Insensitive or Indifferent? Partiality in the Kash

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elle45

@elle45

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Posted: 14 years ago

Don't get me wrong, I love the Kashyaps. They're an almost ideal loving family, who would do anything for each other. But one thing I can't stand is their insensitivity towards some girls. Case in points:

1. The current track. Where they're all suddenly looking for girls for ishaan. Have they spared a thought about what those girls and their families will go through? They will be hoping that this is THE guy for our daughter, the girl might actually like Ishaan, but for the Kashyaps it just a ploy to keep Ishaan happy. Will they spare a thought for the girl if they reject her. Is it even fair to take a fake proposal of a married man to any girl?

2. This same thing happened with Beautiful Bubbly as well. Now come on, Bubbly cannot be so bad or ugly that everyone thought it was a joke that Manju Aunty wanted to pair her up with Deepak. And even if she isn't upto Deepak's HIGH standards, it was not fair to lead Manju aunty on like that.

3. Now this is the last thing. But I don't like it when Suhaana gets preferential treatment over Rajni and Disha. Suhaana got the A/C, they did not. Suhaana was exempt from work, they were not. Everyone keeps gifting Suhaana one thing or the other. But nothing for the other 2 bahus? Is that fair? Arent the Kashyaps being insensitive?

I know this may sound like a very negative post. But I was just thinking, even the most perfect family has its flaws. Does anyone else find the above points objectionable?

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mjtruelegend

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Posted: 14 years ago

No darling we are not getting you wrong. I don't know about anyone else but I am currently hating this Kashyap family. They are so superficial and insensitive VERY SELF-CENTERED. They never consider the consequences of their actions on others and they never admit they own mistakes. They are behaving like retards who can not figure their mess they've made themselves. The elders are worse, they are like fishes, they haven't a clue whats going on in the family and even they do find out they don't do anything about it. Blaming others is easy but they need to look at themselves and REALISE HOW SICK AND DISGUSTING THEY ARE.😡🤢

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elle45

@elle45

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Posted: 14 years ago

Now I don't hate them, but yes, I dislike their attitude at the moment. You said it in two words, they are quite SELF-CENTERED. I was expecting that BM at least would say this process of looking at girls with the wrong intention is wrong. Why break a girl's heart by rejecting her? They felt so bad when girls would reject Ishaan but now they don't feel bad. Neither did they when they rejected Beautiful Bubbly daily.

At least the elders of the family should act more mature. Meaning Dadaji, Dadiji, BM and Alok.

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Netri

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Posted: 14 years ago

I agree to all points

Look for a suitable girl for Ishan is th sickest thing they can ever think off . Y ? They didn't do anything other than stay quite . Plus , what will happen to that POOR GIRL when she learns that she got rejected for XYZ reasons. Sick mind . How would they feel if someone knowingly show a married man for Ishika , & he also forgotten his wife & they reject Ishaika ... They will feel bad . right . Cauz Beti toh appna khoon hoti hain naa . Bahu toh kisi aur ka khoon hain . Chi Chi ... Elder Kashyaps have lost all respect I ever had for them .
I said this before what they did to MA was wrong on so many levels . & someone in this forum got mad at me for that . I stand to my view . MA should have slap BM for that ... For letting them give flase hope . I so want someone to do this to Ishika Even though Ishika has nothing to do with it but I was Kashyaps to feel the pain they have caused others .
U r right . I had problem with all the gifts they gave Suhana cauz she gave up shopping . I still believe what did was wrong . but again some people thought I was wrong as It was Mahan Kashayaps love for Suhana as she is the youngest bahu of the family . and they must have done all this for both Disha - Rajni before. When it comes to Bahus of the family before & After doesn't count . Present counts .
Nice Post 👏

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mjtruelegend

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Posted: 14 years ago

To be honest its SHOCKING to see elders of a family to behave so carelessly with NO COMPASSION or ANY CONSIDERATION. Elders are supposed bind people together, keep a strong hold of the family, but here they seem to have no clue of whats going on or what to do. They don't even have common sense to seek advice, take Ishaan to a psychiatrist. THEY DON'T DO ANYTHING. Tell me is that how it works? I don't think so.

