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Posted: 13 years ago
#61
When I comment on the subject , It is never directed at FANs. Those comments doesn't mean to hurt or upset any individual person / Fan. If that's hurt or upset U than What can I do other than give valid explanation or take down few comments. But Forum is not just one group or persona's domain . Everyone has right to express themselves. which is not being excersised any more . Many r affraid to make comment on Actors & Characters . As Fans get hurt or upset. More & more members r avoiding serious discussion threads as they don't know how Fans will take those comments . Last 2 - 3 months I have noticed Its most of the time Me & Ekta making counter arguments , Rest of comments r only abt agreeement in each other's posts. So R disscussion threads r only for Fans ? When I make a post in any thread XYZ shows interest in it & make counter argument on it , I take it as this person is interested in haveing healthy disscussion. Then suddenly , other person gets hurts & I scratch my head for reson ...

I won't take offence of no one responds to my posts. Besides , Freedom of speach is some thing everyone should have . Like sachi said , U dont like something make Quote on it . I will give my reasons . but Don't accuse others of something they didn't do. As our own Suhana says " Mujhe koee batayega nahi toh mujhe pata kaise chalega ? " Don't U agree ?

As for getting hurt , Everyone gets hurts , Everyone gets Upsets . U dont have to b a Fan to feel that . People who gets wrongly accused , gets hurts & People who takes comments made on thier Fav. Star gets hurt . V should b consideret of both of those feelings.

Everyone has rit to say NO to leg pulling , set up boundries . If U don't do that then U can't say U Hurt My Feelings . Tell other person How U feel . But , I know this is all going to b in vain as Fans will always remain Fans & People like Me , Ekta who doesn't support anyone will get accuse wrongfully. but V can always try .
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Posted: 13 years ago
#62
Netri you are right ( sorry I have to agree !!!) that we hardly discuss these days. May be because there is not much happening in SGP which is worth discussing, I mean what ever is happening at the moment we all expected, the Mumbai track so far is exactly how I pictured it would be in the begining, so nothing to agree or disagree there, Dehli is quite until yesterday, so ets see.
Check my Pm though !!
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Posted: 13 years ago
#63
exaxtly yar ...what's is point of getting offended on some sarcastic posts on "fictional characters" ? I think people shud chill yar ...why so much of obsessiveness...i toh don't even give a damn to any "actor" or "actress" ...forget abt comments (on them) ...nd in other forums people r soo soo obsessive tht even if someone critically analyse (forget abt chill sarcasm - like we do here) any charcter then also they will just find ur comment "offending" nd "bashing" without knowing the intention . I generally don't take such people seriously ...they have their own FAN SYNDROME ..so why bother ...I would always want this forum be like the one it was before.( just 2 days back😒 )
I mean in real life who the heck is offended -
"the charachter"- NAA
"the actor" - NAA (doesn't gv a damn)
"the FANS" - they would always be ...😆
so we should not try to change ourselves yar ... this forum should be like it was before ...coz there r lively posts ..lively people out here ...n I luv this forum for that👍🏼 👏...U r not COMPELLED to like/dislike anybody here ...+ U can be free to say anything the way u want to ..can pull legs ...can BBC anywhere ..yehi to beauty hai yar is place ki ...aur ab KISI forum mein bane ek THREAD ki wajah se this beauty is fading ...I wud only say... just be urself yar ...don't give a damn to other forum walas ...hum jo kar rahe hain apni forum mein kar rahe hain ...We didn't invite them to see our post nd get some wrong meaning ..it is totally their fault ...let's not keep a STUPID restriction on ourselves due to the fault of others...

P.S. - Ekta mayee , Wonderful Post !!!
n I told u ki u r not a UD for me (for the tym being ) 😆🤣..See ...u found someone par ur level na 🤣
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Posted: 13 years ago
#64
Great to see we're all in agreement. 🤣

But seriously, nice posts...I wonder if the targeted audience actually read this. Would be nice to hear their thoughts now that I had released a battle cry. 🤣
Edited by MadameX - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#65

Originally posted by: MadameX

Great to see we're all in agreement. 🤣

But seriously, nice posts...I wonder if the targeted audience actually read this. Would be nice to hear their thoughts now that I had released a battle cry. 🤣



By now the whole IF knows that u are a UD so they will not take this war cry seriously😉😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
#66

