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smitha

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Posted: 15 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: chocolover89
So Ragini held Ranvir back..big deal!
He is her husband and obviously he is hurt and plus it's a burning house and anything can happen, why would anybody want/let their husband go back intoa burning house?

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If she had pushed him back in to get Vasu out, people still would have said, what a bad wife...she pushed her husband into a burning house, anything could've happened, etc..it's like damned if you do, and damned if you don't...

For a wife, her husband is of utmost priority, period.And if it was the other way around, Ranvir would NEVER have let her go back in the house under ANY circumstances. In emergencies, we protect the ones we love from harm--that's what Ragini did. I fail to see what was so wrong with that. Also, if Sadhna was outside, I highly doubt even she would've let Alekh go inside the house to save Vasu.

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Himani ji,well said!I am tired of even opening the topics lest I see Ragini being dragged into almost all the cases!
At least now we know how it feels to destroy a character for the sake of the story!

Edited by smitha80 - 15 years ago

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smitha

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Posted: 15 years ago

#12

IT-Are u serious?Sadhana wouldn't stop Alekh?!Then she should have asked him to go instead of going by herself as seen in the pre-cap!

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arjun_rocks

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Posted: 15 years ago

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smitha di nothing new i would have expected this topic it would hve been more surprising if i didn't find that topic.

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arjun_rocks

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Posted: 15 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: smitha80
IT-Are u serious?Sadhana wouldn't stop Alekh?!Then she should have asked him to go instead of going by herself as seen in the pre-cap!

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sadhna saying: aalekh ji jaayeye aur aag mei kud jaayeiye🤣

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gilmores

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Posted: 15 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: Ice-Thinker
I dont know the true purpose of Ragini holding Ranvir back ... when his main duty would be to save his mother even if it means to be at the cost of his life... BUT I know that if Sadhna would be beside Alekh and Alekh would try to run in (even if he is wounded), Sadhna would certainly not stop him. She was the person who stood outside of the temple, and let Alekh and Vasu have a chance to unite ... even when there was a risk of Alekh being away from Sadhna once again subjcted to Vasu's cruel terms and conditions.

Sadhna cannot be measured with the same scale as all other characters are measured in Bidaai.

I never saw a scene where even the remotest of reaction from Sadhna would suggest discomfort in their new home ... or dissatisfaction with even a broken broom that Alekh might bring for Sadhna 😃😊.

Sadhna is devoted ... desire and wishes are there ... but in her case, a pure form of devotion dominates all her feelings. Which makes her lean towards the SPIRITUAL more than the MATERIAL ... and makes her a HUMAN before being a WOMAN ... it is not always possible for everyone.

Sadhna's character is specifically hers ... and her beauty is much more than whatever is seen on the screen. I know that the exterior beauty is so BRIGHT that it dazzles the eye, and one does not have the senses to look more deeper within (as a person lays mezmerized) ... but then, if one glimpse of Sadhna's beauty which lay within be seen ... then a person will attain enlightment! SURLY.

About Sadhna going to Vasu instead of sending in Alekh ... I feel it would be very much unlike her to depend on the actions of anyone else when crisis comes. If Alekh would want, we could go. He is a strong man ... the way he beats goons these days ...

The 2 situations are completely different...Going to the temple posed no real threat to Alekh's LIFE, whereas jumping inside a burning house to save his mother can possible result in Alekh's death...now please don't tell me that Sadhna would willingly say ok Alekhji go inside the house, it's ok if you die....saving mummyji matters more to me than your life...

Ranvir is not wrong in wanting to go inside, but I don't see how Ragini is wrong in wanting to stop Ranvir from risking his life when he's already injured in going back into a burning house that can collapse any minute...

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479445

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Posted: 15 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: smitha80
IT-Are u serious?Sadhana wouldn't stop Alekh?!Then she should have asked him to go instead of going by herself as seen in the pre-cap!

If your mother is burning in a room ... will you run requesting your sister, father or others to go in ... or would you rush in at the first instance to save time and effort ... and give a shot by yourself.

If your mother is about to be burned alive in a room ... as a daughter (or a son in my case) will I wait for my wife to advice me to run into the room brushing aside people who are trying to stop me?....

