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Posted: 11 years ago
Arshi tony and chappy.
Here i disagree with u all regarding blaming saras for all this mess.the main culpript is KUMUD KUMUD and only KUMUD. and her overconfidence in Saras .

The fact is desais and K sisters r big idiots and want to drag saras into the same.

saras never said he will marry kusum ...did he ???? No .its Kumud who understood him wrong and thought a brainy Howard return intelligent guy like saras will fall for emotional blackmails .

Its fault of Desais .Why none of them questioned saras what he wants .dont they call him their son.the fact is desais r the selfish dumbs. Their gaaw ki graduate daughter said ...yes i made him majboor for marriage and he will do it.So they belived her ...rolf

It was only Dukh baa who turned out to be an intelligent one and questioned how come saras agree to this ...U know why? Coz she is the only lady who understands saras and does have mamta for him.

Kumud has always been selfish when it came to her family and sisters while saras always left everything for her.

Till now saras has protected Kumud and taken care of whole desai family ...why coz he felt they were his responsibility as Kumud was his better half.

but what did Kumud do ??? She seperated herself from him once she came to know her sister likes him and asked him to MARRY HER !!!

A relationship survives when their is a mutual give and take but here kumud failed it by not taking care of danny and being a selfish sister.

Saras does have a family his brother is his family.Danny followed him everywhere like a shadow .he is saras ki jaan .

therefore i feel its all fault of Kumud and her selfishness for her sister and dumbness of Desais for not enquiring saras who thought they know his point clear.

And that point was he was made for kumud and no girl exists for him other then Kumud.Strange how desais did not see it !!!Coz all they care is for their own daughtes and their tyaag but now of those two brothers who left their house and family just for Desais


Ps. Kusum i wont even talk she is a dumb psyco and a disillusioned girl who needed medical attention rather then marriage for her obsession infaction and lust .She has obsessive compulsive disorder and such kids needs psycaterist . Alas who can tell gawaar desais , who just think marrying the daughter is only solution !!! They did same with Kumud and now Kusum !
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: -sudha-



Santhi, Saras as a character has emerged so strong and sure of himself, despite the messy story, that I never once felt he would take the step to marry Kusum. But I did also believe that he would take the key people into confidence, when the dulha steps into the mandap- a kind of reconciliation by Kusum, maybe, when she is told that Saras can never love her in return...
It would be very poor writing, and a butchering of Saras's character, if everyone believes it is Saras, and it turns out to be Danny! And Saras has taken this decision unilaterally! Dont you think?

If there is anything still pure in the story, it is Saras and his love for Kumud. I hope atleast that remains as a constant!


But he is not perfect. And this is Apadh-dharma. Dharma done in a troubling situation. If Kumud thought she was right in asking saras to marry Kusum, saras thought he could do this xhori-chori thing and thought it's not only right but good for everyone in the long run. If he is wrong in the short run, yes he is.

Long-term good is what he thought about. I'm not sure if anyone else did that. I don't want to sound simplistic by giving this example when a girl's choice is involved. But like you have to take a vaccination or a bitter pill to get better in the long run.

If I had to point, I found his handling of kalika's rishta in suvarnapur more wrong. There his life was not involved. He didn't know whether it was good for kalika.

Here he thinks it's good for Kusum in the long run.
Edited by pasumarthisa - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: ShanUlas

Arshi tony and chappy.
Here i disagree with u all regarding blaming saras for all this mess.the main culpript is KUMUD KUMUD and only KUMUD. and her overconfidence in Saras .

The fact is desais and K sisters r big idiots and want to drag saras into the same.

saras never said he will marry kusum ...did he ???? No .its Kumud who understood him wrong and thought a brainy Howard return intelligent guy like saras will fall for emotional blackmails .

Its fault of Desais .Why none of them questioned saras what he wants .dont they call him their son.the fact is desais r the selfish dumbs. Their gaaw ki graduate daughter said ...yes i made him majboor for marriage and he will do it.So they belived her ...rolf

It was only Dukh baa who turned out to be an intelligent one and questioned how come saras agree to this ...U know why? Coz she is the only lady who understands saras and does have mamta for him.

Kumud has always been selfish when it came to her family and sisters while saras always left everything for her.

Till now saras has protected Kumud and taken care of whole desai family ...why coz he felt they were his responsibility as Kumud was his better half.

but what did Kumud do ??? She seperated herself from him once she came to know her sister likes him and asked him to MARRY HER !!!

A relationship survives when their is a mutual give and take but here kumud failed it by not taking care of danny and being a selfish sister.

Saras does have a family his brother is his family.Danny followed him everywhere like a shadow .he is saras ki jaan .

therefore i feel its all fault of Kumud and her selfishness for her sister and dumbness of Desais for not enquiring saras who thought they know his point clear.

And that point was he was made for kumud and no girl exists for him other then Kumud.Strange how desais did not see it !!!Coz all they care is for their own daughtes and their tyaag but now of those two brothers who left their house and family just for Desais


Ps. Kusum i wont even talk she is a dumb psyco and a disillusioned girl who needed medical attention rather then marriage for her obsession infaction and lust .She has obsessive compulsive disorder and such kids needs psycaterist . Alas who can tell gawaar desais , who just think marrying the daughter is only solution !!! They did same with Kumud and now Kusum !


Shana, the only point of contention here is Saras appears to have not kept Kusum, VC in the loop as to who is marrying Kusum - everybody was expecting Saras who is painstakingly honest to be upfront about this. This is "Murder of the character of Saras" by the CV's...

