Faisla Karne kaa Adhikaar - Page 3

Originally posted by: MadameX

Two sides of the argument are strong...I will wait and see who has stamina to keep up with it and then join forces. 🤣

Originally posted by: Diivi

i hav to say dat,rano ws right to quite a gud extend today🤔..whatever she told ws straight frm her heart..
Rano,as we knw has a very soft heart nd she is in a way little immature in making decisions,compared to BM...bt d decision of letting ishan go to mumbai ws taken by BM nd Alok alone😲..dadaji ws also complaining abt dis in a past epi..
being ishaans mom,rano has d right to think nd take part in deciding abt his son's life..Bm nd alok shud hav atleast included her in d disussion😔..

i wud not critisise BM fr dis coz,in her mind nd othrs mind lso rano is 'choti😕' nd she wud hav thought dat rano will not be able to make such a hard decision..

still,in MPOV Rano shud hav bn included in atleast d discussions for deciding wthr ishan shud go to mumbai or not🤓..it ws like 'out of d blue' Bm nd alok decided to let ishaan go to mumbai..

PS-- it ws really brilliant of CVs to include such a part,coz sumthin like wud hav happened to any joint family..whn d decision ws taken by 1 or 2 individuals..nd it ws a very realistic thought to bring up such a matter..

Originally posted by: zak_ris

I am 200% sure that a person like Rano has no complaints with Badi Maa and Alok taking major decisions...Regarding any matter..

But yes, the decision of sending Ishaan to mumbai came as a surprise even to Rano ( for God's sake, she is his mother)...I mean how could Alok and Badi Maa can can take this decision without consulting Rano...Although they took the right decision but instead of telling it to whole family straightaway, they should have first consulted Rano and if Rano had objections, both of them could have easily made her understand the importance of Ishaan's mumbai trip..

And its not wrong too. Personally speaking, my mom makes sure that she is there in all major decisions of my life, even if when she is not required in some of the matters..But still its her right and no one can do anything about it.

But yes, BM and Alok made a mistake of not including Rano in the decision making and that too on the matter of his dear son..

But yes, Rano could have curbed her anger and she should have said things that are related only to Ishaan and not other things.. They were unecessary

nice post nets...😊

I think everyone is right in their way:

Badi Ma and Alok have always take decisions in the house, they have taken care of responsibilities and feel they have to. They took the decision they thought was right Ishaan.Circumstances have made them the decision makers in the house. Honestly the rationally and emotionally balanced way they take decisions is really great. Neither Rano or Radha could not do what they do, because they are very emotionally driven. But they are wrong in making decisions without asking others ( not just this one, but this one in particular); because other people are affected by these decisions and its theirs to make them.

Now coming to Rano; I think Rano is currently very emotional, because her son just left. She knew that it was important for him to leave at some level, we see that in the episode where she talks to Ishaan about birds and leaving the nest, but now she really misses him. And in her missing; she feels the bitterness of not being able to take decisions in the house. But she is wrong because she knows that Alok loves her and BM also loves her like a little sister, and her opinion is important to them. But she never shared them and they made the mistake of assuming she would voice it when it was important to her; I think Rano made the mistake of not. They are not mind readers, she should have said what she was thinking, not in the way may be Suhana would but in her way tried to express more strongly.

So in essence I think they all made mistakes, but I love this this show time and again, because everyone's heart is in right place. The charactes are not like normal hindi serial vamps to are hell bent on ruining each other's life, and one sati savitri bahu. But instead everyone are shown as human beings going through the emotions, ups, and downs of life.

Originally posted by: Savia

I think everyone is right in their way:

Badi Ma and Alok have always take decisions in the house, they have taken care of responsibilities and feel they have to. They took the decision they thought was right Ishaan.Circumstances have made them the decision makers in the house. Honestly the rationally and emotionally balanced way they take decisions is really great. Neither Rano or Radha could not do what they do, because they are very emotionally driven. But they are wrong in making decisions without asking others ( not just this one, but this one in particular); because other people are affected by these decisions and its theirs to make them.

Now coming to Rano; I think Rano is currently very emotional, because her son just left. She knew that it was important for him to leave at some level, we see that in the episode where she talks to Ishaan about birds and leaving the nest, but now she really misses him. And in her missing; she feels the bitterness of not being able to take decisions in the house. But she is wrong because she knows that Alok loves her and BM also loves her like a little sister, and her opinion is important to them. But she never shared them and they made the mistake of assuming she would voice it when it was important to her; I think Rano made the mistake of not. They are not mind readers, she should have said what she was thinking, not in the way may be Suhana would but in her way tried to express more strongly.

So in essence I think they all made mistakes, but I love this this show time and again, because everyone's heart is in right place. The charactes are not like normal hindi serial vamps to are hell bent on ruining each other's life, and one sati savitri bahu. But instead everyone are shown as human beings going through the emotions, ups, and downs of life.

Nice discussion on very relevant topic. 👏

Originally posted by: reguser

Nice discussion on very relevant topic. 👏

I don't watch SGP. I like SGP, but because of my workload, I don't want to get hooked to any serial.

However, some times when I feel too stressed, I just browse 1 or 2 forums (where I know some interesting and mature discussion takes place) including this to look for discussion on any contemporary topic which though related to the serial can be discussed without seeing the episode.

You have raised a valid question which many women including most of our mothers have questioned themselves many times when we were with them. Like Rano and many of your mothers, even my mother didn't get a chance to stand up for me when ever she felt I am right, and I have to be allowed to do what ever I like. Though this nature of hers was a big question mark to me then, now being a mother I have realized how difficult it is, especially in a joint family.

Rano's concern is genuine. Whether she is weak/strong, she has the right to decide about her children before any one. A woman will eventually turn strong after she becomes mother. So just because Rano cries and weak, doesn't mean that she can not take decisions for her children. Of course, she (or any good mother) will allow her children to pursue their interest. But, that decision should come mainly from her and not from others.

Still I feel Rano's situation as a mother is not that bad compared to many other mothers (may be including us ? ). Mainly because, BM and Alok will understand Rano's point of view if she explains clearly. And we can expect to see a healthy discussion between them.

But in reality, is it that easy? Yes, most of our mothers were not given the right to stand up for us and our mothers kept quiet. But if our mothers have raised voice, would it be heard?

To be honest, I feel though the times have changed (and become better), most of us still have to fight for taking decisions about our children. May be we have got the voice to speak, but still the situation is not totally changed.

To conclude, I feel a mother understands her children and can take decisions for them irrespective of her strength and weaknesses.