Kalika- is she really that bad? Post-pg.1 & discussion pg. 38 - Page 25

Created

Last reply

Replies

293

Views

22.9k

Users

34

Likes

766

Frequent Posters

iViews thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail
Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: shana0127

well kumud kare to kara kya kare...poor thing ...all r behind her

her husband the great harrases her ------- 😆 She is harassing him too first for Milk then Nimbu paani ... Dude is bewada 😛 Nimbu Paani won't go down well . 😆 [ If U do read on Prev. page on my view abt what should kumud do then U will know I m not against her ]

forum wasees call her wrong --------- makes her feel U better , I blame Saras too [ Not helping the cauz ] & Pretty much entire BD house . 😳

her parents say u can do it ------- Technically they also said to come back .

her saasu maa says why cant u when our kalika can ------- No arguments there . 😆😆

sister says ...didi i am all with u bas saras mujhe de do -------- lets not go there unless Kusum does ask Saras' hand in marriage .


Poor thing has only her love saras on her side at this time...someone who understands her...and is walking by her trying to pick all thorns he could...if only if only he could be in her bed room too ...coz its their he cant be and its their all wrong things happen to her

-------- That's not true . Kumud has her family's support . Why do u think DB continuously asks Kumud - Kusum that is everything alright there ? They did ask her to b honest with them . Did they not ? Didn't VC told BD that " From now onwards Kumud is going to report every wrong doing to him "

There r many women out there who goes through emotional - Physical torture at the hand of their families , & don't have support of parents . Kumud is fortunate to have such support yet she is not being honest with them . Lying abt physical torture at the hand of husband is serious matter , not to b taken lightly .

now dont bash me for what i said ok... ------- I m not bashing U , trust me . I enjoy healthy discussion . If I do offend U or anyone - feel free to let me know . 😳

..if monster .Pramad has human rights to sympathy then my Saras Kumud r Gods and should be worshiped ------- U do deserve to worship , who ever U want to ... 😃 Human rights do apply to all human beings . I like Characters Pramad - Kusum bcauz of the actors playing them . I don't worship characters - Actors ... I just like them . That's just me . ☺️

My ten cents 🤣 ---------- I don't give out cents , I give my full Dollar . 🤣🤣

iViews thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail
Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

How is Indian janta-viewers allowing thest type of stories on SC, PR to air when they have many brutal rape cases going on in Delhi and other place?

Only thing viewers cares about is LEADs r doing it so its ok. They r their role models . PMS - rape - being with abuser like Pramad is ok . Bcauz Lead is doing it . There r many girls have died at the hands of their husband & In-laws . I know someone who was burned alive by her in-laws . And sad thing is her parents didn't give her support . 😭 I don't find Kumud brave , I find her stupid . 😡 How would same viewers feel if tomorrow Pramad burnes Kumud alive then ?
Why is this behavior condoned by viewers??? Everyone likes Masala . Apne ko kya , dusre ke saath ho raha hain naa.
I am shocked and baffled by it.
Pls do not tell me "We know the diff between Real and Reel life" When I was growing up It used to b " Reel life is reflecting Real " Now a days " Real Life reflects Reel life "
All I will say to that is "GRRR" More GRRR from me too . 🤢

SC-IPK1-Wwisher thumbnail
12th Anniversary Thumbnail Navigator Thumbnail Engager Level 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 12 years ago
I yet have not read anywhere that "kumud deserves the physical abuse that she is getting" so that claim is uncalled for. Unless I have not read as I don't read all topics..
>>>>>> Tough we have been against Kumud's way of handling her current situation since the first week of August, we have never written that she deserves it. I just know that we have held her responsible for the current mess. Only she is responsible or all the abuse. She always had the option to get out, however, she has chosen to be Pramaad's wife and fix him. Since the story is a modern day adaptation, Kumud can be shown taking charge of her own life and making sensible decisions.

An abuse always starts with a thappad or verbal abuse, and if left unchecked is bound to get out of control, it needs to be nipped at the bud. She should have taken care of it a really long time ago, first by being honest with her family reg. Pramaad.


yes though it is true that when one plays with fire one gets their hands burned.
There is nothing personally I can say in Kumud's defence with what she is doing right now.