Originally posted by: mjtruelegend

Wow Ekta dear, ⭐️you have really surprised me with you serious post. You know, I haven't joined any discussions recently so I have no idea about what went on, but I do agree that we should all agree to disagree. Everyone is different and so their thought/views will differ too. No need to make an official complaint if you don't like what someone has said. Many people have said things that has upset me but I never made any complaints because I respect that they have their own views and I have mine. If someone's specific post makes me upset then I deal with it the adult way and that is , I PM that person to tell them that I didn't appreciate what was written. It's best to keep it amongst yourselves and not let it get out of hand. Most of us are mature enough to understand to live and let live, no need to complain or fight for different views. Your views are yours, no one can take them way from you so it's best to join discussion if you want to or reply should you feel the need but no need to make complaints if someone has some strong feelings about something. We are all here to share our views and thoughts, everyone has full rights to express themselves if they want, so what if it is a little strong/negative. If you don't like it don't read it! Simple!

Please all just take it all with a pinch of salt, if want to sort out matters, do it in a dignified way and turn a blind eye if you don't like something. ⭐️

You know, Sheemu-sama, you're an another classic example of what I'm trying to convey...you're a huge fan of Ragini (even this is an understatement)...and although Netri and I may not approve that your feelings for Ragini can cloud some of your judgement or that you don't like some of the things we say against her, you don't hesitate to point out what comment has hurt you and in turn Netri has acted accordingly and either apologized for her comments or edited them taking your feelings into consideration. I think that's a very mature way of handling things on both sides of the party.
If things can be done like this, then great! It helps avoid a mountain being made out of a molehill...both sides are still friendly with each other rather than bearing sour feelings and grudges.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#67

Originally posted by: Keenu.G

ok so i finally read ur post ekta! very well written yaar! 👏

this beti is proud of her amma! 👍🏼 😆!
I have exactly same thoughts! Forums are meant to discuss either its criticism, praise or suggestions.. we are at the fault if we are not putting our criticism constructively and directly associating it with actors' personal life. Those things are to be kept out!
Wht i love about SGP forum is that members out here, understand something called sarcasm! 😛 😆! and wht impresses me is the wittiness of members, like how beautifully they reply to those sarcastic comments! Now to me, all these discussions are not bashing, rather leg pulling/ funfilled.. we jus find the way to tease each other.. but thing to be noted here is we are not trying to bash the actors..we jus tease them with the FICTIONAL CHARACTERS they irk abt.
Now we will be wrong, if we swear/ bad mouth these chracters.. we use them in rather fun/ constructive manner.. so i dun no where the word "Bashing" came out from.
I bet many people mke fun of SGP characters too... even out here in SGP forum.. we do sometimes, when CVs depict suhana too childish.. or when ishaan acts weird, his lipstick, ilesh lame jokes... we do criticize those acts.. but tht doesnt meant tht we are bashing them..
I think before using this word, the person has to make sure he knws the definition right 😛 😆!
And like others, i would also like to point out tht since IF is discussion forum, people here have freedom of speech, so I am free to write my thought as long as i stay in my limits.. but if i m criticizing a character complying with IF rules, then I am not wrong.. and if you cant take my post positively.. or feel bad.. jus tell me or better ignore it! why care wht i say.. you keep ur opinion of things.. and i will have mine!
ALL these characters are jus fictional so i would like ekta said, advise not to take them too serious.. take a chill pill.. and learn to have lil laugh in the life, its the cheapest medicine u can get in todays money world 😛 😆

All please bow to my beautiful beti with her awesome wordly gyaan. Clap😆
Totally agree with you...which means I agree with myself 😉...but still. Our world is a funny one...where people can get so hyped over imaginary things. 😆😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
#68

Originally posted by: tejeshec



By now the whole IF knows that u are a UD so they will not take this war cry seriously😉😆

When UD becomes serious, everyone also has to or else it will be the end of the world. 😳😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
#69
WOW long post! 😆 thanks for tl,dr 😆 it helped me greatly! and yes i agree, no need to apologize to people who don't try to understand our point of views and the context in which we talk... 😛
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Posted: 13 years ago
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tl;dr was made especially for busy people like you. 😉😆 But you're probably only one who understood what it meant at first glance or else I wouldn't have gotten requests for summaries. 😆

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