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Posted: 15 years ago
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Suhana is obviously not happy about the marriage, she doesn't want to stay with Ishaan. In one hand he is worried about disappointing his family; on the other hand he wants Suhana to be happy too. He really loves her. So in such circumstances what should he do?

Make her stay at any cost for his family's honor or let her go?

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Posted: 15 years ago
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i guess thts a tough question
so lets wait n watch wht ishaan does
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Forcing her to stay will not resolve the issue, neither will letting her go without a fight. I think he should let her make the choice. If she's not happy with the marriage. He won't be happy and neither will his family. If she agrees to stay on (duty bound or otherwise), he should give her a chance. But if he's really a nice guy, he should let her make the decision.

Edit: Ambrosia - truly enjoy reading your thought provoking posts and replying to them.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Well..nice topic... hmm.. my two cents..wuld b in line with Lady Mcbeth.
I agree....he shld let her make her own decisions...without any expectations.. or obligations..!! I knw..how much ever...his heart mite hurt.. if Suhana wants to leave.. Ishaan wuld deffo not stop her... n well if she doesnt.. he wuld surely give her time to adapt to the new circumstances.....
Ishaan is a gem of a person ..n a wonderful hubby...!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Well I just saw the episode yesterday when Suhana looks for the AC and comes to know about one single shared bathroom miles away from her bedroom. I can relate to her feelings. I would say that it is her dad's mistake to a large extent. It is okay to look for a family full of love and values and the one who respectfully accepts your daughter in to the family, but at the same time her dad should have realized the up bringing he has given to her daughter, the comforts,the independence and the freedom he has given to her to make her decisions- good or bad.
The way I see it, I know that Ishaan and his family is loving and are happy to have Suhana, but Suhana is not wrong in telling Ishaanabout leaving the marriage as at this moment she is unable to see living her whole life under this roof. I don't blame her. It is quite easy to adjust to high standards of living but is quite hard to move a step down as it takes a while and one needs the will power to maintain that relation under those circumstances. Here Suhana is yet not in love with Ishaan, so in my opinion she needs some quiet time to herself and in her father's house to figure out where she wants to go from here- be with Ishaan and adjust to his life standards and a joint family or leave him and face the repercussions of that .
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: lotus8

Well I just saw the episode yesterday when Suhana looks for the AC and comes to know about one single shared bathroom miles away from her bedroom. I can relate to her feelings. I would say that it is her dad's mistake to a large extent. It is okay to look for a family full of love and values and the one who respectfully accepts your daughter in to the family, but at the same time her dad should have realized the up bringing he has given to her daughter, the comforts,the independence and the freedom he has given to her to make her decisions- good or bad.

The way I see it, I know that Ishaan and his family is loving and are happy to have Suhana, but Suhana is not wrong in telling Ishaanabout leaving the marriage as at this moment she is unable to see living her whole life under this roof. I don't blame her. It is quite easy to adjust to high standards of living but is quite hard to move a step down as it takes a while and one needs the will power to maintain that relation under those circumstances. Here Suhana is yet not in love with Ishaan, so in my opinion she needs some quiet time to herself and in her father's house to figure out where she wants to go from here- be with Ishaan and adjust to his life standards and a joint family or leave him and face the repercussions of that .
Post your comments. Would like to know



WORD lotus8 šŸ‘ ... esp. the bolded part - It is always easy to adjust while moving up rather than moving down. THAT is a fact of life. And Suhana truly didn't know what she was getting into (it was her fault ofcourse), whereas Ishaan knew. He knew Suhana's background, her heartbreak and her nature. In spite of it all, he agreed to the marriage without talking to her. So now since the cat is out of the bag, they need to sort out their feelings individually, not being shackled down by societal pressures and misguided sense of morality.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i completly agree with lotus 8...u are absolutely correct my frend...and the family is also too nosy at times...plus my even i would never want to get married in a family like that...cuz its not that easy...the way they make it look on tv...the reality is completely different:)
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Well.. Suhana is not used to the kind of family like Ishaan's at all..

She was brought up independent in a nuclear family where she did what she wanted.. and she got what she wanted…

In saying this..

I think Ishaan knowing this should let her decide…… let her make the decision what she wants to do..

Before then.. He should talk with her and make her understand what family means to him.. family values and how to keep family expectations respecting all in the family..

Suhaan has not been brought up with that and doesn't understand it…. She needs to know and understand this before she makes a decision.

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