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Arre ek hi din to guzra hai ... my Sadhna is not running away with the baby!!! ... 2 din baksh do usse...

I can see that its so DELIGHTFUL to catch something to find her faults 😕 .... SHE WILL TELL ALEKH SOON ... isme bohot bara reason hoga ...

Also, the family situation is too tense... and my Sadhna is sensitive ... too sensitive ... there is no reason that her sensitivity is demeaned....

Its really wrong to say such things about her ... that she dont care. SHE DOES CARE ... and no on cares more than her...

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#52

Originally posted by: Ice-Thinker
Arre ek hi din to guzra hai ... my Sadhna is not running away with the baby!!! ... 2 din baksh do usse...

I can see that its so DELIGHTFUL to catch something to find her faults 😕 .... SHE WILL TELL ALEKH SOON ... isme bohot bara reason hoga ...

Also, the family situation is too tense... and my Sadhna is sensitive ... too sensitive ... there is no reason that her sensitivity is demeaned....

Its really wrong to say such things about her ... that she dont care. SHE DOES CARE ... and no on cares more than her...

There is nothing delightful here. What's wrong in calling a spade a spade ?

What if there is no improvement in family situation then ? Sadhana is sensitive and pure, no doubt but her character is one dimensional. There isn't any growth in her character and trust in her relationship with Alekh.

Edited by --Anu-- - 15 years ago

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#53

Originally posted by: Ice-Thinker
Arre ek hi din to guzra hai ... my Sadhna is not running away with the baby!!! ... 2 din baksh do usse...

I can see that its so DELIGHTFUL to catch something to find her faults 😕 .... SHE WILL TELL ALEKH SOON ... isme bohot bara reason hoga ...

Also, the family situation is too tense... and my Sadhna is sensitive ... too sensitive ... there is no reason that her sensitivity is demeaned....

Its really wrong to say such things about her ... that she dont care. SHE DOES CARE ... and no on cares more than her...

wais eu r rite mamaiji also tld wen she cam to meet sadhna ki she alwys tks care soo much of her family and sadhna said tht these two families r mine in whole world

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: chocolover89
@Anu
You're absolutely right! Mamaji should have made Sadhna understand a long time ago, probably during Sadhna's last bidaai, that she needs to stop placing Ragini's interest above her relationship with Alekh. That she needs to stop worrying about Ragini so much--Ragini is a big girl, totally capable of taking care of herslef, and Ranvir is there!

Even today, he should have told her that she is being unfair to Alekh by hiding the news from him. But he probably though she had some big plan or something...

That's so right. Every time Sadhana makes a sacrifice for Sharma family, Mamaji just gives a pat on her back instead of explaining anything to her. He should have handled the situation in a better way. He could never control Kaushi's behavior either.

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Originally posted by: Ice-Thinker
Arre ek hi din to guzra hai ... my Sadhna is not running away with the baby!!! ... 2 din baksh do usse...

I can see that its so DELIGHTFUL to catch something to find her faults 😕 .... SHE WILL TELL ALEKH SOON ... isme bohot bara reason hoga ...

Also, the family situation is too tense... and my Sadhna is sensitive ... too sensitive ... there is no reason that her sensitivity is demeaned....

Its really wrong to say such things about her ... that she dont care. SHE DOES CARE ... and no on cares more than her...

Nobody is getting pleasure in finding faults with Sadhna. I think it's wrong of Sadhna to hide that she's pregnant from Alekh and I expressed myself. Nothing wrong with calling a spade a spade.

The problem is that she refuses to share the news with the baby's father. Forget about Ragini--she's not really as important as Alekh in this. For a couple, pregnancy is HUGE news, and the happiest blessing they get from God. Sadhna should technically want to jump and down and share this news immediately with Alekh. Or even if she is not doing that, she should atleast show some regret at not being able to share the news with Alekh. But she isn't even doing that. Alekh wanted to take her to the doctor because he cares and is worried but she isn't even trying to put his fears to rest!

What exactly can be big enough to not want to tell the baby's father that he is going to be a father?

She definitely cares, but sometimes it really seems like she cares more about other people/things than her own husband.

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Originally posted by: --Anu--

That's so right. Every time Sadhana makes a sacrifice for Sharma family, Mamaji just gives a pat on her back instead of explaining anything to her. He should have handled the situation in a better way. He could never control Kaushi's behavior either.

Very true!

Mamaji hardly ever tries to explain anything to Sadhna. In fact, not only Mamaji, but everyone just gives Sadhna a pat on her back for anything she does, no matter how illogical it is.

Normally I would count on Vasu to explain to Sadhna that she is wrong by hiding the pregnancy news, but somehow I don't think that will happen either.

So Alekh needs to do the needful, if he actually gets upset.

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Whatever ppl might say in defence of her even this time-informing a would-be-father would be or should be the foremost thing.Not after one day.Not after 2 days.U pick up the phone and tell him since it was unfortunate she fainted when he was no there.And no amount of reason would be sufficient in the end.And Himani,mamaji should have said,u r wrong abt Ragini.But noooooo.once again a beaten to death dialogue.And it would be the same from everyone too!

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Originally posted by: --Anu--

There is nothing delightful here. What's wrong in calling a spade a spade ?

What if there is no improvement in family situation then ? Sadhana is sensitive and pure, no doubt but her character is one dimensional. There isn't any growth in her character and trust in her relationship with Alekh.

There is nothing wrong in calling a Spade a Spade ... but the character of Sadhna is not what some people are calling it in here. Its not as if it was confirmed and exact that Sadhna is wrong ... till the last page of the book - a true reader must wait. The story is not yet over...

