DOTW -Kumud's behaviour-

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Hey SCians my name is Sonya and here I am with DOTW.

So, the DOTW is on Kumud's behaviour. Guys, I think Kumud is not just headstrong but also quite arrogent person. The way she behaved with Saras? He was hurt, she new but still rather than understanding him she packed his bags. Well, its my point of view please shares yours.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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kumud has the ego but deep down there is a heart of gold just that she needs to let her guard down
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I don't doubt that and I like her but as a charecter she is way to short tempered. She don't really ponder clamly on things before acting. Delay is always better than regret.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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She is very strong headed... will not allow anything to harm her family and will not allow anyone to walk all over her as well... That's a very interesting trait in her character.

She sure makes judgments on impulse but to be honest we all do it sometimes... but this doesn't mean she is a bad person. The way she reacted to her mistake was truly amazing. I absolutely loved how she regretted her mazaak. Proves that she has a heart of gold.

Even now, if she pushing Saras away is because she doesn't want to hurt herself more than she already has. She has fallen in love and she knows how difficult it will be once he actually leaves..

She has no idea of what Saras feels because there hasn't been an actual conversation which I hope will happen soon.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Kumud is strongheaded and has a very big ego. However, she's also very protective towards the people she loves especially her father. She's been more hurt by the fact that her father would be so disappointed and shattered by Saras's refusal!!
So she acted accordingly but in the process she hurt Saras unintentionally!
what i love about kumud is when she did realise her mistake she did apologise to saras many times.
She's asking saras to go away because she realised that if she hadn't instigate saras to come here, he would not have come face to face to his past!!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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she values her ego...and saras broke her heart..her dreams...her reaction is normal...and his behaviour is also normal...these things sometimes happen...we often reject a person who may mean the world to us later on in life
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Kumud is stubborn, but her dreams are all shattered by his rejection. I think it's how she wants to bring out what is within her...flowing out the emotions in the form anger, sometimes it happens like you don't want show your pain to others instead you just show your anger. For me Kumud is also like that
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I thought the same too initially, about how Kumud has an ego and is arrogant since she isn't forgiving Saras! But then i saw her reactions to everything and analysed her.

She is for sure hurt by herself. The only mistake she has done is that she doesn't let Saras speak and put her decisions on him like how she asked him leave when it wasn't what Saras wanted to say. Kumud has just misunderstood Saras LIKE BIG TIME! And since she is so hurt that she got rejected by him without even having a look at her hurt her more. She doesn't know how Saras has realised his mistake and wants to say sorry to her. She has some feelings for him somewhere deep down and knows she won't be able to move on after him so easily but she has this thing in her mind that she can't still marry him or forgive him since she's got some self respect as well. I mean who would say no to a girl, then come and meet her and then will regret making that decision of leaving her.

I don't know, i might be wrong. But yeah that's what i could analyse. And this is completely my POV. 😳
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Posted: 12 years ago
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i agree with u ...but then she is too possessive about her family and does not like intrusion from an outsider who has already rejected her.


Somewhere in heart she is feeling insecure and is afraid of Saras who is winning everybodys heart including hers ...She disliked the fact that a man first rejects them and then slowly creeps into there heart

She packed Saras bag coz on one hand he was not ready to open up to her on her constant pleading while her parents and family were loving and caring him and forcing her to go to him again and again while he ignored her like anything

Saras softened when Kumari unknowingly told the pligt of Kumuds heart but it seemed a bit late as now Kumud decided to amend her mistakes by herself

Wha ti feel here is the communication gap between Kumud and Saras in which they just presume the things rather then talk it out...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Kumud pehle se hurt hai qki saras ne shadi k lia man krdia islia vo apna gusa nikalti h saras pe...sabse badi baat...saras ne kumud ko bina dekhe hi man kar dia tha vo aisa kaisa kr sakta hai...saras ne ek ladki ki feelings k bre me nhi socha...

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