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Posted: 13 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: MadameX

Hold it right there, Nerdster. 😆 First of all, BP knew he was in the wrong hence why he was all apologetic in the first place...but it also turns out that he was a shameless man all along...he was employing that method just get into the good graces of the family which thankfully didn't work. Nevertheless, he does recognize his faults but still wants to be incorporated within the family only because he selfish and besharmi...no other reason accounts for his actions. If things get better in America, I highly doubt he'd want to continue living with the Kashyaps.

@bold right even he knew that he is at fault or the extent of suffering of his family only because of his selfishness better say besharmi and other punjabi word for it...😆He think that if he get forgiveness he will get second chance and that is his greatest misconception.He doesn't want to get rid of the heavy load or guilt,as his shamelessness and selfishness is overpowering the guilt but on other side BM should get rid of her heavy load,she should come out of the plight that will happen only by forgiving him she won't get depressed or disturbed every time and those bitter memories won't suffocate her more.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#32
he is so selfish...he just don't care about anybody...
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Posted: 13 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: abi71

I DON'T THINK HE SHOULD BE FORGIVEN. HE LEFT HIS WIFE, CHILDREN , PARENTS FOR NOTHING BUT GREED . HE LEFT HIS YOUNGER BROTHER TO FORGET ALL HIS DREAMS AND BECOME THE MAIN EARNER OF THE FAMILY. A TIME WHEN A WIFE NEEDS HER HUSBAND HE WENT AND REMARRIED . HE NEVER THOGHT OF HIS CHILDREN BECAUSE HE WAS SO ENGROSSED WITH HIS NEW LIFE. DID HE EVER THINK WHEN HIS CHILDREN WENT TO SCHOOL OR ATTENDED FAMILY GET TOGETHERS HOW BM /INDER /PANNA MUST OF BEEN RIDICULED. AFTER ALL YOU ALWAYS GET SOME PEOPLE WHO LIKE TO TALK ABOUT OTHER PEOPLES SITUATIONS. THE ONLY REASON HE IS BACK IS BECAUSE HE LOST HIS JOB. LATER IF HIS WAS TO GET OFFERED ANOTHER JOB IN USA WOULD HE LEAVE HIS FAMILY AGAIN. AND WHAT IF HIS AMERICAN FAMILY DECIDE THEY WANT HIM TO RETURN , WOULD HE DUMP BM AGAIN. THE OTHER THING THAT ANNOYED ME WAS ON KARWA CHAUT WHEN HE RANG BM THAT I WAS MISSING U, DID HE ACTUALLY THINK SHE WAS GOING TH FAST FOR HIM (PLEASE DO NOT THINK I AM SHOUTING MY CAPS R LOCKED CAN'T WRITE IN SMALL) I DO BELIEVE THERE ARE SOME MISTAKES THAT U CAN FORGIVE BUT LEAVING UR WIFE AND CHILDREN IS NOT SOMETHING THAT CAN BE FORGIVEN

That's what I thought too,once he has already chosen the other family over kashyaps,what is the guarantee that he won't do it again is his family in America wants to forgive him? I totally agree with your ppoint of view
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Posted: 13 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: mansari86

I think he shoud b forgiven if he would realize whatever the wrong he did coz its always not about ishwar's happiness. Its about BM n moreover inder n panna too. they dont deserve such a selfish father n waise bhi u can hv another partner but no father.


evry individual's happiness is somehow related to other one though shailija doesnt want hm back in life (superficialy) she actually denies the insufficiency in hr life... remembr the last yr diwali, n woh stitching button scene n dat recent scene of karwa chauth... actually happiness comes in life when we hv relation's warmth in our heart.

we should xpect sumthing happen to ishwar that mold him according to the person that kashyaps, shailija n more than dat inder n panna wants. . . . It wud b a high time for suhana to pay back BM

Return of BP will definitely bring rejoice n warmth in BMs life that will satisfy inder/panna n all KASHYAPS...

I agree that BM needs a partner in life but Noway can BP fill that post in her life.he doesn't deserve her.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#35
Forgiveness is not same a accepting back into the family
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Posted: 13 years ago
#36
really want the misunderstanding to stop here once and for all and the ishwar keshyap to be kicked out the house!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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also want to see ishan and shuana back home returned to their family and guys does anyone know what happened to abhishak and sona cos dey disapered or something
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Posted: 13 years ago
#38
PROBABLY HE SHOULD B FORGIVEN WHEN HE TRULY MEANS IT AND SHOWS EVERY1 HOW MUCH HE WANTS 2 B FORGIVEN
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Posted: 13 years ago
#39
Ishwar is such a self-centered person that he doesn't even mind his own kids repulsion towards him...

He has only 1 goal and that is to stay in the house, no matter what happens everyday between him and the others...

And now he wants to sell the house...completely shameless and sicko...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Fafu77

PROBABLY HE SHOULD B FORGIVEN WHEN HE TRULY MEANS IT AND SHOWS EVERY1 HOW MUCH HE WANTS 2 B FORGIVEN

Forgiving is not same as accepting back in the family. He can be forgiven for all I care but he CANNOT be accepted back into the family,in one of the posts the writer had argued that once BP is forgiven ,the family can move on with their lives,he can be forgotten. This definition of. F or giving is good with me. He just cannot be accepted back.no point giving him that kind of hold in your life that he can hurt you again.
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