Faisla Karne kaa Adhikaar - Page 5

Originally posted by: shilu999_balani

i used to when i first came to japan but not anymore... i graduated...baby you still have a long way to go so enjoy your mangas while you can...😆😆😆😆😆😆😆

Originally posted by: MadameX

Arre yaar this stuff knows no age limits. It's like being all grown up and still watching Spongebob...nothing childish or wrong about it. 😉😆

Btw did you read it in Japanese or translated versions?

Originally posted by: MadameX

Ya, I read them all online on those translating sites...I remember my first manga being Naruto...and then I became obsessed with Death Note for a while...after that started reading those romance genres called shoujo...those were pretty hilarious...then got into live action and anime. 🤣

My God...manga had totally opened up the Japanese world/culture for me big time...got quite interested in it and did some research and stuff. I remember learning about Kogals and finding them quite bizarre but interesting...then the cosplay stuff was weird but admired people who could pull it off pretty well. 😆

You can tell that I'm a bit enamored by Japan. 😆

Originally posted by: ice.maiden

I think there are 2 different situations when someone else makes decisions on your behalf, one when they are in the protective mode and have always been making all the decisions and continue doing so. The other when they do not want to empower you, which was the case with most of the women of the older generation..

But in this particular case it is the first situation.. I remember this really old precap which says "Aisa hain mera Sasural", where Rano talks about BM being involved in all the decision making and about how she does not have to take any major responsibility and how happy she is about it..

So the adhikar to make faisla comes with taking responsibilities on your shoulders..

For all those who remember the old Chistopher Reeves Superman movie you'll remember this:- "With great power comes great responsibility"

But all said and done I can understand how Rano must have felt and I appreciate the things that she has done for BM. But that is the separate matter and making decisions is a separate one.

Originally posted by: crysind

So true Sushma... I believe as it is Rano's emotional side, her love for Ishaan is making her to say all these... Till now whatever decisions BM & Alok took, she never said "NO" bcz may be Rano felt as they will take right decisions. But in this case after Ishaan left home, Rano started feeling her pain and thats what driving her now... I am waiting for tomorrow's epi to see how BM is gonna make Rano understand... I am sure, it's gonna be a treat to watch...😊

This is another very interesting track that the CVs are showing. Rano's motherly protection and her 'right on her child'. She has become very emotional and is coming out with her emotions, although her thoughts in no way undermines BM or Alok's views. She will soon realise that she has hurt them and BM and Alok will also understand her concerns.

The best gift of this family is good communication between members and respect for each other. Everyone is heard and respected equally, even if there is a difference of opinion. Once all the views are heard they discuss the best option - that's the magic behind the success of this family.