>>> defending her by saying that she is doing it retain her marriage is so wrong. What is all that Nayan contact with ex about? What kind of marriage is she trying to save? Well I do know that she is saving her ex.

She has a choice of leaving that marriage, Pramad and family. Sometimes it is smarter not to take the bull by the horn and leave safely...No need to prove Jhansi ki rani swaroop...
As there is a saying "Work smarter and not harder" 😃
She made a biggest mistake of her life in marrying Pramad in haste out of rebound...
>> oh for this, again Saras is held responsible by certain members. I am glad now some have moved away from the Saras-Kumud romance and are actually looking into her situation and holding her responsible to some extent.
The whole D family is wrong-dysfunctional and they all need psychiatric help..Pramad needs more than that due to alchoholism and rage..
>>> they already proved it by getting their son married at such a short notice.
this post in defence of those who are not supporting SaMud in regards to what they are doing and how they are going abt Pramad the project..
>> members reading with an open mind will surely get the point.
my 2 cents..

My ans. underlined. Sorry ipad is not allowing me to change font color.
Edited by SC_wellwisher - 12 years ago
SC-IPK1-Wwisher thumbnail
12th Anniversary Thumbnail Navigator Thumbnail Engager Level 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 12 years ago
@BNK @ Netri
Thanks for your replies to shana0127 on pg. 30 & 31.👏
SC-IPK1-Wwisher thumbnail
12th Anniversary Thumbnail Navigator Thumbnail Engager Level 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 12 years ago
@ omshreejaanu
Response to pg. 30.

So she is to be blamed for the rape attempt because she is trying to be a wife to him? She should avoid?? I dont think she should avoid it. I think she should rather take the bull by the horns.

>> take bull by the horns. One should be prepared to get hurt, it's an expected outcome. There is no reason to complain. Trying to be wife to a person who is not sane and an alcoholic , a rape attempt is expected.

If you think, it was attempt to rape- from Pramaad's point of view he was trying to be her hubby, like Kumud has been trying to be his wife by making him do so many things that he detests.

It may appear normal to Kumud, but they are not normal for Pramaad. Similarly, what Pramaad does may be normal for him, but not for Kumud.

PS. I am not supporting Pramaad, but providing an insight into his psyche.

SCWW- my ans. underlined

Edited by SC_wellwisher - 12 years ago
SC-IPK1-Wwisher thumbnail
12th Anniversary Thumbnail Navigator Thumbnail Engager Level 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 12 years ago
Current state of a divided forum. Pg .1
annete thumbnail
12th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail
Posted: 12 years ago
State of mind------------BLANK---------------😕
SC-IPK1-Wwisher thumbnail
12th Anniversary Thumbnail Navigator Thumbnail Engager Level 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: annete

State of mind------------BLANK---------------😕


State of mind--------------SLUMBER-------------- ( typed it just for fun,in between work)
kaieteur thumbnail
Explorer Thumbnail
Posted: 12 years ago
ARE YOU FORGETTING ABOUT THE PHYSICAL AND EMOTIONAL ABUSE OF THIS MAN WITH HIS WIFE - IS THIS ACCEPTABLE BY THIS FORUM, OR THIS DOESNT MATTER - WOMEN IN INDIA AND ALL OVER THE WORLD AND ABUSED AND SOMETIMES KILLED BY DRUNKEN MEN AS HUSBANDS -- SO PLEASE GET SOMEONE TO ADDRESS THIS SITUATION THAT IS BEING SHOWN ON NATIONAL TELEVISION... VERY VERY WRONG ---😡😡😡
kaieteur thumbnail
Explorer Thumbnail
Posted: 12 years ago
ALCOHOLICS DONT CHANGE, AND NO WIFE SHUD TRY TO CHANGE THEM - THAT IS THE REALITY OF THE REAL WORLD - AND NO TV SOAP CAN CHANGE AN ALCOHOLIC, SO WAKE UP SMELL THE COFFEE...😆😉

Related Topics

Top

Stay Connected with IndiaForums!

Be the first to know about the latest news, updates, and exclusive content.

Add to Home Screen!

Install this web app on your iPhone for the best experience. It's easy, just tap and then "Add to Home Screen".