Sadhana doesn't tell Aalekh:(:Mod's note PG9 - Page 4

OMG Mamaji and Mami look so thrilled! Especially Mamaji....I cannot even imagine Alekh's reaction...Sadhna please tell him he's going to be a father...please....

Originally posted by: yanks28

OMG Mamaji and Mami look so thrilled! Especially Mamaji....I cannot even imagine Alekh's reaction...Sadhna please tell him he's going to be a father...please....

I don't have so much of a problem that she hasn't told him. Like it mentioned there must be a reason behind. I just want it to be where SHE tells him not someone else or a family event.

Originally posted by: SPN_JD_Addicted

U know if Ragini comes to know it later,instead of being disappointed that her sister didn't believe in her she might start saying'what r u made of Sadhana?U always think of others'.Even Alekh might say the same thing,no matter what the reason lol.If its Sadhana's dialogue to say'mujhe maaf kar diijiye' then the above dialogue is others!

I would say that it is a mean approach towards Sadhna of yours.

Originally posted by: --Anu--

Which fears ? 😕 Who is she thinking about really ? Ragini or Vasu ? Does she really care about her own husband ? Doesn't he deserve to know the most happiest news of his life ?
Her character is losing charm, there is no playfulness and desires of a young married woman. So tired of seeing her in a stressed and sacrificing mode all the time.

That is your opinion dear ... but I feel her character is gaining more and more light with each passing episode... 😊

Originally posted by: Ice-Thinker

That might be your opinion dear ... but I feel her character is gaining more and more light with each passing episode...

When we hurry into a conclusion, its rarely the right thing to do. When we read a book, its always wise to read till the last page, and not come to a conclusion at the middle of the book, based on one incident.

I understand your concern for Alekh ... and we all love him. He will never doubt for a moment about Sadhna's love and care for him - because he knows it is true and sanctified.

Sadhna does think about him and everyone else ... all have their unique position in her life.

There is probably a reason behind her momentary silence ... and this reason will be certainly appreciated by Alekh, and she will be more praiseworthy - more honored in the coming episodes. Be certain 😊.

Alekh and Sadhna, both have been though the most rigorous path to come to this stage of their life. They are protective, they are more sensitive ... their strength is of a different genre, and their approach is more unique. Their perspective and opinion about life have been shaped by the extraordinary and hard experiences of their life. And such people, with their honesty and love, are special in their behavior.

Everything, always, doesnt have to be as per our likings ... and all our judgement are not perfect.

She will say ... and will say very soon.

Both Mamaji and Mamiji did hide it along with Sadhna ... it was not Mamaji alone. Its nothing insensitive ... a couple of days dont do much harm ... My Moon Needs A Little Time 😊, why be pushy 😳😉

@red: I am not concerned for Alekh 😆 , rather its so disappointing.

Yes, this is my POV and that's exactly how I feel about her character. I am so done with this sacrificing and divinity stuff, would rather like to see normal relationships and emotions. Nothing OTT.
@blue: Just thinking about Alekh is not enough. 😆 He should be her first priority.

I know ... but eventually the person on whom the story concentrates alot turns out to be more and more sacrificial... thats what is happening here aswell.

its not like alekh will go everywhere talking bout the new baby if sadhna tells him not to, he is not malti...then WHY cant sadhna trust ATLEAST HIM & tell him bout it secretly? its not about letting her HUSBAND knw bout the baby, but its her responsibility to tell the baby's FATHER about the baby...he's the damn father & he has got all the rights to know about THEIR child right away! atleast in this case alekh shudnt be treated like others...cuz he shud be the FIRST person to know bout this & there shudnt be ANY excuses for tht. Actually, NO excuses or reasons can justify sadhna's this act. A father has as much right to know about his child as much a mother does. If i was still watching bidaai , i wud be mad at alekh this time if he didnt get angry at sadhna for hiding such important news from him.

Originally posted by: Ice-Thinker

</div><font size="2">I would say that it is a mean approach towards Sadhna of yours.</font>
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<font size="2">Mujhe maaf kardijiye ... is a display of her meekness. She apologizes ... she doesnt argue. she gives respect to the person who talks with her ... to her priceless relations ...

Sadhna absolutely never did any senseless thing either ... as I saw in some comments ... it would be better if people dont try to demean or ridicule a character so cherished by many others.

Thanks.</font>

Firstly Sadhana is not mine and secondly my POV,u don't have to agree with me and thirdly discuss abt the character not abt my approach or meanness or whatever.And of course she will tell Alekh.May be after everyone when he should be the very first person knowing it.Of course every one will rejoice the repetitive dialogues of 'What r u made of and all that'but when it comes to her repetitive dialogue,it's something else altogether.And I so don't want to get into how priceless and all that what u said abt her character.We have enough of that already! 😊

Originally posted by: _-sHoNaa-_

its not like alekh will go everywhere talking bout the new baby if sadhna tells him not to, he is not malti...then WHY cant sadhna trust ATLEAST HIM & tell him bout it secretly? its not about letting her HUSBAND knw bout the baby, but its her responsibility to tell the baby's FATHER about the baby...he's the damn father & he has got all the rights to know about THEIR child right away! atleast in this case alekh shudnt be treated like others...cuz he shud be the FIRST person to know bout this & there shudnt be ANY excuses for tht. Actually, NO excuses or reasons can justify sadhna's this act. A father has as much right to know about his child as much a mother does. If i was still watching bidaai , i wud be mad at alekh this time if he didnt get angry at sadhna.

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When it was him who was responsible 😆