Otherwise, we are all sailing on the same boat my dear! 😊
Edited by happychappy - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: happychappy


Shana, the only point of contention here is Saras appears to have not kept Kusum, VC in the loop as to who is marrying Kusum - everybody was expecting Saras who is painstakingly honest to be upfront about this. This is "Murder of the character of Saras" by the CV's...

Otherwise, we are all in the same boat my dear! 😊


Happy ji,

Read my earlier post. When it's your life n brother's life involved and it's in direct conflict with what u are asked to do, then this situation arises. He did what he thinks is correct n best. If he had taken kusum into confidence nothing would have worked. Yeah maybe he could have reached out to Dugbaa or VC. But everyone was so blindly accepting kumud and he was on a tough surface.
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Posted: 11 years ago
desais were so desperate to marry off their daughters ... DB was married to sahas rai ,kumud to pramaad ...kusum definitely has better luck shes not married to another pramaad. or sahas ..they blamed the vyas, for all the mess in their life ...saras will marry kumud as promised to VC,DB,...so kusum gets danny ...and DB will be ''rescued'' by LN ...😆
where is this ratnagiri btw...??? its ''girls interrupted'' alternate between madness n insight..😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
I am going to ask you all to look beyond Saras and Kumud and think of kusum
Because it's not about Kumud, it's about kusum and her marriage so her life

Did she deserve to be married off to someone without her knowledge?

Did she deserve this cheating.

If Saras did not want to marry her, then he needs to have the guts to stand up and say it

Who is he to play God and decide that kusum will be happy with Danny?

He cheated an innocent girl, tricked her into a wrong marriage

That in my eyes is a very wrong

No girl deserves to be married off to a man who she does not want to

Saras's character has been severely maligned in my eyes

Marriage is for ever, it's a tough journey two people undertake together,

And to tie them forever in this without their will is wrong that nothing can justify

Specially if the girl is going through an emotionally tenuous phase like kusum

Then to play with her emotions like that is incorrect


I am sorry, but by this thoughtless writing, cvs have destroyed Saras, who till now was a strong and upright man, who always did the right and honest thing

The Saras I knew would never condemn a young girl to a wrong marriage,

Nor would he play such a low down trick with his own brother.
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: happychappy

Shana, the only point of contention here is Saras appears to have not kept Kusum, VC in the loop as to who is marrying Kusum - everybody was expecting Saras who is painstakingly honest to be upfront about this. This is "Murder of the character of Saras" by the CV's...

Otherwise, we are all sailing on the same boat my dear! 😊



agree chappy but it was kumud who misunderstood him and never clearified and forgot that saras may have danny in option ...coz saras never said yes...thats why its kumud 's overconfidence and presumption that has led to this ...kumuds toatal ignorance to danny and his feelings is a big blunder specailly when saras takes care of her whole family and she just cant take care of danny !!!

kusum and vc got fooled thats it ...i am quit sure saras has clearified himself to kusum in her room when he was found by all ...and that conversation will be quted by saras to speak that he clearified things with kusum


kusum did know saras will never say yes ...thats why she asked did he say yes ...again kusum presumption that saras will be fooled by her kumud sister blackmail proveshow dumb desai clan is ...who think kumud has mastery over saras and saras is nothing but some lifeless puppet.

i am proud of saras for his act and want him to good reply on face to these dumb desais ...they desrved it ...coz if do once a foolishness it can be forgiven but when u do it again and gain it means u have no brain in ou cranium
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Posted: 11 years ago
arshi my ans is that kusum needed time to get over with her so called infactuation rather then be married just the way kumud needed time.


So all blame again goes to parents and elder sister for getting a dumb cheek married rather then waiting for it to grow up .

Saras is not at all at fault as he never said he will marry .it was responsibility of desia to ask who the real groom was from the groom side rather them assuming things on basis of some third person of their own family.


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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: happychappy


Shana, the only point of contention here is Saras appears to have not kept Kusum, VC in the loop as to who is marrying Kusum - everybody was expecting Saras who is painstakingly honest to be upfront about this. This is "Murder of the character of Saras" by the CV's...

Otherwise, we are all sailing on the same boat my dear! 😊

happy...but that's Saras's character...he is expected to be upfront and honest abt things but he rarely is. He always keeps things in him till the very end.
Was he upfront about the fact that he had said no to Kumud before seeing her? No
Was he upfront about the fact that why he broke his marriage off with Kumud? No...they came to know from Sunny
Was he upfront abt the fact that Pramad is dying? No
so basically Saras isn't actually ever upfront and in this situation how could he be? Kusum wudnt have agreed to marry Danny cos she is so blinded abt her infatuation for Saras.
His approach is wrong but this does always happen that then later they will forgive him.
its absolutely absurd how Desais are acting like a bunch of kids. they should be the one to say No way..Kusum cant have what she wants out of zidd and enter a marriage where there is no love from the guys side...and if they have agreed for Saras then why not Danny...
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Posted: 11 years ago
i'll still wait n watch ...still give saras the benefit of doubt...although there was a better way of doing it ...but dannys,kumud ,kusum,vc,koti bat,ratna ben..piled it all up on his doorstep...the mandir scene where he says ..mai pyar aur kartav ma kis ko chunu ..n as if in answer to his plea kumud enters ...so he chooses pyar...it was that moment when he decides...kumud has always misunderstood his intentions and she mu them again...she wanted her sis married to some one better than pramaad 😆

btw every body decides to lov /hate , marry/reject him ...he doesnt get to decide anything...😆
Edited by annete - 11 years ago

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