There will be improvement in the family situation. No one in this world thinks that there will never be normal days ahead - IF PEOPLE WOULD THIS IN SUCH A SADISTIC WAY, THEN ALMOST EVERYONE WOULD COMMIT SUICIDE - And this is a famous theory of "Stress Management".

Her relationship with Alekh have grown, therefore this baby. We need to try and look beyond our own way of dealing with things when we read, witness or analyse another character. Her past, her present and her future needs to come into the consideration. Her situation is different then ours ... her world is not as ours ...

There is no reason to defend Sadhna ... even if I would not write one alphabet here, she would still be defended by the CT and RS ji - I have no doubt there. But as I come here to discuss ... and to let my views free flow online, thus I express them.

Her character had no dimention ... isnt it? ... Many in this forum came and exclaimed if she was really anyones daughter or anything ... I know she was an orhpan without anyone really in favor of her unconditionally. She still loved all. AND THERE CAN BE NO GREATER DIMENTION THEN THE DIMENTION OF LOVE. Her love is her greatest quality ... and this dimention alone is the most cherished identity bestowed on her.

For those who come to a conclusion so hurriedly ... their conclusions are rarely accurite.

Thanks.

Originally posted by: SPN_JD_Addicted
Whatever ppl might say in defence of her even this time-informing a would-be-father would be or should be the foremost thing.Not after one day.Not after 2 days.U pick up the phone and tell him since it was unfortunate she fainted when he was no there.And no amount of reason would be sufficient in the end.And Himani,mamaji should have said,u r wrong abt Ragini.But noooooo.once again a beaten to death dialogue.And it would be the same from everyone too!

I can understand this anguish quite well. I know where it comes from.

And yes, the story and all those characters inside it:
If righteous - will be shown beside Sadhna | If flawed - will be shown against her.

This is the way things are. This is the way things will remain.

😊

Edited by Ice-Thinker - 15 years ago

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Posted: 15 years ago

#59

Originally posted by: Ice-Thinker
There is nothing wrong in calling a Spade a Spade ... but the character of Sadhna is not what some people are calling it in here. Its not as if it was confirmed and exact that Sadhna is wrong ... till the last page of the book - a true reader must wait. The story is not yet over...

There will be improvement in the family situation. No one in this world thinks that there will never be normal days ahead - IF PEOPLE WOULD THIS IN SUCH A SADISTIC WAY, THEN ALMOST EVERYONE WOULD COMMIT SUICIDE - And this is a famous theory of "Stress Management".

Her relationship with Alekh have grown, therefore this baby. We need to try and look beyond our own way of dealing with things when we read, witness or analyse another character. Her past, her present and her future needs to come into the consideration. Her situation is different then ours ... her world is not as ours ...

There is no reason to defend Sadhna ... even if I would not write one alphabet here, she would still be defended by the CT and RS ji - I have no doubt there. But as I come here to discuss ... and to let my views free flow online, thus I express them.

Her character had no dimention ... isnt it? ... Many in this forum came and exclaimed if she was really anyones daughter or anything ... I know she was an orhpan without anyone really in favor of her unconditionally. She still loved all. AND THERE CAN BE NO GREATER DIMENTION THEN THE DIMENTION OF LOVE. Her love is her greatest quality ... and this dimention alone is the most cherished identity bestowed on her.

For those who come to a conclusion so hurriedly ... their conclusions are rarely accurite.

Thanks.

@blue: Lets not discuss what's being said about her in other topics and stick to the main topic of discussion.

Her relationship with Alekh has grown but where is the trust element ? I don't care if there is any valid reason or not in hiding this news from her family and baby's father. Alekh deserved to know as soon as she found out. Period. Sadhana can't decide on her own when to share this news with him.
Lets agree to disagree on this one. Thanks.

Edited by --Anu-- - 15 years ago

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But the agreement to disagree was always there I thought 😆 ... didnt you know? 😉 This is an agreement we conclude among any group or two people from the moment we take birth. How often we fail to agree with our parents in one lifetime aswell ... how often we fail to agree with our spouses on issues throughout life. I dont know someone who never had thi universal agreement sealed within then since the realisation of their individual identity/individual existence.

Its just sharing of views ... and I do agree that the father does have the right. I would have my say higher on this due to being a man. But considering Sadhna, her role and her position - if I were Alekh, I would never doubt her love for me!

She is just sensitive due to all that she has lived through. A little bit of time for her is not so unbearable. Even Mamaji or Mamiji seems to realise that.

The most happiest matter is that she is now going to be a mother. Infront of this joy, anything else is meaningless. And I know that AS MY ALEKH BABU IS BACK (remember - its not Mr. Alekh, but my Alekh Babu who I used to defend as madly as Sadhna 😳😆) he will take care of Sadhna ... 😊 ... and take care of her in such a manner that would defeat anyone...

If anyone says anything critical about Sadhna ... tab to unki khair nahi ... Alekh Babuuuu 😆

The only things that I actually fear now is Sadhna giving her child to her Jiji. If this happen ... that day will be the first time I will definately be hurt by Sadhna. Its difficult to hurt me regarding Bidaai and stuff ... I enjoy everything that comes with the package of Sadhna ... BUT THIS WOULD REALLY BE A DISASTER... other than that ... everything looks good.

Ragini is fully capable to be a proud mother of her own child with Ranvir. But ... I dunno what the CTs will do ... if they do this ... i dunno what I WILL DO ...

Anyways dear .. lets see what happens. We are obviously characters outside of Bidaai world ... 😆

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