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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: netri

I have seen In real life Most of time In-Laws r super nice to to the bahu thy live with . Y ? I hate it . It's not other bahu's fault that U decided to live with this one . But tell me whole point in suhana give up shopping was what ? Did she achieve that ? They did shopping on her behalf 🤢 What did she learn ? But here to me Suhana didn't learn anything . 🤢 Other 2 deserves too .
I don't want Ishika to suffer but that's only way they will understand . But I so want BP to come back & make BM's life hell . Even if It makes Evil . I'll live with that . From now onwards I m in BP's team even though I don't like him ...😆



True, there was no point in Suhana not shopping. They're just giving her the wrong msg, that if you want something, we'll get it for you... The airconditioner (which is a necessity in my opinion though), the car, the really expensive dress, the designer bags when she's not shopping, the freedom to sleep late and not work if she doesnt want to, the privelege of going on a mostly-paid-for honeymoon, etc. If that's not spoiling someone rotten then what is it? Why are they indifferent to Rajni Disha? I swear, this kind of preferential treatment breaks up homes, and causes bahus to move away. It's a wonder the family is still intact.

😆 I cant be on BP's team ever, and I still dont HATE BadiMaa. But yes, the entire family should be somehow made to realise how they behave.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: ymanjushree10

<font face="'Comic Sans MS', Times, serif">I am still confused over whether they are insensitive or indifferent. Earlier (in the beginning of the show) I would have said that they are indifferent. IDK why. But now they are insensitive. Completely insensitive. I will write in detail later on. </font>

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<font face="'Comic Sans MS', Times, serif">You were talking about Ishika right? Ishaan got rejected many times before marrying Suhana. So shouldn't the Kashyaps know how it feels to be rejected? I mean they must be having some idea right? Seems like the Kashyaps are insensitive to others' problems and troubles and they can only think about themselves all the time. Is that what the CVs want to convey? </font>



If Ishika is the only means of them realising how wrong they are, then I guess yes, the poor girl does need to make some sacrifices.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Its actually a combination of everything. The bottom like is they have SERIOUSLY LOST their marbles.😡
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Posted: 14 years ago
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From my experience , my in laws do love me more then any of there other Bahus😳, but it always put me in embarrasing situation, I had the AC in my room, but my hubby paid for it as I went there with my first born from here and he said nope my baita is not going to stay in garmi as they do have Ac in three other rooms but not in Bahus . Anyways as I dont stay there so who ever is there uses my room , I have no problem, so many times my inlaws ask my opinion in everything and I had to amke sure that I bring all the others in as well( gosh sometimes they use to moan to me about it) and there reason for there partiality was that they know me from the day I was born , I grew up infront of them , my parents are so close to them so its natural.
To cut the story short its not nice in any ways , I have to justify all the time, I do get along very well with my SIL,s but know they are not 100% with me, not because of my doing but my sweet inlaws.
What Kyshaps are doing is beyond my understanding, rejecting girls knwingly is moraly wrong and its a crime for arranging a married mans, wedding in this day and age, isnt it???? even in Muslim law of this country second mairrage is allowed if the first one gives written permission, !!!! I know they are not going to do it but why go that route which is of no benefit to anybody and they are hurting there own son , forget about Suhana.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: venture

From my experience , my in laws do love me more then any of there other Bahus😳, but it always put me in embarrasing situation, I had the AC in my room, but my hubby paid for it as I went there with my first born from here and he said nope my baita is not going to stay in garmi as they do have Ac in three other rooms but not in Bahus . Anyways as I dont stay there so who ever is there uses my room , I have no problem, so many times my inlaws ask my opinion in everything and I had to amke sure that I bring all the others in as well( gosh sometimes they use to moan to me about it) and there reason for there partiality was that they know me from the day I was born , I grew up infront of them , my parents are so close to them so its natural.
To cut the story short its not nice in any ways , I have to justify all the time, I do get along very well with my SIL,s but know they are not 100% with me, not because of my doing but my sweet inlaws.
What Kyshaps are doing is beyond my understanding, rejecting girls knwingly is moraly wrong and its a crime for arranging a married mans, wedding in this day and age, isnt it???? even in Muslim law of this country second mairrage is allowed if the first one gives written permission, !!!! I know they are not going to do it but why go that route which is of no benefit to anybody and they are hurting there own son , forget about Suhana.

Sorry for the very late Venture 😒
Thanks for sharing your story 😊... I think it's wonderful that you got such amazing in-laws, who think so highly of you... but even you do realise that their being partial to you is somewhat wrong right? That is something I think even Suhana needs to realise... perhaps when next time everyone buys her a gift to spoil her, she could suggest that Rajni and Disha deserve it more than her? Or maybe she could get something for Rajni and Disha as well?
Maybe the next time the Kashyaps take Bajpai and Sanjana to a picnic... Suhana could suggest that R&D's families could also join them? That way, even R&D will stay happy with Suhana and the Kashyaps.
Just like you said, your Sis-in-laws are not 100% with you because they think the elders are partial towards you. If SGP showed a real family, R&D would feel the same by now. Maybe this could be a future track as well?
Regarding the 2nd marriage issue... it's simply unethical what the whole Kashyap family is doing... fooling innocent girls into thinking this might be THE proposal when they actually have no intention of marrying their son to her. I just feel so bad because of this, coz when I imagine the Kashyaps, I imagine a perfect family, like everyone would want... but such things are starting to ruin that perfect image for me.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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omg i so agree to all the posts to everybody...
i have been writing the same for a long time abt the unfairness to disha rajini.
but somehow, very many people defended suhaana and kashyaps.

its outright injustice to 2 very sweet and accommodating bahus. and sometimes i feel the kasyaps take advantage of disha and rajnis goodness and sideline them.

abt suhana... i still cant make out if she is innocent/dumb or brash. the way she talks sometimes is beyond my comprehension. and being rich and spoilt is not excuse enuff. and if i remember right rajni too is from a rich family right, would they tolerate such behaviour from her??


anyways... whatever they are showing now is plain rubbish which makes no sense at all.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: fruark

omg i so agree to all the posts to everybody...

i have been writing the same for a long time abt the unfairness to disha rajini.
but somehow, very many people defended suhaana and kashyaps.

its outright injustice to 2 very sweet and accommodating bahus. and sometimes i feel the kasyaps take advantage of disha and rajnis goodness and sideline them.

abt suhana... i still cant make out if she is innocent/dumb or brash. the way she talks sometimes is beyond my comprehension. and being rich and spoilt is not excuse enuff. and if i remember right rajni too is from a rich family right, would they tolerate such behaviour from her??


anyways... whatever they are showing now is plain rubbish which makes no sense at all.



Rajni is from a rich family? Have they ever discussed or shown her family in the show?

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