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Posted: 11 years ago
Mera sirf ka sawaal hai

Kya kissi bhi ladki ki shaadi usko dhoke main rakh ke ki Jaani chahiye?

Kya yeh kissi bhi haal main, kabhi bhi sahi hai?

💔
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Posted: 11 years ago
i just wish he says that maine kusum ke jija ji aur danny ke bade bhai ka phars nibhaya...😆
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: KK84

but I don't get it why it would've been ok to marry saras...that's dhoka to. aren't they all kidding themselves that she would've been happy? she wouldn't have been.
Yes Saras could've atleast spoken to the parents and if they agreed then would've been less of a dhoka as sometimes parents take these steps in the benefit of their children.
but Saras also sees himself as a part of that family enough to make such decisions...the approach is wrong I agree but there were only two alternatives:
he marries her and she stays unhappy for life
she marries Danny and atleast their is a hope of happiness


Or he convinces them to give her time, be emotionally ready to take a conscious choice

Or he talks to Kumud and tells her to her face that he is not doing anything of the sort because he has his convictions and beliefs and he is not up for emotional blackmail

And if he can't do any of this then he better marry kusum

Jo kare khul ke kare, chup ke nahi
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Arshics

Mera sirf ka sawaal hai

Kya kissi bhi ladki ki shaadi usko dhoke main rakh ke ki Jaani chahiye?

Kya yeh kissi bhi haal main, kabhi bhi sahi hai?

💔


accha ji tumhare dhoka pyar aur hamara pyar dhoka 😆

way to go saras alls fair in love and war...chahe arshi n party ke jhooth kaane padhe😉
Edited by annete - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
This bone can be gnawed at for ever...
And all because Kumud thinks Saras can be switched like a toy...

and VC, Guniyal, even Kusum bought into it, when ALL of them know the Saras-Kumud saga...

Only Dukhba has any sense in the whole parivaar?

When Saras had a tough decision to make, he seems to have chosen what he thought was the lesser of two evils -

But it is still morally wrong to engineer the marriage of two people, when -

- the bride think's she is marrying the groom's brother, and

- the groom does not yet believe (although Kalika has told him) that the bride loves his brother

On another plane, forget the sehra, it is patently ridiculous that anyone could mistake Danny for Saras, even if they both wore burkhas..., so the comedy continues...😆
Edited by happychappy - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Arshics


And now when Danny finds out that the man she loves is Saras and she is ready to kill herself if she doesn't get him- ?

You don't play with people's life like that Santhi , Saras ki yeh chal galat thi and this doesn't match Saras

I call it very very poor writing, with no thought of characterization


We can call it poor writing but I see some reasons.

Like kat said, if kumud can vouch that Saras will marry her sister, saras too can vouch that danny will make her happy. He is acting on what he understands. After knowing kusum, kumud and danny. And himself.

At the outset, his decision to hide is wrong. But, he is trusting himself and his understanding of the situation in this. That's what I liked. How this pans out, time will tell. Till then, I can call him wrong too. For keeping a girl in dark about her wedding.

Arshi, when it's ur own life involved, then u are given a long rope.
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: happychappy

This bone can be gnawed at for ever...

And all because Kumud thinks Saras can be switched like a toy...

and VC, Guniyal, even Kusum bought into it, when ALL of them know the Saras-Kumud saga...

Only Dukhba has nay sense in the whole parivaar?

When Saras had a tough decision to make, he seems to have chosen what he thought was the lesser of two evils -

But it is still morally wrong to engineer the marriage of two people, when -

- the bride think's she is marrying the groom's brother, and

- the groom does not yet believe (although Kalika has told him) that the bride loves his brother

On another plane, forget the sehra, it is patently ridiculous that anyone could mistake Danny for Saras, even if they both wore burkhas..., so the comedy continues...😆


from today desais here declared brain dead and blind...humne toh haath dekh kar he pehchan leya...😆
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: happychappy

This bone can be gnawed at for ever...

And all because Kumud thinks Saras can be switched like a toy...

and VC, Guniyal, even Kusum bought into it, when ALL of them know the Saras-Kumud saga...

Only Dukhba has nay sense in the whole parivaar?

When Saras had a tough decision to make, he seems to have chosen what he thought was the lesser of two evils -

But it is still morally wrong to engineer the marriage of two people, when -

- the bride think's she is marrying the groom's brother, and

- the groom does not yet believe (although Kalika has told him) that the bride loves his brother

On another plane, forget the sehra, it is patently ridiculous that anyone could mistake Danny for Saras, even if they both wore burkhas..., so the comedy continues...😆


Danny now knows kusum loves someone else. He clearly said that to saras.
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Posted: 11 years ago
Whatever the mess, I hope gets sorted out..and we dont have more nonsensical dramas and MUs for the sake of MUs! And I know I am hoping for the impossible ! 😃
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: pasumarthisa

Kat, I agree he took kusum into consideration when making this decision. He took some liberty. Like an elder brother. Kusum put everyone in the spot. Its not a straight forward situation. In such cases this mistake would have been huge.

yeah santhi that's the thing...she would come home running to Kumud that didi saras doesn't love me..I am not happy in this marriage..then what...Kumud will go running and begging to Saras that force yourself to love my sister...its pathetic!
Saras is not a puppet of theirs and its about time these Desai's realise that. I say tit for tat! I have no sympathy and I don't at all think Saras's character has been tarnished here.
Saras has always stood by his immediate family. Remember when VC pushed LN! He went mad at Kumud cos no matter what the differences are between him and his dad...he will not tolerate his own family being treated like crap (just as Kumud wont)
Even when Pramaad said nonsense abt Gumaan he couldn't take it...Gumaan whom he should hate.
so this was a matter of his brother who is his everything.
Saras's character has always fumbled up here and there and this time he has a little cos he is seeing the greater good. that's all.

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