one should act as if the 15 never happened...he cant see beyond himself... the pain he has caused BM, Inder, Panna and his parents...just doesnt register in his own world...I think Grandad should get the family together and remove BM sindoor... so she doesnt have to show IK that she is still married to him but only a daughter of the house

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Tejesh Ejanthkar

@tejeshec

Rocker

Posted: 14 years ago

#20

The kashyaps have infact forgiven him. They are not filing a case against him for fraud. They are allowing him to lead his own life and are least bothered about him. Yeh forgiveness nahin toh kya hai.

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