Kalika- is she really that bad? Post-pg.1 & discussion pg. 38 - Page 23

Originally posted by: netri

What more can b said , hasn't been said before ? 🤔

Kumud can help Pramad change but with the help of PROFESSIONALS . Those professionals have spent years learning their craft , has certificates to prove & most importantly this is what they do for living . Kumud is not equip to do it . Under no circumstance she should spend time ALONE with Pramad without Adult supervision . [ Its for Kumud's safety ]

Saras should leave BD house immediately . This is none of his business that what happens in Pramad - Kumud's bedroom . No chuglis from him . As for telling BD tha truth ? What did BD do ? Slap Pramad , did pramad changed ? Said Sorry ? Was he nice to Kumud ? No . Then ? Its not the answer .

Kumud should tell the whole BD household that If they want Kumud to help Pramad then this is how its gonna go down .

1 ] Find good therapist .

2 ] Everyone will do exactly the Dr. Orders them to do .

3 ] Pramad needs rehab , They all with show up , spend time with him & support him . [ No critic ]

4 ] Even after all Kumud helps Pramad , If he doesn't change then she will leave as she can't stay in an abusive relationship & during this supporting period Kumud lives in separate bedroom . As its for her safety .

Pramad is evil & Kumud is soon going to realize that he is beyond helping . Kalika is part of the problem not THE ROOT of the problem . If [BD Family ] wants to save Pramad then they all needs to change first . Even If Kumud removes Kalika , Pramad is not going to change .

Under no circumstances , EX Lover can stay at married woman's house . No eye locks [ Its not cute ] .

Physical - emotional Abuses r no laughing matters & should not b taken lightly . Recovery just doesn't happen in a month . It takes years . & I have seen relapses so those can happen too . Kumud at the moment is not handling it well . Bravery is one thing but no regard for self respect or personal safety shouldnot b consider bravery .

I haven't seen episode so read accordingly . This is my POV 😳

Originally posted by: tryforceful

Honestly I don't care about Pramad at all to sympathize with him. I am more irked by Kumud's rigid stance when it comes to tolerating P just because she solely took the decision of marrying him. Even in today's episode, she asks S to leave and remains mum when he insists upon leaving P if he doesn't change. She might change her mind in future but the current portrayal doesn't fit Kumud's characterization at all. Had she been portrayed as a timid and ignorant head-bowing village type in the beginning, her blind notions post-marriage could have been justified. At this juncture, the show's reached an anesthetic default.

PS: Love your points Sc_wellwisher!

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Yesterday Pramad hurt her hand while putting Bangle-kada on Kumud..She comes with Nimbu pani in the morning for him. He tries to pour alchohol on her scrapped-bruised hand..

Tmrw he will burn her hand when she fixes Kalika's rishta for marriage to someone else..

Saras needs to get the hell out of Dharmadhikari home and Kumud's personal life..He is not making it easy...As a matter of fact he is ruining it for Kumud.

Why is Kumud still sticking around and giving all nasihats or dhamkis to Pramad which is asking for more trouble..

What will take her to get out of this ego war and get off her soap box.

SAMUD are on my last nerves...Cant believe I loved Saras at one time..He is more thn done for me...I never really cared for Kumud..I am against domestic violence but also against stupidity..

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

How is Indian janta-viewers allowing thest type of stories on SC, PR to air when they have many brutal rape cases going on in Delhi and other place?

Why is this behavior condoned by viewers???

I am shocked and baffled by it.

Pls do not tell me "We know the diff between Real and Reel life"

All I will say to that is "GRRR"

Originally posted by: SC_wellwisher

So she is to be blamed for the rape attempt because she is trying to be a wife to him? She should avoid?? I dont think she should avoid it. I think she should rather take the bull by the horns.
I agree Kumud is being plainly stupid thinking that being brave n determined, she will change this man. This is not possible. The man is sick period and needs treatment. N this is not only Kumud's responsibility. Help is needed n getting a person to rehab is no easy task when u have a mother like SD ready with rescue missions.
I will agree hands down thats where Kumud is failing miserably, thinking that she can do it all by herself... But i disagree with comments like she deserves whatever abuses n violence that is coming her way. She doesnt n nobody deseve it even not Kalika.
I rest my case here. Not satisfied with the explanations u forwarded but i guess we'll go round n round. I leave it to u to discuss this with the others.
Thank u😊