Should BP : Ishwar Kashyap be forgiven? - Page 3

Poll

Should BP be forgiven for abandoning his family?

Login To Vote

Created

Last reply

Replies

42

Views

6.8k

Users

24

Likes

87

Frequent Posters

s0phie_152 thumbnail
Engager Level 2 Thumbnail Engager Level 1 Thumbnail + 2
Posted: 13 years ago
#21
Ishwar does deserves to be forgiven as the family should know better them him and forgive him once and for all. However forgiveness doesn't mean Ishwar should come and leave with them. As he was very cruel when he left them and is not showing any kind of repenting for his act. Even if he does repent still I believe bari can't stay with a man like him who left her for another women.

Ishwar is a very slimy cruel man that only cares for his own benefits like he did before he is now. So nothing really changed about him.

He claims he feels lonely now but what about them time when bari was lonely nd she had to bring up 2 kids all by herself. He didn't care about her loneliness then did he?? He makes me so ANGRY!! Hate him!!
mansari86 thumbnail
Posted: 13 years ago
#22
I think he shoud b forgiven if he would realize whatever the wrong he did coz its always not about ishwar's happiness. Its about BM n moreover inder n panna too. they dont deserve such a selfish father n waise bhi u can hv another partner but no father.

evry individual's happiness is somehow related to other one though shailija doesnt want hm back in life (superficialy) she actually denies the insufficiency in hr life... remembr the last yr diwali, n woh stitching button scene n dat recent scene of karwa chauth... actually happiness comes in life when we hv relation's warmth in our heart.

we should xpect sumthing happen to ishwar that mold him according to the person that kashyaps, shailija n more than dat inder n panna wants. . . . It wud b a high time for suhana to pay back BM

Return of BP will definitely bring rejoice n warmth in BMs life that will satisfy inder/panna n all KASHYAPS...
Shehreen_27 thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail + 2
Posted: 13 years ago
#23
Wow! Soo many people have voted never...but I think he should be forgiven! How long can the kyshap family be angry at him? 😳 He did do a really selfish thing ..but just give him once chance to change! 😳 He has hurted BM's feelings alot ...not only her's ..the whole family's feelings! but now he has realised his mistake! Inder and Panna are happy with what they have..they dont really need ishwar...neither does the family...but giving him a chance will be fair! If BP comes back to BM's life...its gonna be better! maybe the other family member's dont need him but badi ma's life needs him! 😳
crysind thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail + 2
Posted: 13 years ago
#24
i would have said "Yes" if his return was genuine... He returned now just bcz he lost his job and may be his family in US... It is not the case that he came back "leaving" them..., he "lost" them... Moreover it's clear that he needs his family back for his own needs, not bcz he realized what he lost... So I don't want him back anywhere in Kashyap's life...

And forgiving and forgetting is like each Kashyap has to decide... May be BM will forgive, but Inder and Panna would never do that...It is not gonna be a combine decision I think...
iViews thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail
Posted: 13 years ago
#25

My only point for forgiving him is He doesn't deserve even anger or a single outburst from them . Forgive him , let him go , & let him earn his forgiveness by turning his life around . Family has spend more than 20 some years trying to heal the wounds which till this day r sore. Only way to close this chepter of life is to move on . And heal completely , never turn back & think abt Ifs ,Ys and buts .
ShadowImbue thumbnail
18th Anniversary Thumbnail Visit Streak 180 Thumbnail + 5
Posted: 13 years ago
#26
Earlier it was a plain No from my side but now while this track is re-opened and is proceeding in a best way.I think he should be forgiven.But will he value that mere forgiveness?(for him) as according to him he didn't do anything wrong.Does he demand forgiveness only?He want a second chance from his family he want Acceptance.Firstly he need to realize his fault he need to be guilty he need feel the pain,his family went through and than he should be forgiven and obviously it will be the end to griefs after forgiving him BM should remove all the symbols that symbolize her to be his wife although she doesn't consider herself to be and that will be the realistic end of the track (only my POV)
MadameX thumbnail
14th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail
Posted: 13 years ago
#27
Hold it right there, Nerdster. 😆 First of all, BP knew he was in the wrong hence why he was all apologetic in the first place...but it also turns out that he was a shameless man all along...he was employing that method just get into the good graces of the family which thankfully didn't work. Nevertheless, he does recognize his faults but still wants to be incorporated within the family only because he selfish and besharmi...no other reason accounts for his actions. If things get better in America, I highly doubt he'd want to continue living with the Kashyaps.
abi71 thumbnail
16th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail Commentator Level 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 13 years ago
#28
I DON'T THINK HE SHOULD BE FORGIVEN. HE LEFT HIS WIFE, CHILDREN , PARENTS FOR NOTHING BUT GREED . HE LEFT HIS YOUNGER BROTHER TO FORGET ALL HIS DREAMS AND BECOME THE MAIN EARNER OF THE FAMILY. A TIME WHEN A WIFE NEEDS HER HUSBAND HE WENT AND REMARRIED . HE NEVER THOGHT OF HIS CHILDREN BECAUSE HE WAS SO ENGROSSED WITH HIS NEW LIFE. DID HE EVER THINK WHEN HIS CHILDREN WENT TO SCHOOL OR ATTENDED FAMILY GET TOGETHERS HOW BM /INDER /PANNA MUST OF BEEN RIDICULED. AFTER ALL YOU ALWAYS GET SOME PEOPLE WHO LIKE TO TALK ABOUT OTHER PEOPLES SITUATIONS. THE ONLY REASON HE IS BACK IS BECAUSE HE LOST HIS JOB. LATER IF HIS WAS TO GET OFFERED ANOTHER JOB IN USA WOULD HE LEAVE HIS FAMILY AGAIN. AND WHAT IF HIS AMERICAN FAMILY DECIDE THEY WANT HIM TO RETURN , WOULD HE DUMP BM AGAIN. THE OTHER THING THAT ANNOYED ME WAS ON KARWA CHAUT WHEN HE RANG BM THAT I WAS MISSING U, DID HE ACTUALLY THINK SHE WAS GOING TH FAST FOR HIM (PLEASE DO NOT THINK I AM SHOUTING MY CAPS R LOCKED CAN'T WRITE IN SMALL) I DO BELIEVE THERE ARE SOME MISTAKES THAT U CAN FORGIVE BUT LEAVING UR WIFE AND CHILDREN IS NOT SOMETHING THAT CAN BE FORGIVEN
infinity00 thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail Commentator Level 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 13 years ago
#29
Ask him, where are his family with whom he spend 20 plus years of his life?? Where are his children? As this man has abandoned his first family very easily, how can we bileve that he didnt do it again? May be he ran from there because he didnt want to support them anymore, may be they don't know where he went, there is a possibility that they didn't abandoned him , he did, even if his second wife abondoned him, his children are his own flesh and blood, he has spend his time with them, not with Panna and Inder, they know him like a father not Inder and Panna. Before accepting and forgiving him, he needs to answer and his answers should be verified. I agree with Netri and Ekta that family should now finish this off once and for all .
Edited by venture - 13 years ago
-SilverAngel- thumbnail
18th Anniversary Thumbnail Stunner Thumbnail + 4
Posted: 13 years ago
#30
He was never a son, nor a husband, or a father... he was just a deserter... a ghost from the past that has now come to haunt the present.. would never want him to be forgiven!!

I want BM to be firm with him from now on!!

Related Topics

Top

Stay Connected with IndiaForums!

Be the first to know about the latest news, updates, and exclusive content.

Add to Home Screen!

Install this web app on your iPhone for the best experience. It's easy, just tap and then "Add to Home Screen".