Faisla Karne kaa Adhikaar - Page 2

Originally posted by: tejeshec

@ red: adhikar milta nahin hai adhikar liya jaata hai.. For that Rano should do something where she can be trusted with. U can't ask someone who is bad at Math to do accounts..Same here..BM and Alok take all decisions cuz they deserve that job as simple as that. Its not that this decision was taken behind her back. She could have raised this point at that time

Originally posted by: netri

Tejesh , I 'll say one thing My Mom said , Time was different than My Mom didn't make decision regarding us Bcauz My Dadaji Made them . Doesn't necessarily means they were RIGHT one . She wanted to give us more than What V got . It was her RIGHT as a Mother . When in past she tried to say My Dad shut her up saying My Dada had a right to make one as he is the eldest . What my Mom wanted was They hear what she had to say .

By the time She got the right , V were almost old enough to make one our selves. Now , She made peace with the past but I have seen My own Mother's ghutan for Astitva. She lets my SIL all sorts of decisions regarding House , Kids everything so She can express her self & She can use her voice .

Dadaji gave Adhikar or ask BM regarding Decisions but They all ignored Rano bcauz of her crying . They all thought She is weak [ mind ] to make one.

Rano never ask her Adhikar as It is not something U can ask but It is not something that U never give anyone to either . Dadaji never gave enough importance to Rano's voice .

Originally posted by: netri

Rano never ask her Adhikar as It is not something U can ask but It is not something that U never give anyone to either . Dadaji never gave enough importance to Rano's voice .

My Maasi has 3 sons. Maasi always sends her eldest son to buy vegetables from market not cuz she is showing partiality in giving only him the responsibility but she did give a chance or 2 to her other children but were found inept in selecting/identifying fresh vegetables.

Dadaji never gave enough importance only when it came to decision making (not in every aspect ) to Rano only cuz he felt she was not capable (as per her character shown in the serial)

I never said Rano should ask for Adhikar. Adhikar is something u need to take on u'r own. When Alok and BM gave Ishaan permission, Rano should have said I will not send my son. I am sure Ishaan wouldn't have left just cuz BM said yes. He would have then made Rano agree. Thats how it works. If u keep agreeing with what others say then u will lose u'r individuality as well. Rano has become a laughing stock in that house and only n only she is to blame for her current state

Two sides of the argument are strong...I will wait and see who has stamina to keep up with it and then join forces. 🤣

Originally posted by: MadameX

Two sides of the argument are strong...I will wait and see who has stamina to keep up with it and then join forces. 🤣

UD I don't need you. Thank you🤣

You are too weak and powerless without me. 🤣

Originally posted by: MadameX

You are too weak and powerless without me. 🤣

But on a serious note, you raised good points and so did Netri so I'm unsure which one is the stronger side. 😆 I shall wait until maybe I'll have an argument that will knock both of you out. 🤣

its not about knocking out u'r opponent sweetie its about participating in healthy discussions😆

i hav to say dat,rano ws right to quite a gud extend today🤔..whatever she told ws straight frm her heart..
Rano,as we knw has a very soft heart nd she is in a way little immature in making decisions,compared to BM...bt d decision of letting ishan go to mumbai ws taken by BM nd Alok alone😲..dadaji ws also complaining abt dis in a past epi..
being ishaans mom,rano has d right to think nd take part in deciding abt his son's life..Bm nd alok shud hav atleast included her in d disussion😔..

i wud not critisise BM fr dis coz,in her mind nd othrs mind lso rano is 'choti😕' nd she wud hav thought dat rano will not be able to make such a hard decision..

still,in MPOV Rano shud hav bn included in atleast d discussions for deciding wthr ishan shud go to mumbai or not🤓..it ws like 'out of d blue' Bm nd alok decided to let ishaan go to mumbai..

PS-- it ws really brilliant of CVs to include such a part,coz sumthin like wud hav happened to any joint family..whn d decision ws taken by 1 or 2 individuals..nd it ws a very realistic thought to bring up such a matter..

I am 200% sure that a person like Rano has no complaints with Badi Maa and Alok taking major decisions...Regarding any matter..

But yes, the decision of sending Ishaan to mumbai came as a surprise even to Rano ( for God's sake, she is his mother)...I mean how could Alok and Badi Maa can can take this decision without consulting Rano...Although they took the right decision but instead of telling it to whole family straightaway, they should have first consulted Rano and if Rano had objections, both of them could have easily made her understand the importance of Ishaan's mumbai trip..

And its not wrong too. Personally speaking, my mom makes sure that she is there in all major decisions of my life, even if when she is not required in some of the matters..But still its her right and no one can do anything about it.

But yes, BM and Alok made a mistake of not including Rano in the decision making and that too on the matter of his dear son..

But yes, Rano could have curbed her anger and she should have said things that are related only to Ishaan and not other things.. They were unecessary