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Pallavi

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Posted: 15 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: vishmewell

Let us ignore Vasu's attitude per say and ONLY examine thru the eyes of a mother, Should a mother not be concerned about her son whose wife would make sauda of her husband/marriage in a snap? Is that not a genuine concern? Jo raastha Vasu ne apnaya, woh galat hai... but her concern was not galat.

Oh God... Not again Vish... I give up. No chances for me to win this argument.

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vishmewell

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Posted: 15 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: reguser

Oh God... Not again Vish... I give up. No chances for me to win this argument.

I want to be wrong reguser... convince me "a mother" why that act should not raise red flags.

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yanks28

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Posted: 15 years ago

#13

I also noticed Vasu is ok with Ragini...but that doesn't mean Ragini is safe. Vasu is not to be trusted...she can turn against anyone at anytime. Ragini doesn't have to do much to offend Vasu...she's always on edge and ready to hate anyone...uski godh mein bache to pal chuke hai, magar nafratein bhi palli hai....

As for Sadhna...Alekh needs to become her glue and hold her together. I need to see a scene where Alekh sits Sadhna down and sets a few boundaries for her...he needs to realize that at anytime, Sadhna will give up anything for the happiness of a few people and that IS WRONG. That hurts her exponentially and in turn hurts the ones that love her. I need Alekh to be a major force in her life and watch Sadhna's every move and evaluate its effects. Even after all this drama, Sadhna's self sacrificial attitude has not left her...you can see that by the look on her face when she mentions Vasu around Alekh, she still thinks it's HER FAULT.

Anyway someone needs to protect Sadhna and it has to be Alekh...it has to be. He needs to be her rock now.

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ritukaprithvi

@ritukaprithvi

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Posted: 15 years ago

#14

Guys we have an almost similiar thread running in" So Much Hatred". The one thing that Vasundhara said to Alekh in the mandir was, with Sadhana around you and I will never be close. That dialouge sent a major chill down my spine truthfully speaking. This spells of disaster waiting to happen in Salekh Land. No marriage however strong can stand so much turmoil (realistic scenerio). Guys mud does tend to stick. We can all turn upside trying in futile to analyse Vasundhara deep rooted hatred for Sadhana. Guys do you think that inderjeet had an affair with a girl similar to Sadhana in the past and that is why Vasundhra is so against Sadhana unconsciously. What say, do you think this holds some bizzare explaination.

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Pallavi

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Posted: 15 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: vishmewell

I want to be wrong reguser... convince me "a mother" why that act should not raise red flags.

Not just me, many of us here tried to convince you. The basic problem is u r identifying Vasu as a mother first and hence try to justify her cause (though not actions). Whereas, many of us are identifying her as a self-centred and egoist person before identifying her as a mother.

A mother can not be selfish with her children and ego will never come between her love towards children. And if it comes, then she is not a good mother, however she claims herself to be the one. A mother and child's love is un-condtional. Now, dont tell me Vasu's love is un-conditional 😆

Anyways, I can not argue more. Each individual has his/her own perceptions. You may not be wrong from your point right now. It is ok, you will be proved wrong soon (I know you want to be wrong, you want to be convinced that Vasu is wrong and not Sadhna) along with Vasu 😆

Edited by reguser - 15 years ago

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Sweet-Violet

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Posted: 15 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: yanks28
I also noticed Vasu is ok with Ragini...but that doesn't mean Ragini is safe. Vasu is not to be trusted...she can turn against anyone at anytime. Ragini doesn't have to do much to offend Vasu...she's always on edge and ready to hate anyone...uski godh mein bache to pal chuke hai, magar nafratein bhi palli hai....

As for Sadhna...Alekh needs to become her glue and hold her together. I need to see a scene where Alekh sits Sadhna down and sets a few boundaries for her...he needs to realize that at anytime, Sadhna will give up anything for the happiness of a few people and that IS WRONG. That hurts her exponentially and in turn hurts the ones that love her. I need Alekh to be a major force in her life and watch Sadhna's every move and evaluate its effects. Even after all this drama, Sadhna's self sacrificial attitude has not left her...you can see that by the look on her face when she mentions Vasu around Alekh, she still thinks it's HER FAULT.

Anyway someone needs to protect Sadhna and it has to be Alekh...it has to be. He needs to be her rock now.

Sadhana's concern for Vasu is getting so annoying. How could she refuse to sit with Alekh for pooja ? After marriage, no pooja is complete without one's spouse. Her efforts to reunite the family are not letting her fulfill her duties as a wife. Sadhana needs to set her priorities straight and care about Alekh more than anyone else.

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yanks28

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Posted: 15 years ago

#17

Yes you're right, and that's only going to happen when Alekh speaks up, which he did in that scene...he forced her to go sit with him...held her hand...that's what needs to be done.

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Bani

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Posted: 15 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: yanks28
I also noticed Vasu is ok with Ragini...but that doesn't mean Ragini is safe. Vasu is not to be trusted...she can turn against anyone at anytime. Ragini doesn't have to do much to offend Vasu...she's always on edge and ready to hate anyone...uski godh mein bache to pal chuke hai, magar nafratein bhi palli hai....

As for Sadhna...Alekh needs to become her glue and hold her together. I need to see a scene where Alekh sits Sadhna down and sets a few boundaries for her...he needs to realize that at anytime, Sadhna will give up anything for the happiness of a few people and that IS WRONG. That hurts her exponentially and in turn hurts the ones that love her. I need Alekh to be a major force in her life and watch Sadhna's every move and evaluate its effects. Even after all this drama, Sadhna's self sacrificial attitude has not left her...you can see that by the look on her face when she mentions Vasu around Alekh, she still thinks it's HER FAULT.

Anyway someone needs to protect Sadhna and it has to be Alekh...it has to be. He needs to be her rock now.

very valid point...
I also feel that this side of their marital relationship needs to be taken care of...

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Bani

@Omshanti1111

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Posted: 15 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: --Anu--

No...Alekh wont let this happen now.

why Anu? I am not demeaning Alekh... just a discussion...

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Bani

@Omshanti1111

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Posted: 15 years ago

#20

The beauty of the Bidaai track is we fell in love with the characters with the way it is...Sadhna is loved because she had sacrificing attitude, Ragini because of her softness and not able to come out of her comfort zone, same goes with Ranveer and Alekh...

Just to suit the viewers needs, basic way by which the characters are sketched cannot be altered and this I have noticed only in Bidaai CTs. Whatever nature, a person is born with, a person needs to utilise those traits to make the best of life....What I mean to say is all of a sudden, if we see Ranveer is a calm and cool guy, it does not go...we'ld love to see that, but Ranveer is a little hot-headed and for me thats one of the reasons that I like his character...he never hesitates to speak his mind out....

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