Suhana's anger was kind of justified... - Page 3

Originally posted by: LadyMcbeth

I am not surprised either. I think the Kashyap household does get carried away sometimes ... hasi mazak is okay to a certain extent, but WHY should Elesh even say something like that? It is okay to tease Ishaan to a certain extent regarding his marriage to a girl like Suhana, but to take it so far and start comparing/pairing other men with his wife is not right. I am disappointed. Disha should be mad at Elesh for saying something so insensitive, not Suhana for being mad!

Edit: And this has NOTHING to do with the fact that Elesh doesn't know about Suhana's past with Sid.

coudlnt agree with u more👏

I agree.. I think anyone would be angry being in a situation Suhana is in. Seeing the precap for tom seems like everything is calm.. and all misunderstandings are cleared.

maybe now suhana will get her heart's desire and everyone including disha and rajni will leave her alone.........

guys i have a question for everyone here.....i agree that mazaak ki haad hoti hai, and i agree that sometimes these guys don't joke so well, and they crossed the line with suhana....so even if we forget all of suhana's past, this is still a bad joke and suhana's anger is justified..

but are suhana's words justified? does being angry justify insulting someone? there have been numerous number of times (and i am sure this has happened to you guys as well) when family members, even in joke, have ended up hurting and making me angry......we all react hissingly.......but even in that, there are some things we know not to say.....and we know immidietly when something bad comes out of our mouth in anger....

does anger justify rudeness? i agree that suhana was 100% justified in her anger, but i refuse to think that her words are justified........

and earlier i read someone say that disha should be angry at elesh not suhana, there isn't a woman on the face of this earth who would hear that being said about her husband and not feel deeply hurt. i dont think disha will say anything to suhana, but to expect her to accept suhana's anger and justify her insulting her husband is completely unrealistic.

Originally posted by: jiya25

guys i have a question for everyone here.....i agree that mazaak ki haad hoti hai, and i agree that sometimes these guys don't joke so well, and they crossed the line with suhana....so even if we forget all of suhana's past, this is still a bad joke and suhana's anger is justified..

but are suhana's words justified? does being angry justify insulting someone? there have been numerous number of times (and i am sure this has happened to you guys as well) when family members, even in joke, have ended up hurting and making me angry......we all react hissingly.......but even in that, there are some things we know not to say.....and we know immidietly when something bad comes out of our mouth in anger....

does anger justify rudeness? i agree that suhana was 100% justified in her anger, but i refuse to think that her words are justified........

and earlier i read someone say that disha should be angry at elesh not suhana, there isn't a woman on the face of this earth who would hear that being said about her husband and not feel deeply hurt. i dont think disha will say anything to suhana, but to expect her to accept suhana's anger and justify her insulting her husband is completely unrealistic.

Suhana anger was justify..but look this happened in real life as wel..sometimes we say those words that we would never wanna say..we mention coz we are in angry mood..this happened with me many times..later i releaze what i have done.whatever happened in the past we cant repeat we cant change things...but.it says na forgive and forget..or forget & move on😊...

Originally posted by: jiya25

guys i have a question for everyone here.....i agree that mazaak ki haad hoti hai, and i agree that sometimes these guys don't joke so well, and they crossed the line with suhana....so even if we forget all of suhana's past, this is still a bad joke and suhana's anger is justified..

but are suhana's words justified? does being angry justify insulting someone? there have been numerous number of times (and i am sure this has happened to you guys as well) when family members, even in joke, have ended up hurting and making me angry......we all react hissingly.......but even in that, there are some things we know not to say.....and we know immidietly when something bad comes out of our mouth in anger....

does anger justify rudeness? i agree that suhana was 100% justified in her anger, but i refuse to think that her words are justified........

and earlier i read someone say that disha should be angry at elesh not suhana, there isn't a woman on the face of this earth who would hear that being said about her husband and not feel deeply hurt. i dont think disha will say anything to suhana, but to expect her to accept suhana's anger and justify her insulting her husband is completely unrealistic.

Well... Disha herself crossed the line and all limits today. If a woman can't take the insult inflicted upon her husband, then she should also know where here limits are. Did Disha not ridicule Suhana's husband by calling him all names and she is wondering how she even agreed to get married to him? Is that not an extreme insult to a woman coz she is married to him? Disha insulted a sacred relationship od Suhana-Ishaan. On the contrary, Suhana spoke the truth. Elesh is nikamma and indulges in other people's business. And just not that, he was holding the magazine w/Sid's picture up against her face and linking her up with another man? Forget about Suhana's past. It is preposterous for anyone to do such a thing. I only wished Rano heard them to Only slap Elesh, Disha and Ishika for what they did and uttered.

One has to be in Suhana's shoes to feel the insult she had to go thru... Suhana spoke the truth. If truth is bitter, so be it!!!

Ishaan was standing by the door and watching??? Ridiculous! I am enraged!!! He had the duty towards Suhana to come to her rescue and give his kin a push back.

If they make Suhana to apologize, that would be so ridiculous and injustice to Suhana. Ishaan must bring this incidence to the notice of elders in the family to fix these guys up, which is a right thing to do. After that, if Suhana has to say sorry to Elesh, then it's ok.

BTW, when is Disha going to realize that Ishaan is 1000 times better than her nikamma Elesh before she opens her big mouth to ridicule Ishaan?

Hasi mazaak is a must in a family. But where are the limits???

Originally posted by: ~*simran*~

Like I mentioned in the other topic, I fully justify Suhana's anger. If I was in her shoes I'd do the same. How dare anyone say why did you choose him and not koi aur? I'd totally kill, yahaan toh Suhana just yelled lol. What if Disha gets that question? Mazaak ki hadh hoti hai. If Disha explodes, and Rajni sides with Disha I'll not like it one bit. Why should they be upset? Ishaan ke saath mazaak karna is one thing, Suhana another. She is the new bahu. Where Baadi Maa, now I want her to really scream at them. Ishaan better not tell Suhana to understand b/c it was way out of line ji.

👏👏👏 Simran
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Originally posted by: c111

One thing I don't get is...on so many occasions Suhana has made facial expressions of a negative nature such as anger, annoyed or sad...yet people around her keep talking as if she is happy...can't they see she is sad/angry or whatever!! They realise like hours later!!! If they ever do realise!

Very good point c111 👏 that's exactly what I think... can't they see her face and tell if she is angry, sad or happy?

Originally posted by: brainychild92

o she had all right.. i am upset that ishaan didnt come in.. i mean they're talking CRAP about ur wife.. it has nothing to do with sid! u just dont go to the newly wedded bride and say WHY'D U MARRY HIM.. DIDNT U FIND A BETTER MATCH. for god sakes he's ur devar! why are u hell bent on ruining his relationship! i mean it hasnt even started!!!!!!!!!!(even tho they don't know that)

Very well said brainychild!!! Ithna bhi akkal nahi hai they are newly wed and that too an arranged marriage unlike Inder-Rajini and Elesh-Disha who knew each other way before they got married... They are acting like they are brain dead yaar.. these foursome are beginning to annoy the hell out of me with their non-sense out of control mazaak....

Good post...