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elle45

@elle45

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Posted: 14 years ago

Exactly Netri! I don't know why there's a different treatment for the 3 DILs. It should be of no concern to them that Suhana is from a richer background and Rajni Disha arent. If Ishaan couldnt afford something for Suhana, the whole family pools in... I've never seen that for those 2. Then they didnt even bother to ask Rajni Dishas families to the picnic while Bajpai and Sanju went. I just hate preferential treatment, on the show and in real life.

It's not Ishikas fault that we should wish bad for her, but you're right, somehow or the other, they should realise that they are wrong and what it feels like when someone does tit-for-tat to you.

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elle45

@elle45

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: mjtruelegend
To be honest its SHOCKING to see elders of a family to behave so carelessly with NO COMPASSION or ANY CONSIDERATION. Elders are supposed bind people together, keep a strong hold of the family, but here they seem to have no clue of whats going on or what to do. They don't even have common sense to seek advice, take Ishaan to a psychiatrist. THEY DON'T DO ANYTHING. Tell me is that how it works? I don't think so.

And they're so disconnected from this whole Shashikala matter. Personally, I think it's disgusting how they've told Ishaan that SK is a married lady, yet they expect Ishaan to fall in love with her. Isnt that just plain wrong? Shouldn't the elders have rectified the matter early on, and said she's not married?
What I had thought would be a cute love story between Sushaan just seems so wrong now, coz Ishaan thinks a married lady is flirting with him (kind of makes SK seem characterless) and yet he's falling in love with her.

The elder Kashyaps dont have the sense to maintain order in the house. Everyone just does their own mad thing.

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Netri

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: elle45
Exactly Netri! I don't know why there's a different treatment for the 3 DILs. It should be of no concern to them that Suhana is from a richer background and Rajni Disha arent. If Ishaan couldnt afford something for Suhana, the whole family pools in... I've never seen that for those 2. Then they didnt even bother to ask Rajni Dishas families to the picnic while Bajpai and Sanju went. I just hate preferential treatment, on the show and in real life.

It's not Ishikas fault that we should wish bad for her, but you're right, somehow or the other, they should realise that they are wrong and what it feels like when someone does tit-for-tat to you.

I have seen In real life Most of time In-Laws r super nice to to the bahu thy live with . Y ? I hate it . It's not other bahu's fault that U decided to live with this one . But tell me whole point in suhana give up shopping was what ? Did she schieve that ? They did shopping on her behalf 🤢 What did she learn ? But here to me Suhana didn't learn anything . 🤢 Other 2 deserves too .
I don't want Ishika to suffer but that's only way they will understand . But I so want BP to come back & make BM's life hell . Even if It makes Evil . I'll live with that . From now onwards I m in BP's team even though I don't like him ...😆

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Netri

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: elle45

And they're so disconnected from this whole Shashikala matter. Personally, I think it's disgusting how they've told Ishaan that SK is a married lady, yet they expect Ishaan to fall in love with her. Isnt that just plain wrong? Shouldn't the elders have rectified the matter early on, and said she's not married?
What I had thought would be a cute love story between Sushaan just seems so wrong now, coz Ishaan thinks a married lady is flirting with him (kind of makes SK seem characterless) and yet he's falling in love with her.

The elder Kashyaps dont have the sense to maintain order in the house. Everyone just does their own mad thing.

Or they could have said that SK is going through Divorce ... How hard can it b ? Khud hi flirting ka idea dete hain aur phir bad mouth karte hain ...

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589799

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Posted: 14 years ago

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I am still confused over whether they are insensitive or indifferent. Earlier (in the beginning of the show) I would have said that they are indifferent. IDK why. But now they are insensitive. Completely insensitive. I will write in detail later on.

You were talking about Ishika right? Ishaan got rejected many times before marrying Suhana. So shouldn't the Kashyaps know how it feels to be rejected? I mean they must be having some idea right? Seems like the Kashyaps are insensitive to others' problems and troubles and they can only think about themselves all the time. Is that what the CVs want to convey?

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