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Posted: 15 years ago
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Bohot bohot dhannyavaad for the clarification shanti05. I appreciate that.

I made that request because I felt very hurt after reading the latest update regarding Ranveer's death. What I don't understand is, how can Ranveer hand Ragini over to someone who he knows for just a few days? I understand ragini wanted to make Ranveer happy by marrying Apoorva's character, but in real life whenever such a tragic event takes place in a person's life, he/she usually takes some time to come out of it and then think of another marriage. That's because depression engulfs their minds completely after such tragic events. On the other hand, Ragini's marriage to Apoorva's character seemed too rushed. I understand she promised Ranveer but how can you agree to marry a stranger guy who you don't even know properly? How did ragini's parents allow her to marry a guy who they didn't even know? I know she promised Ranveer, but weren't they worried about Ragini's safety? What if she ends up marrying the wrong person, because they don't know that person very well. He was just a person who was acquainted with Ranveer and ranveer knew him for a few days only. How did ragini's parents and everyone else agree to such a thing soo quickly without hesitation? In real life most parents wouldn't allow that, until they come to know the person (who their daughter will marry) deeply. Besides, how did Ranveer come to the conclusion that Apoorva's character will prove to be a better husband than him? He just knew the guy for a few days right? When he met Apoorva's character, he was arrogant and was obsessed with drinking right?Before Ranveer's death, Apoorva's character did improve, but it was a very slight improvement. Then how did Ranveer arrive at such a conclusion in such a short time? Don't these turn of events seem too rushed and illogical?
Therefore, I made this request to Rajan Shahi. Now, I just hope he changes the remaining actors if he is planning to show any love story between Apoorva' character and Ragini. That way, no one will be hurt. I doubt he will do that, but again, there is no harm in trying.
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Posted: 15 years ago
#42

Originally posted by: rabees011

I understand it's ok to fall in love again, but those who have watched RagVir for soo many months and days feel it is not ok, because RagVir's chemistry was really strong. In real life it is ok to fall in love again, but from the serial's point of view it is not.

I have watched Ragvir story and I am a huge Ragvir fan. i still watch there all secnes everyday as I miss them so much but i dont mind seeing Parul's chemistry with other actors as well. If u read all my previous posts it has always been asking for the Ragvir track but we never got one. But i am taking it as a totally different story. Like SRK's best jodi is with kajol but he does work with other actresses in other film so just take it as another story.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I understand what you mean, but it is really hard to take it as another jodi, because even though the jodi and story will be different, the show will still be the same---Bidaai--and whenever we think of Bidaai we are reminded of four names: Sadhna Alekh and Ranveer Ragini, and when we come back to Earth and see some of them gone and others taking their place, we feel hurt and find it difficult to accept the fact that Ragini is now someone else's.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: rabees011

Bohot bohot dhannyavaad for the clarification shanti05. I appreciate that.

I made that request because I felt very hurt after reading the latest update regarding Ranveer's death. What I don't understand is, how can Ranveer hand Ragini over to someone who he knows for just a few days? I understand ragini wanted to make Ranveer happy by marrying Apoorva's character, but in real life whenever such a tragic event takes place in a person's life, he/she usually takes some time to come out of it and then think of another marriage. That's because depression engulfs their minds completely after such tragic events. On the other hand, Ragini's marriage to Apoorva's character seemed too rushed. I understand she promised Ranveer but how can you agree to marry a stranger guy who you don't even know properly? How did ragini's parents allow her to marry a guy who they didn't even know? I know she promised Ranveer, but weren't they worried about Ragini's safety? What if she ends up marrying the wrong person, because they don't know that person very well. He was just a person who was acquainted with Ranveer and ranveer knew him for a few days only. How did ragini's parents and everyone else agree to such a thing soo quickly without hesitation? In real life most parents wouldn't allow that, until they come to know the person (who their daughter will marry) deeply. Besides, how did Ranveer come to the conclusion that Apoorva's character will prove to be a better husband than him? He just knew the guy for a few days right? When he met Apoorva's character, he was arrogant and was obsessed with drinking right?Before Ranveer's death, Apoorva's character did improve, but it was a very slight improvement. Then how did Ranveer arrive at such a conclusion in such a short time? Don't these turn of events seem too rushed and illogical?
Therefore, I made this request to Rajan Shahi. Now, I just hope he changes the remaining actors if he is planning to show any love story between Apoorva' character and Ragini. That way, no one will be hurt. I doubt he will do that, but again, there is no harm in trying.



