Should BP : Ishwar Kashyap be forgiven?

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Should BP be forgiven for abandoning his family?

SriB

@SriB

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Posted: 14 years ago

Ishwar

Kashyap wants o come back to a family he abandoned 20 years ago or his own selfish reasons.in all these years he never once cared about their well being or asked about either his parents who brought him up or his wife who came into his life leaving behind her maika and his own children who did not ask to be born.did he ever think about is responsibilities towards them? After all this he wants to be forgiven and accepted with open arms. So fellow SGPians what do you think?

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crysind

@crysind

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+ 2

Posted: 14 years ago

No, Never...Not bcz what he did, but bcz the reasons he need his family back...Selfish fellow...😡

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MadameX

@MadameX

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Posted: 14 years ago

I think he should be forgiven . I said this before, forgiving someone will actually end their relations because then you are finally free from thinking about this person...you've let this person go from your heart and mind and calling it the end of everything. Otherwise, not forgiving will mean still holding on to anger and this anger is actually keeping a link between you and this person. Hence, why BP should be forgiven.

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428419

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Posted: 14 years ago

BP should be forgiven and forgotten completely!

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Netri

@iViews

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: MadameX
I think he should be forgiven . I said this before, forgiving someone will actually end their relations because then you are finally free from thinking about this person...you've let this person go from your heart and mind and calling it the end of everything. Otherwise, not forgiving will mean still holding on to anger and this anger is actually keeping a link between you and this person. Hence, why BP should be forgiven.

I agree with Rups ... Very nice points . 👏

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sushma_01

@sushma_01

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Posted: 14 years ago

Well, IMO he should not be forgiven, given the intensity of his wrong doing. Also, he never really came back because he missed the Kashyaps but he came back because he lost his job and his other family. This very fact shows that he is very selfish and thinks only abt himself. BP should carry the guilt thru - out his life and atleast others should learn a lesson out of his wrong doings.

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poonam balani

@shilu999_balani

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Posted: 14 years ago

i agree with my bahu... he should be forgiven...but not allowed back into the family...because his reasons for coming back are all wrong...the family has learnt to get along without him and his coming back will upset everyones life... but if they forgive him and just forget him the kashyaps will be able to live peacefully without the anger to fester in their hearts

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MadameX

@MadameX

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: sushma_01
Well, IMO he should not be forgiven, given the intensity of his wrong doing. Also, he never really came back because he missed the Kashyaps but he came back because he lost his job and his other family. This very fact shows that he is very selfish and thinks only abt himself. BP should carry the guilt thru - out his life and atleast others should learn a lesson out of his wrong doings.

Them not forgiving him doesn't mean BP will be feeling guilty because so far he has no conscience and will not even think about others, continuing to hurt them. Others have also learned out of his wrongdoings...that was pretty much evident when Ishaan wanted to leave for job transfer and all were very hesitant about it, with the history fo BP well etched into the backs of their minds. Still, they acknowledged that Ishaan was not BP and that they should give a chance for him to prosper. Just cause something happened once doesn't mean you shouldn't take a risk ever again...not with the same person though!!! "Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me."

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Ana

@..oneOone..

Sparkler

+ 6

Posted: 14 years ago

well, i think kashyaps should completely ignore ishwar n even if have 2 forgive, i want dada g to atleast slap him hard n say we 4gave u now get the heck of our lives. i hate ishwar as he is so selfish. he even not able to call bare papa as he didnt leave a gud example 4 youngsters 2 follow n so shouldnt get respect. funny fellow

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Suchi-

@Suchi-

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+ 3

Posted: 14 years ago

#10

you know guys he reminds me of the character of Jagya in Balika Vadhu.

He has cheated on his wife for someone better and for a better life just like BP.

Now that I see what might happen to him in the future,.. I am furious that such a selfish creature even wants to come back to this family just because he is lonely.

If his other family did notleave him would he have come back? NO

If he had a happy life where he has people to cook and clean his clothing and iron, would he have come back? NO

All he is doing, and wanting to come back is just FOR HIS OWN selfish reasons.

Oh I hated him yesterday.

"kya paschyatap nahi hai"

yes there is: STAY AWAY From their lives.

He wants a son who can produce income for him , when he is old now,

A wife who can take care of him and his needs now that he cannot do it himself or get another pretty girl to do it for him.

YUCK

disgusting.

WHY the heck didn't they THROW him OUT.

They should have just caught his neck and dragged him from there. thats what he deserves.