Ek aur shradh byte - Page 13

Originally posted by: Arshics

I am going to ask you all to look beyond Saras and Kumud and think of kusum

Because it's not about Kumud, it's about kusum and her marriage so her life

Did she deserve to be married off to someone without her knowledge?

Did she deserve this cheating.

If Saras did not want to marry her, then he needs to have the guts to stand up and say it

Who is he to play God and decide that kusum will be happy with Danny?

He cheated an innocent girl, tricked her into a wrong marriage

That in my eyes is a very wrong

No girl deserves to be married off to a man who she does not want to

Saras's character has been severely maligned in my eyes

Marriage is for ever, it's a tough journey two people undertake together,

And to tie them forever in this without their will is wrong that nothing can justify

Specially if the girl is going through an emotionally tenuous phase like kusum

Then to play with her emotions like that is incorrect

I am sorry, but by this thoughtless writing, cvs have destroyed Saras, who till now was a strong and upright man, who always did the right and honest thing

The Saras I knew would never condemn a young girl to a wrong marriage,

Nor would he play such a low down trick with his own brother.

Originally posted by: annete

i'll still wait n watch ...still give saras the benefit of doubt...although there was a better way of doing it ...but dannys,kumud ,kusum,vc,koti bat,ratna ben..piled it all up on his doorstep...the mandir scene where he says ..mai pyar aur kartav ma kis ko chunu ..n as if in answer to his plea kumud enters ...so he chooses pyar...it was that moment when he decides...kumud has always misunderstood his intentions and she mu them again...she wanted her sis married to some one better than pramaad 😆

Originally posted by: Arshics

I am going to ask you all to look beyond Saras and Kumud and think of kusum

Because it's not about Kumud, it's about kusum and her marriage so her life

Did she deserve to be married off to someone without her knowledge?

Did she deserve this cheating.

If Saras did not want to marry her, then he needs to have the guts to stand up and say it

Who is he to play God and decide that kusum will be happy with Danny?

He cheated an innocent girl, tricked her into a wrong marriage

That in my eyes is a very wrong

No girl deserves to be married off to a man who she does not want to

Saras's character has been severely maligned in my eyes

Marriage is for ever, it's a tough journey two people undertake together,

And to tie them forever in this without their will is wrong that nothing can justify

Specially if the girl is going through an emotionally tenuous phase like kusum

Then to play with her emotions like that is incorrect

I am sorry, but by this thoughtless writing, cvs have destroyed Saras, who till now was a strong and upright man, who always did the right and honest thing

The Saras I knew would never condemn a young girl to a wrong marriage,

Nor would he play such a low down trick with his own brother.

Originally posted by: pasumarthisa

Saras was not honest. But, he didn't do injustice to Danny. Danny knew kusum loved someone else and was ready to marry her 'ankh band kar ke'.

He has no right to play God. He did this as an apadh-dharma which he thought would work in long run. Just a calculated move. And yes he was wrong in keeping kusum in dark. But taking her into confidence would have never worked. Desais are a crazy lot.

My point is, it's his life n his brothers life too. And he saved both. He made a move that he thought is right. More right than others I would say. How people judge it is just a factor.

Wrong he is but still better than others' decisions.

Originally posted by: KK84

happy...but that's Saras's character...he is expected to be upfront and honest abt things but he rarely is. He always keeps things in him till the very end.

Was he upfront about the fact that he had said no to Kumud before seeing her? No

Was he upfront about the fact that why he broke his marriage off with Kumud? No...they came to know from Sunny

Was he upfront abt the fact that Pramad is dying? No

so basically Saras isn't actually ever upfront and in this situation how could he be? Kusum wudnt have agreed to marry Danny cos she is so blinded abt her infatuation for Saras.

His approach is wrong but this does always happen that then later they will forgive him.

its absolutely absurd how Desais are acting like a bunch of kids. they should be the one to say No way..Kusum cant have what she wants out of zidd and enter a marriage where there is no love from the guys side...and if they have agreed for Saras then why not Danny...

Originally posted by: Arshics

And now when Danny finds out that the man she loves is Saras and she is ready to kill herself if she doesn't get him- ?

You don't play with people's life like that Santhi , Saras ki yeh chal galat thi and this doesn't match Saras

I call it very very poor writing, with no thought of characterization

Originally posted by: Arshics

I don't want Saras to marry kusum, nor do I feel Danny should marry kusum

But to disregard kusum because she is selfish - mujhe nahi Jama

I had hoped that of all these senseless creatures, Saras would be the one who would take the right approach, he claimed to support kusum as she is weak. Yeh kaisa support hai - dhoke ki shaadi

But I guess cvs also don't really look at characters as people whose life story is being told

It's just creating twists and turns and drama that is important.