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Originally posted by: jasmin

it's best to avoid living with in-laws if you can, there are very few people out there who treat other people's kids like their own...

I try to compare it with my own feelings...I know I'll never forgive my bro if he seprates after marriage. And even, personally, i would love to stay with my in-laws. Even I'm aware normal ppl are not like Tulsi or Parvati, but they are not like Nitya from Kavyanjali or like Mohini Basu from kzk. I genuinely believe that marriage forges a relation between two families & not just 2 individuals. I also feel that u have no right to seperate a man from his mom, dad, sis, bro just bcoz u don't want to adjust to them You know him for just a small while but his family knows him from his birth...they have equal right on him. Of course, there are exceptional cases where seperation is the best solution

BTW jasmin, where do u stay...india or somewhere else?

Originally posted by: jasmin

I think mother in laws start a lot of problems with their son's intentionally and unintentionally, when my brother get's married he has his own life, and no one can interfere in that...it's best to avoid living with in-laws if you can, there are very few people out there who treat other people's kids like their own...

I agree with you. My fiance's parents are awesome, but i know that if we had to live in the same house all the time, we would all go crazy. I feel that marrying someone and his family doesnt mean that you give up your individuality. I mean if i had to live with my own parents all the time, it would still get uncomfortable. It doesnt mean that parents are bad or its like the TV serials - but so many personalities in the house will create some upsetting situations, even if nobody actually SAYS anything. I feel that it is important to live in the same town as at least one set of parents, for guidance, family relationships, etc. but i would never raise my kids to feel that they cannot break free from us. My feeling is that if there is some physical space in non-marital relationships, it really causes more warmth and love to come to the forefront. Of course, if some parent was sick and needed support, that is an entirely different matter. I grew up in a joint family and i would not want to put my kids through that - dont get me wrong...i love my grandparents and they have shaped my life beautifully, but i also know that if we were not all in the same house, it may have been better.

Anyways, this is just my opinion 😊