Well knowing Anmol for four days is the BIGGEST BLOOPER HERE but sometimes a foresight in seeing a person could change things

Therefore it is also seems she is shown married to him for the past 7 years but lived as a complete stranger

Now if this show is going to last for next 3 years also may be at the end of the third year Ragini might feel that this person Anmol has defiantly taken a special place in her life and she truly sees and loves him like a husband wife relationship and might fall in love

Rush was done in showing Ranveer handing over Ragini's hand to Anmol but also they showed they stayed in the same house but never under the same roof .. or the same room..
So Logically even if they are husband and wife they never had any relationship

But yes now with the viewers knowing what is happening in this 8 + years and Anmol's in the limelight for us they are bound to show some closeness between Ragini and Anmol

I hope your requests are reached but if they do show Ragini having feelings for Anmol I hope people do not get disturbed by it since its natural and its realistic.
and I don't think Ragini or Anmol can be blamed for that.😊

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I don't think you understand what I am trying to say here. I am trying to say that, how did ragini agree to marry Apoorva's character soon after ranveer's death? Is that not too rushed and illogical? She didn't even know Apoorva's character properly, then how did the marriage take place soon after ran's death? thanks for saying that Apoorva's character and Ragini can't be blamed for anything, because the current storyline is Rajan Shahi's choice. He is to be blamed for that. Though kinshuk quit by his own choice, rajan shahi could have continued to story in a different way. So, Ragini and Apoorva's character can't be blamed for that. It's Rajan Shahi and Star Plus.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: rabees011

I understand what you mean, but it is really hard to take it as another jodi, because even though the jodi and story will be different, the show will still be the same---Bidaai--and whenever we think of Bidaai we are reminded of four names: Sadhna Alekh and Ranveer Ragini, and when we come back to Earth and see some of them gone and others taking their place, we feel hurt and find it difficult to accept the fact that Ragini is now someone else's.



Yes Bidaaii is about the foresome, But the Pillars have shaken and now to mold it back an angle in the form of Anmol has come to help with restricting it.

OK what if Ragini's father wanted Ragini to remarry what would you say about that .
Considering the fact that parents want the best for their kids and even there if she was forced to marry and under circumstances she did that then do you still think she shouldn't have done it.

I see this also as given one a second chance to live happy .. If a person even if he is a stranger can give a piece of happiness for your life and your heart accepts that then what more do you want in life than staying unhappy and feel lost when you loose loved ones

Life is all about overcoming depression, unhappiness and see ourselves in a brghter light and happiness..

Maybe thats what ragini will do for her kids and for herself She truly deserves to be happy . And If she does find happiness in a person who can give her and is around her then she might do that..

If the love story between Ragini and Anmol takes place then many will call her disloyal and accuse her which personally makes no sense and I am sure many Ragini fans will not appreciate that.. So if they have the track then they might show it.. But if they don;t then Ragini will just stay the way she did for the past 7 years,

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: rabees011

I don't think you understand what I am trying to say here. I am trying to say that, how did ragini agree to marry Apoorva's character soon after ranveer's death? Is that not too rushed and illogical? She didn't even know Apoorva's character properly, then how did the marriage take place soon after ran's death? thanks for saying that Apoorva's character and Ragini can't be blamed for anything, because the current storyline is Rajan Shahi's choice. He is to be blamed for that. Though kinshuk quit by his own choice, rajan shahi could have continued to story in a different way. So, Ragini and Apoorva's character can't be blamed for that. It's Rajan Shahi and Star Plus.



