Originally posted by: savee_k
A continuation of why anmol was appreciated and accepted by audiences..
Firstly as I mentioned in my other post tammy/anmol bonding'
This time It will be ragini his wife'
As a viewer his first scene we got to watch with ragini was the dance on tammy's birthday..we already got it ragini was not happy at all and there was something awkward in this relationship..we got our answer in the room ragini blasting anmol of how can he forget the maryada in their relationship..
I loved his dhamakerdaar entry Bang on !!!👏👏👏
he first came behind Ragini in the mask and I felt she did give a short smile, it was really a tiny winy one, as she was glad that he came in time for Tammy's birthday !!
The next thing we know he pulls Ragini in for a dance with him and she did'nt seem happy at all 😭 and was wquite annoyed with the swings he made her do..
After the dance she was so upset and she looked at the crowd applauding Anmol's dance and walked out with disspointment not to miss Anmol's eyes coz he knew she was upset aur uska class lenewali hai !!😆
When they wanted to get the cake cutting ceremony started all asked for ragini and Anmol said she must be in the kitchen 😆😆😆 but he very well knew she was pissed off and had gone to the room ...
He went in search of her and finally found her in the bed room and he got a good blasting from her and he said that he did it all on Tammy's request !!!😳
He was so clear in his statement and assured her that we need to do small things for a childs happiness.. i think he tiotally had a point in what he said..
Coz that child did'nt know anything to what borders their relationship.
He was completely doing what a parent would do .. which is why Ragini later understood and decided to come for the cake cutting !!😊
Don't know about you guys but for me it was a total surprise anmol's, reaction towards the anger of ragini..he was so sweet and cool..not at all angry with ragini but instead end up praising her and brought a smile on her face..i did get it anmol was a gentleman and will do anything to make her happy..
Yes he was a perfect gentleman !! I mean he stood by his words always.. He had controll of what needs to be siad where..
I know he gave her all the thoughts which were positive saying that she is a good mother and is doing everything right and made her happy !!!So sweet of him..
This was also the first time I realized anmol was in love
The smile he had as she walked out was pure satisfaction and happy that he felt he may be happy for her as he feels happy for himself !!!😳
with ragini..the bikhri song on both and later in the morning looking at her sleeping and saying to himself "kab hamare beech ki khamoshi door hogee"'
She was sound sleep and he was gazing at her and these so many years have been no communication ( which we know its void for us ) and he is wishing that she would just have a talk with him
Later we got so many scenes like..him leaving in anger and ragini worried..lock in the room..the POA issue..along that we saw ragini's behavior and feelings changing for anmol..
The POA issue was the major turning point in their relationship .. Ragini was angry and worried that Anmol could do somthing like that.. Tahnks to Vasu ..But we had many argumenst during thst and wondering how could Ragini not trust Anmol.. I mean he has been with her for so many years and he has been there in their worst time and still she could think he would mess with the POA..
She was ready to side vasu's accisiations till Sharma ji advices her to think with her heart and then understand what were the reasns behind such an approach..
And the name of tammana being Tammana Sareen was another bigger issue..
So that was the time she realzed that her levelof trust can be more that what she claims she thinks abt him.
Day by day ragini was dependant on anmol..she will ask for his advice and even help her in solving certain issues..over all anmol was becoming ragini's perfect lifepartner..
Without him she was'nt able to make many decisions, And I liked Anmol more here coz he gave her the choice to do free decisions
No pressure at all he would guide her but leave it to her to make the conclusions ..
Still there was a wall between them ..anmol had that patience to wait for ragini to open up to him' but ragini never considered of bridging that gap between them..they were husband/wife but not in the true sense.
Anmol was extremely patient I mean seriously his love for Ragini was so unconditional and was all a built up for himself.. He knew its going to be like forever or may not happen at all, but he lived with that expectation that someday there will be some chance..
Thats why he always mentioned Humara coz he considers himself as a part of their happiness i.e. Anmol and ragini..
But it was all left to Ragini to see the depth of his dedication and see beyond her closed shell and look for an opening !! Anmol day by day his genuine love for ragini was so visible..the first time we heard this dialogue"aap ke liye kuch bhi ragini"..in the scene where alekh asked ragini who is more handsome..he was madly in love with her..we got the necklace scene where he tried to flirt with her .there was many a time like this where he let go of this feelings for ragini.how can we forget the rain scene..it was always his dream of how he wants his relationship with ragini to be..
Anmol actually was in a way hinting a lot to her I felt.. He sensed her resistance a lot since she somewhere started genuinely felt somthing was bothering and her in her personal life but she was soo preoccupied ..
I always felt her heart was racing and she had no control over it but then her mind used to get distracted and she lost her pace of heart !!
The KC epi ragini's fear and pain of losing anmol and hugging him did it for him..anmol for the first time openly confess his heart feelings to ragini in these 7 yrs..next we know the twist in story..
O yes the way he says that this night has come after so many years and he wanted to just say what was in his heart..
I mean it was totally hard for him to see how devisiated Ragini was not to have heard from him and when he back the way she grabs him Uff that scene i flet he was in complete shock !!
Yes first time was his peak where he could'nt keep his feelings anymore and he wanted to tell her
It was like jo hoga ho janey do types Mai apney dil ki baat bolkey Rahoonga !!
anmol patience..his devotion..his unconditional.undying love for ragini was heart touching too same as his love for tammy..how can we forget the last epi where he said if I don't get your love still I'm happy I will be by your side..i will give you so much love that you too will fall in love with me..
The last where he tells himself that "Mai Itna Payaar Karronga Itna Pyaar Karoonga ki Apkobhi mujhey Pyaar Ho jayega "
That was so daam sweet..
I felt really he wanted to stop her and express his feelings then and there... there was never lust in his mind ever for ragini..he slept on that couch for 7 yrs..to think of it any guy would have cracked any moment and ask for his husbandly right..that was never the case with anmol his love was too pure for ragini..her happiness.her smile..being by her side was enough for him..he could have waited a whole life but I'm confident his love for ragini would have never faded away from his heart..
Well said.. He had deep love for her and enjoyed even dreaming of her .. The rain dance was so so pure and beautioful.. I would say elegant and had a style of its own..
He had dignity in his thoughts about her and always maintained his love for her in that manner..
He knew Ragini may move on to see happiness but on a persoanl level it may be very hard for her coz when ever he used to address her as she was pretty and beautiful it used to send shivers to Ragini but she never expressed her feelings towards those coined words for her ...
So Anmol i feel has affected her as much as we as veiwers have seen him pouring his love on her.
that's why anmol you are truly anmol..yes another reason why the viewers accepted you cos you conveyed that its not just about the physical relationship but there is something that is called pure love.
The stage which is set for their relationship is very difgferent from what Ragini has experenced in the past.. Its more of pure love and there is soo much depth in this relationship which goes beyond words..
They have amazing chemsitry and its a different level altogether.. As you overcome an age where love has a certain dimension , we grow to mould it to make other formations which eventually become purer with time and at present Anmol and Ragini's relationship is more like that
\This was just the begining and we need to see more .. Thats even the more we need season two to understand the depth of their relationship
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