DOTW -Kumud's behaviour- - Page 4

Kumud care I agree. She is emotional. Agreed again but that is what the problem is. She is so emotional and that she can go to any extent to save the one she loved and at the same time she can hurt the same person where is hurt the most that too not unintentionally. If she hurts she makes sure the one who is reason of her hurt must be hurt even badly. Like once mentioned by her mother Kumud need to know the difference between Ego and Selfrespect.

Originally posted by: -SmokySapphira-

<font color="#ff3333">Kumud care I agree. She is emotional. Agreed again but that is what the problem is. She is so emotional and that she can go to any extent to save the one she loved and at the same time she can hurt the same person where is hurt the most that too not unintentionally. If she hurts she makes sure the one who is reason of her hurt must be hurt even badly. Like once mentioned by her mother Kumud need to know the difference between Ego and Selfrespect. </font>

<font color="#ff3333">She cares for her family but she is quite self centered person too. I have seen the mahaepisode . She was trying to help Saras and all but at the same time I noticed that Kumud is the kind of charecter whose strength can make you feel week, useless. She is dominating. She states her point and want it to accepted. She can't tolerate if things are not the way she wanted. She in most situation says thing which makes situation even worst. Her excessive stubborness is not a plus point too. I know Saras is also stubborn but if she sees another person in pain he understands the situation and tries to pacify the person but Kumud most of the times don't pay heed to other person's emotion, condition. Just like when saras was in fields anyone could see what condition he was in but kumud went and tried to talk to him and when he didn't listen to her she started calling him names. </font>

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<font color="#ff3333">When a person is trobled he doesn't actually need a reality check. The person needs soft words of understanding to ease out his pain. For some reason as far as i have seen her I can't expect Kumud to be a nice campanion for someone in distressed condition. </font>

<font color="#ff3333">Saras himself is quite short tempered so in long run such relations don't really survive. Taking in account of their natures there will be mor fights than understanding and love. </font>

<strong><font color="#ff3333">One more I thought about the charecters is too much agressiveness in story line somehow marring the beauty of the love. I don't know I fill more pressured when I see any SaMud scenes... the emotion level... the too much agressivenss. I feel totally disconnected most of the times. So, for now I am just looking forward for the romance trace. May be things will be different then.</font>

<font color="#ff3333">P.s- @Jammy- : A high5 from my side too to Ian fan.</font>

I don't think Saras is too aggressive! He pushed Kumud by accident! Not intentionally!

She acts upon instinct, I'd say... Upon what she knows without bothering to find out the hidden. Yes, sometimes I don't like her doings because of her 'ego'. Then again, she can't be blamed for knowing only one side of the coin..

Originally posted by: anonee

Some one who has genuine emotions for family would be grateful to the person who saved her father from being burnt alive and getting immediate medical attention via video conference.

Some one who has genuine emotions for the family would be strong enough to share Saras's letter of rejection with them. There is nothing to be ashamed about it as they do understand her and realize that Saras has a right to choose his bride.

Some one who has genuine emotions for the family would not insult their guest and humiliate him to get into a pond.

Some one who has genuine emotions for the family would not gloat over how she successfully humiliated Saras and got him to enter the pond to fetch her kite.

Yes she is an emotional person - but the good ones are only for her, herself and that what she desires!

You forget the scene where she thanks him but Saras refused to buy it because he wanted it to see the thankfullness in her eyes. She has genuine feelings but always manages to cover it up with pride and ego.

Look, Saras has the right to chose his bride but this proposal came from LN. VC isn't aware about the fact that the decision was made without Saras' confirmation. The parents have made the decision so why should Kumud be the only one facing her parents? It's simple, you have a problem you come abd handle it!
By the time the letter was delivered even Saras wanted to apologize once face to face, this was way before she asked him to come.

That was a prank. She had no idea what was about to happen. It wasn't her intention to humiliate him. If this were a normal prank we would've just laughed it off. I know Saras had to go through hell all over again but Kumud had no idea what she had done. You cannot entirely blame her. Oh yes she said some very mean things, for which I have no arguments but it wasn't her intention to hurt him.

I have never denied the fact that she has an ego but she also has genuine emotions and there is no denying that.

@Smokey- she keeps telling Saras and herself that she is helping him for the 'right' cause. She believes him innocent. She believes in what is right and she has and always fight for justice. We saw this once before as well, when Saras comes back from saving the child from the pond. She yells and says that for traditions are we not suppose to save a drowning child?
It's all about whats right and whats wrong!

Now coming to the field scene, I have to say they both are very very stubborn. They both say hurtful things to each other. I stick to the fact that they both are fighting with their feelings and they keep pushing each other away. Look, people have their own ways to deal with problems. Kumud likes to toughen up and Saras likes to take it out on himself. When these two clash that is not going to be a pretty picture.

On the contrary to your last point, for me this show is like a breath of fresh air. The female lead is not the one you mess with and the male lead is definitely not gonna let you walk all over him. They both have their own personalities. Look at any other show, there isn't one show that has BOTH strong,powerful leads.

This is entirely my perspective. I have enjoyed this discussion.

Kumud is quite egoistic no doubt about it