NO smitha.... I would not wait in any of the above condition. Because at that moment...only one thing matters....WHATEVER YOU CAN DO AT THAT SINGLE INSTANT....

Everyone by their own means....need to save the person they regard as their own mother.... or if the person is ACTUALLY ONES OWN MOTHER.

Sadhna didnt rush and had a meeting with Alekh on the need of him to rush it... because this duty is implied ... Just like Sadhna felt that its her implied duty aswell. THAT IS MY SADHNA'S PHSYCHE.

@choco: Certainly Sadhna would never have stopped him. BUT THESE THINGS ARE NOT SUPPOSED TO BE SAID ... these things are supposed to be DONE.

MOTHER is MOTHER... this matter is so high that the wife cannot stop ... or the son must not stop. MA ko jalte hue dekhna aur kuch na karna....isse battar aur kya ho sakta hai.

CERTAINLY Sadhna would not stop him ... incase HE WOULD HIMSELF volunteer to go it. But then again ... in these circumstances ... it depends on that perticular person.

The duty to save MOTHER is certainly MUCH MUCH MUCH higher than save ones life. Because Ma ... Ma hoti hai... and this must not be debated by people who love their mother.

By giving the temple scenario... its clear that Sadhna gives great and TRUE value to the mother+son relationship. Arre Alekh coming close to Vasu was also only due to Sadhna. I remember how beautifully she sent Alekh with his first income to Vasu ... I remember 😊

There are many more scenarios ... and its just visible if one wants to see ... although will never be seen if one wants to ignor or TRY DESPERATELY to avoid 😉

By the way ... India sends so many soldiers to the border to SAVE THEIR MOTHERLAND ... are all these soldiers unmarried? ... Saving mother/mother land is a duty which all sons and their wives are supposed to recognise.

But then its also true that many dont. And its not a crime ... and again ... I dont have any idea why Ragini stopped Ranvir ... only you guyz are saying that she gave priority to her husband even if it means that the price should be his own mother. Thats the choice each have to make for themselves ... its not a crime ... and I dont blame anyone.... JUST SADHNA WOULD NEVER DO THIS AND THAT IS CLEAR from all the scenes ... episodes...storyline etc.

Edited by Ice-Thinker - 15 years ago

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gilmores

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Posted: 15 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: smitha80

Himani ji,well said!I am tired of even opening the topics lest I see Ragini being dragged into almost all the cases!
At least now we know how it feels to destroy a character for the sake of the story!

Himani ji? Lols yikes...😆

Lols seriously, I know what you mean...seems like every little action of Ragini's is criticized...Every character has been destroyed for the sake of the storyline...but no charcater destruction can ever reach the character destruction of Ragini, which still continues to this day...sadly, albeit not as bad as it was before

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Pallavi

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Posted: 15 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: chocolover89
So Ragini held Ranvir back..big deal!
He is her husband and obviously he is hurt and plus it's a burning house and anything can happen, why would anybody want/let their husband go back into a burning house?

If she had pushed him back in to get Vasu out, people still would have said, what a bad wife...she pushed her husband into a burning house, anything could've happened, etc..it's like damned if you do, and damned if you don't...

For a wife, her husband is of utmost priority, period. And if it was the other way around, Ranvir would NEVER have let her go back in the house under ANY circumstances. In emergencies, we protect the ones we love from harm--that's what Ragini did. I fail to see what was so wrong with that. Also, if Sadhna was outside, I highly doubt even she would've let Alekh go inside the house to save Vasu.

Yes, you are right. But I feel it would have been better if the CTs show all three are held tight by the neighbours. Anyhow, there is nothing wrong in what Ragini did.

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Purehearts

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Posted: 15 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: reguser

Yes, you are right. But I feel it would have been better if the CTs show all three are held tight by the neighbours. Anyhow, there is nothing wrong in what Ragini did.

I agree, lets not make this a big deal.
As if there are way too many arguments rather than healthy discussions here.I just can't understand how we are ready to defend the characters sometimes taking to a personal level.
These serials just take too much out of us, good and more bad actually!

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479445

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Posted: 15 years ago

#20

Exactly ... whatever Ragini did was not a crime. Its her choice ... but not neccessarily it would be Sadhna's choice too ... as one mentioned. Because clearly Sadhna's mentality is different.

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