^^ At the end... this entire thing does not mean that RAGINI is wrong. She just have a different set of values which shape her life ... and Sadhna should not be brought in and measured according to her... thats all.Originally posted by: Ice-Thinker
If your mother is burning in a room ... will you run requesting your sister, father or others to go in ... or would you rush in at the first instance to save time and effort ... and give a shot by yourself.
If your mother is about to be burned alive in a room ... as a daughter (or a son in my case) will I wait for my wife to advice me to run into the room brushing aside people who are trying to stop me?....
NO smitha.... I would not wait in any of the above condition. Because at that moment...only one thing matters....WHATEVER YOU CAN DO AT THAT SINGLE INSTANT....
Everyone by their own means....need to save the person they regard as their own mother.... or if the person is ACTUALLY ONES OWN MOTHER.
Sadhna didnt rush and had a meeting with Alekh on the need of him to rush it... because this duty is implied ... Just like Sadhna felt that its her implied duty aswell. THAT IS MY SADHNA'S PHSYCHE.
@choco: Certainly Sadhna would never have stopped him. BUT THESE THINGS ARE NOT SUPPOSED TO BE SAID ... these things are supposed to be DONE.
MOTHER is MOTHER... this matter is so high that the wife cannot stop ... or the son must not stop. MA ko jalte hue dekhna aur kuch na karna....isse battar aur kya ho sakta hai.CERTAINLY Sadhna would not stop him ... incase HE WOULD HIMSELF volunteer to go it. But then again ... in these circumstances ... it depends on that perticular person.The duty to save MOTHER is certainly MUCH MUCH MUCH higher than save ones life. Because Ma ... Ma hoti hai... and this must not be debated by people who love their mother.
By giving the temple scenario... its clear that Sadhna gives great and TRUE value to the mother+son relationship. Arre Alekh coming close to Vasu was also only due to Sadhna. I remember how beautifully she sent Alekh with his first income to Vasu ... I remember 😊
There are many more scenarios ... and its just visible if one wants to see ... although will never be seen if one wants to ignor or TRY DESPERATELY to avoid 😉
By the way ... India sends so many soldiers to the border to SAVE THEIR MOTHERLAND ... are all these soldiers unmarried? ... Saving mother/mother land is a duty which all sons and their wives are supposed to recognise.But then its also true that many dont. And its not a crime ... and again ... I dont have any idea why Ragini stopped Ranvir ... only you guyz are saying that she gave priority to her husband even if it means that the price should be his own mother. Thats the choice each have to make for themselves ... its not a crime ... and I dont blame anyone.... JUST SADHNA WOULD NEVER DO THIS AND THAT IS CLEAR from all the scenes ... episodes...storyline etc.