Vasu is ok with Ragini - Page 4

Originally posted by: vishmewell

@ bold - Anu, you answered your own question. Vasu is sooo convinced in her mind Sadhana will sacrifice Aalekh in a snap. Unless Sadhana learns to put Aalekh and her marriage on top of everything else, they will not be able to convince Vasu. Sadhana's character cannot convince me that given a situation, will Sadhana make her marriage a priority or not... Sadhana needs some professional counseling. She makes unilateral decisions even when two people are involved in it. In the temple, she is not the only one who should make that decision whether or not she should sit with Aalekh in the pooja. It should have been Salekh decision... Dis she include Aalekh when she decided to leave the temple and not be there for the pooja with Aalekh?

If somebody would ask me if I want a bahu who will take care of my son before anyone else or jo sacrifices karthe ohiregi aur apni shaadi taq ko qurbaan karegi, I would always pick the first one as a mother. So is Vasu. (But there are ways to control people like Sadhana... Vasu might want to explore those options. 😊 She is dumb...)

So what's wrong with that? Sadhana will be with Aalekh ONLY when she is not in a situation she has to pick one or the other relationship... Right now she has Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) of sacrifice. UNACCEPTABLE !!! IMPRACTICAL.

We all love our mayka... but we don't sacrifice husband and marriage...

Creatives must hire a Psychologist to advise them on Sadhana character. That character makes no sense. The Character is not what they are trying to portray.

Originally posted by: vishmewell

@ bold - Anu, you answered your own question. Vasu is sooo convinced in her mind Sadhana will sacrifice Aalekh in a snap. Unless Sadhana learns to put Aalekh and her marriage on top of everything else, they will not be able to convince Vasu. Sadhana's character cannot convince me that given a situation, will Sadhana make her marriage a priority or not... Sadhana needs some professional counseling. She makes unilateral decisions even when two people are involved in it. In the temple, she is not the only one who should make that decision whether or not she should sit with Aalekh in the pooja. It should have been Salekh decision... Dis she include Aalekh when she decided to leave the temple and not be there for the pooja with Aalekh?

If somebody would ask me if I want a bahu who will take care of my son before anyone else or jo sacrifices karthe ohiregi aur apni shaadi taq ko qurbaan karegi, I would always pick the first one as a mother. So is Vasu. (But there are ways to control people like Sadhana... Vasu might want to explore those options. 😊 She is dumb...)

So what's wrong with that? Sadhana will be with Aalekh ONLY when she is not in a situation she has to pick one or the other relationship... Right now she has Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) of sacrifice. UNACCEPTABLE !!! IMPRACTICAL.

We all love our mayka... but we don't sacrifice husband and marriage...

Creatives must hire a Psychologist to advise them on Sadhana character. That character makes no sense. The Character is not what they are trying to portray.

Originally posted by: yanks28

Sadhna is damned if she does, damned if she doesn't. She has always looked out for Alekh. She can show special concern for Alekh even now and abandon the entire planet for him, and it won't make Vasu happy. Vasu has a crazy hatred towards Sadhna right now. Sadhna sone ki bhi ban ke aajaye, Vasu khush nahi ho gi...

The creatives have lead Vasu down a very terminal alley of hatred against Sadhna. Yes, maybe Sadhna needs to change her mind set and say "no one but Alekh, everything for Alekh"...but I don't think Vasu will give a damn.

Originally posted by: --Anu--

You are so right. Vasu hates Sadhana like crazy. Basically that woman has lost it completely. Her intense hatred makes no sense. It seems she only cares about herself and her inflated EGO. She is so jealous of Sadhana as both her sons adore Sadhana so much.

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

she keeps on telling that Sadhna has done jadu to both her sons...she even uttered this to Ragini during the rift track and brainwashed Ragini

Originally posted by: --Anu--

This is her pet dialogue. lol Vasu is so clever and manipulative, she brainwashed Ragini only for her own benefit. Otherwise it would not have been so easy for her to throw Sadhana out of the house if Ragini was on Sadhana's side. I have a feeling that she acts nice to Ragini for her own selfish reason.

Originally posted by: --Anu--

🤣 This is a common problem in most of the TV female protagonists. They care about everyone else even house maids except their own husbands. I am thinking who could be a perfect psychologist to advise them on Sadhana's character. 😆

Originally posted by: vishmewell

LOL ... OMG I didn't know there's so much passion in wanting to prove me wrong... 😆😆😆
I know everyone is trying to convince me... but nobody has an answer to my question yet... I know there are a lot of irritated people and some who do not want to discuss with me. 😆😆😆

I would still argue that there's no bad Mother. If someone tried to establish "Bad Mother" where in the world are very rare cases may be one in millions, they have got to be scums and low life person(s) who would show a mother in such a bad light. The world has changed, technology changed, way we live has changed. But "Mother" is still the sweetest word in the dictionary. So I will continue to see Vasu as a mother first and then as a person.

Vasu is convinced and has an apprehension that Sadhana will sacrifice Aalekh in a snap. And she STRONGLY believes he needs to be protected. According to Vasu, Sadhana cannot pur Aalekh before everyone. And Sadhana did exactly that in yesterday's episode not wanting to do her wifely duties by sitting in the pooja with Aalekh. So she did put Vasu before Aalekh?

That is the real problem with Sadhana. EVERYTHING and EVERYONE else is important than her own marriage and her duties towards her marriage. That's precisely the reason why Vasu deems Sadhana unfit for her son. From a mother's point of view, Vasu is totally justified. She hates Mamaji because he never once gave her bhashan how her husband should be more important than any other relationship. Or did I miss that part? Don't fathers and mothers not tell their daughter during or before Bidaai?

The problem with Vasu is, she is a low IQ woman who doesn't know how to handle situations like that. She thinks her money power can do everything. That's where she is wrong. Also, looks like there are so many hidden skeletons in RV family. Everyone who is blaming Vasu has some dark secrets and grey areas 😛