Suhana's anger was kind of justified... - Page 4

I too believe that Suhana's anger was justified to the sense that she did not want to hear about Sid; however, I didn't like the way she yelled at Elesh that he doesn't have anything besides talk and gossip. True, Elesh doesn't work but to yell at him like that would definitely hurt Elesh and Disha, well, to the extent, it would hurt the whole family.

On the other note, I agree with you guys that there has to be a limit to hassi mazak. There was no reason for them to tell Suhana that Ishaan is not worth her. (well, then Disha does say that jo bhi hai, Ishaan 100000 main 1 hai, so that's good, but stilll)... They are MARRIED now and they can't change the fact.

Originally posted by: ~*simran*~

Like I mentioned in the other topic, I fully justify Suhana's anger. If I was in her shoes I'd do the same. How dare anyone say why did you choose him and not koi aur? I'd totally kill, yahaan toh Suhana just yelled lol. What if Disha gets that question? Mazaak ki hadh hoti hai. If Disha explodes, and Rajni sides with Disha I'll not like it one bit. Why should they be upset? Ishaan ke saath mazaak karna is one thing, Suhana another. She is the new bahu. Where Baadi Maa, now I want her to really scream at them. Ishaan better not tell Suhana to understand b/c it was way out of line ji.

very true..i agree wid the other posters abt how elesh went on and on disregarding the fact tht suhana LOOKED pissed off...how difficult is it to NOT realise she is getting irritated..one of suhana's main problem is tht she cnt hide her facial expressions bt yahan to mamla ulta hai..

hmm frankly speaking i agree with u

Originally posted by: vishmewell

Well... Disha herself crossed the line and all limits today. If a woman can't take the insult inflicted upon her husband, then she should also know where here limits are. Did Disha not ridicule Suhana's husband by calling him all names and she is wondering how she even agreed to get married to him? Is that not an extreme insult to a woman coz she is married to him? Disha insulted a sacred relationship od Suhana-Ishaan. On the contrary, Suhana spoke the truth. Elesh is nikamma and indulges in other people's business. And just not that, he was holding the magazine w/Sid's picture up against her face and linking her up with another man? Forget about Suhana's past. It is preposterous for anyone to do such a thing. I only wished Rano heard them to Only slap Elesh, Disha and Ishika for what they did and uttered.

One has to be in Suhana's shoes to feel the insult she had to go thru... Suhana spoke the truth. If truth is bitter, so be it!!!

Ishaan was standing by the door and watching??? Ridiculous! I am enraged!!! He had the duty towards Suhana to come to her rescue and give his kin a push back.

If they make Suhana to apologize, that would be so ridiculous and injustice to Suhana. Ishaan must bring this incidence to the notice of elders in the family to fix these guys up, which is a right thing to do. After that, if Suhana has to say sorry to Elesh, then it's ok.

BTW, when is Disha going to realize that Ishaan is 1000 times better than her nikamma Elesh before she opens her big mouth to ridicule Ishaan?
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Yesterday watching the promo even i felt that Suhana was wrong to scream and Elesh but after watching the episode i felt her anger was justified....only she should have blasted all 3 people there....they had no right to link her up with anyone else but Ishaan...even though Suhana got angry for a different reason because she knew Sid...those 3 crossed their lines so many time in the yesterday. Specially Disha if she's going to take offense on Suhana's words on her husband then she should not insult other people's married lives....you get served from the same spoon you serve other people with. Suhana can say sorry for screaming....but those guys should say sorry for going beyond their limits as well.

looks like everyone disagrees with me here. i guess we will agree to disagree.....I fully believe suhana's anger to be justified, but never her words....the way elesh/disha were joking was stupid and hurtful, but so were suhana's words to elesh.......

if anger justified rudeness, we would all be living in a much worse place........

Jiya you have a very good point here. Anger does not justify rudeness.

Some people sulk in anger, some keep quiet and let the storm abate (these are truly saintly people IMO), others cry, while yet others, like Suhana, impulsively lash back. Every person reacts differently when insulted/pushed to a limit. That's why thank god there are all different kinds out there ... Suhana unfortunately doesn't have a saintly disposition.

The last category is the most offensive of the lot. Why? Because they deflect the victim status from them to the original offender. And hence they end up looking bad. But these category of people are also the most vulnerable of the lot. They've borne a lot in life, and hence have a no-nonsense attitude towards others. I am not justifying Suhana's anger at Meena or other Dolly, but in this instance her anger was completely justified, perhaps her rudeness was not. Yet what can I say except this that, everyone is different and expresses themselves differently. Disha was angry at her husband being insulted and reacted differently. Whereas, Suhana was angry at being paired with her ex-lover and reacted differently. So in a way, although her rudeness was offensive, it wasn't completely uncalled for.

Originally posted by: vishmewell

Well... Disha herself crossed the line and all limits today. If a woman can't take the insult inflicted upon her husband, then she should also know where here limits are. Did Disha not ridicule Suhana's husband by calling him all names and she is wondering how she even agreed to get married to him? Is that not an extreme insult to a woman coz she is married to him? Disha insulted a sacred relationship od Suhana-Ishaan. On the contrary, Suhana spoke the truth. Elesh is nikamma and indulges in other people's business. And just not that, he was holding the magazine w/Sid's picture up against her face and linking her up with another man? Forget about Suhana's past. It is preposterous for anyone to do such a thing. I only wished Rano heard them to Only slap Elesh, Disha and Ishika for what they did and uttered.

One has to be in Suhana's shoes to feel the insult she had to go thru... Suhana spoke the truth. If truth is bitter, so be it!!!

Ishaan was standing by the door and watching??? Ridiculous! I am enraged!!! He had the duty towards Suhana to come to her rescue and give his kin a push back.

If they make Suhana to apologize, that would be so ridiculous and injustice to Suhana. Ishaan must bring this incidence to the notice of elders in the family to fix these guys up, which is a right thing to do. After that, if Suhana has to say sorry to Elesh, then it's ok.

BTW, when is Disha going to realize that Ishaan is 1000 times better than her nikamma Elesh before she opens her big mouth to ridicule Ishaan?

Hasi mazaak is a must in a family. But where are the limits???

Though I also agree that Suhana should have not said all those words to Elesh but in today's episode Suhana herself claimed that she was rude. She said that because she was angry she didn't realize what she had said and she coulnd't control her anger. She knows that it was her mistake and she did go and cleared all the misunderstanding.

Oh, of course her anger was justified....I am pretty sure that any logical person would agree! 😳 And the way she said 'sorry' was so sweet! Ragini is a great actress therefore I didn't feel that this issue was as dumb as it truly was. 😕 I mean which brother would talk to his brother's wife like that saying that she would look good with other men

The anger was justified..