Originally posted by: kaadal
Arshicritic, really an interesting topic. I think you might have been an IPK fan guessing by your name. I almost agree with your point. I think after seeing him in dreams she had somehow made up her mind that she wanted to share his life, the way she told Kusum that after seeing those eyes I want to share his pain. And the fact that her family were too happy and the proposal came from Saras dad made it even sure for her and seeing his eyes she said yes. She had started dreaming when the letter came. I agree he did say he can't love her because of personal reasons but for an outsider a dad always consults his son before sending a proposal and a son has the right to agree/disagree in this matter with his dad. Here Kumud doesn't know Saras house rules so thinks he is scared to talk to his dad whereas her upbringing has been the opposite. His sending a letter directly to her rather than thru parents irked her.
In her initial anger she doesn't show her face and challenges him to come down and talk to her dad. She went to his room wanting to see why everyone were praising him but when he told her that his sleep had spoiled because she stopped fanning, she again thought he was arrogant. She tests him every time asking him to talk to her dad and he responds every time saying he has to and has to go away. She wants him to stay since she has started to have some unknown feelings for him & is scared that he would walk away. She is shown as a bit bold, egoistic person and has made up her mind about him that he is arrogant, irresponsible so even after feeling something for him her hurt, desperation and ego comes first whenever she sees him.
Se wants to thank him for saving her dad but feels why should she do it before such a person, it is her big ego but she covers it up again thinking he rejected her. I agree with you that she keeps repeating the same but it is because she doesn't understand the reasons behind his behaviour and not giving him a chance to talk. I still feel she will understand him once she knows what he is going through.
Sorry that was too much big reply. Hope you don't mind and pls ignore if you feel it as nonsense :)