She never agreed at Ranveer's death bed.. She had no choice Ranveer was dying and that was his LAST wish.. Can we stop a dying man to change his wish when he has few seconds of life left no ..and she did keep saying no no but he took her hand and placed it on Anmols and closed his eyes.

So now come Monday Anmol has more to say about the Flash back so he might give us the complete story.

As I understand from the present situation there is and was an agreement between Vasu and Anmol which says that it was an agreement marriage so there may be many clauses in that paper which Anmol has signed and so we have to know what exactly happened after Ranveer beath his last.
Do the family know how he died ??
Is Anmol blamed in full for allowing the boulders to fall in Ranveer when they had enough time to move out ??
Did Vasu take Anmol to task for doing what he did to Ranveer and agree with his last wish ??

Many unanswered question might give us answer about why and how did she agree to marry Anmol..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i think ragini have the right to live her life happily.if she is happy with anmol then its very good.why should not have that love from someone who sacrified his whole life for ragini and her family??its not that if u loved ur first husband so dearly then after his death u cannot love someone else...she should have fun,enjoy her life with anmol and have ranvir's memories in her heart too.she is young and have full right to love someone other than her dead first husband....
this is just my POV.please don't bash me😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: rekhab25

i think ragini have the right to live her life happily.if she is happy with anmol then its very good.why should not have that love from someone who sacrified his whole life for ragini and her family??its not that if u loved ur first husband so dearly then after his death u cannot love someone else...she should have fun,enjoy her life with anmol and have ranvir's memories in her heart too.she is young and have full right to love someone other than her dead first husband....

this is just my POV.please don't bash me😊

I am not saying in general a person doesn't have the right to live his/her life to the fullest. He/she certainly does have that right, but RagVir fans who havewatched ragVir and loved them for soo long just can't accept the fact that she has gotten married to someone else. It is indeed very painful for them. Try and see the situation from our point of view too. By the way, happiness can come in many different forms. Marriage isn't the only form of happiness and it isn't the only thing that will allow you to live life to the fullest.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: shanti05



Yes Bidaaii is about the foresome, But the Pillars have shaken and now to mold it back an angle in the form of Anmol has come to help with restricting it.

OK what if Ragini's father wanted Ragini to remarry what would you say about that .
Considering the fact that parents want the best for their kids and even there if she was forced to marry and under circumstances she did that then do you still think she shouldn't have done it.

I see this also as given one a second chance to live happy .. If a person even if he is a stranger can give a piece of happiness for your life and your heart accepts that then what more do you want in life than staying unhappy and feel lost when you loose loved ones

Life is all about overcoming depression, unhappiness and see ourselves in a brghter light and happiness..

Maybe thats what ragini will do for her kids and for herself She truly deserves to be happy . And If she does find happiness in a person who can give her and is around her then she might do that..

If the love story between Ragini and Anmol takes place then many will call her disloyal and accuse her which personally makes no sense and I am sure many Ragini fans will not appreciate that.. So if they have the track then they might show it.. But if they don;t then Ragini will just stay the way she did for the past 7 years,

I would say give her some time to come out of that trauma and allow her to live the way she wants to, because she has suffered more than enough and marriage shouldn't be something which is a compromise or something that is forced.
My point is, they didn't even know who Anmol is, then how did they allow her to marry some random guy soo quickly without knowing him?In real life, a sane parent would be worried about his/her child and would want to know that guy in depth before giving his/her daughter's hand in marriage.
Ofcourse life is about overcoming depression per iska matlab ye to nahi to overcome that depression jab chaahe kisi bhi unjaan aadmi ko jaane bagair usse shaadi kar lo...

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