Vasu is ok with Ragini - Page 3

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

why Anu? I am not demeaning Alekh... just a discussion...

Well that's what Vasu still wants. She still wants to create a barrier between Alekh and Sadhna...since her highness feels that it will fix all problems, never mind the slightly life threatening depression this may cause Alekh to fall into...but she still wants that. I'm starting to worry about Sadhna again...Vasu's hate is so SICK. She is truly on another planet of hate right now...I fear what she's capable of. She's always one step ahead of everyone...I hope she doesn't take it up a notch and try to physically hurt Sadhna or something of that sort.

As for Ranvir, somehow the poor guy pushes and screams and cries but all his cries fall on deaf ears...he makes really good plans and they still seem to fail in the face of Vasu...the shrewd planner is Ragini...I think RagVir and Alekh need to talk about this openly...right now the thorn in Vasu's side is Sadhna...what can they do to fix this, or to shield Sadhna and themselves from any danger....be frank, AlVir, Vasu can do anything.

Originally posted by: yanks28

Well that's what Vasu still wants. She still wants to create a barrier between Alekh and Sadhna...since her highness feels that it will fix all problems, never mind the slightly life threatening depression this may cause Alekh to fall into...but she still wants that. I'm starting to worry about Sadhna again...Vasu's hate is so SICK. She is truly on another planet of hate right now...I fear what she's capable of. She's always one step ahead of everyone...I hope she doesn't take it up a notch and try to physically hurt Sadhna or something of that sort.

As for Ranvir, somehow the poor guy pushes and screams and cries but all his cries fall on deaf ears...he makes really good plans and they still seem to fail in the face of Vasu...the shrewd planner is Ragini...I think RagVir and Alekh need to talk about this openly...right now the thorn in Vasu's side is Sadhna...what can they do to fix this, or to shield Sadhna and themselves from any danger....be frank, AlVir, Vasu can do anything.

I am wondering if one day Vasu has one real heart attack, and she asks all three to leave Sadhna and come back home, what they will do..I am pretty sure Sadhna will ask them to go back to Vasu and not worry about Sadhna...what decision can they take then...I know I am considering an unfavourable situation, which I also will try to avoid....but then, if it indeed happens...

Originally posted by: --Anu--

Sadhana's concern for Vasu is getting so annoying. How could she refuse to sit with Alekh for pooja ? After marriage, no pooja is complete without one's spouse. Her efforts to reunite the family are not letting her fulfill her duties as a wife. Sadhana needs to set her priorities straight and care about Alekh more than anyone else.

That is the real problem with Sadhana. EVERYTHING and EVERYONE else is important than her own marriage and her duties towards her marriage. That's precisely the reason why Vasu deems Sadhana unfit for her son. From a mother's point of view, Vasu is totally justified. The problem with Vasu is, she is a low IQ woman who doesn't know how to handle situations like that. She thinks her money power can do everything. That's where she is wrong. Also, looks like there are so many hidden skeletons in RV family. Everyone who is blaming Vasu has some dark secrets and grey areas 😛

Originally posted by: yanks28

Well that's what Vasu still wants. She still wants to create a barrier between Alekh and Sadhna...since her highness feels that it will fix all problems, never mind the slightly life threatening depression this may cause Alekh to fall into...but she still wants that. I'm starting to worry about Sadhna again...Vasu's hate is so SICK. She is truly on another planet of hate right now...I fear what she's capable of. She's always one step ahead of everyone...I hope she doesn't take it up a notch and try to physically hurt Sadhna or something of that sort.

As for Ranvir, somehow the poor guy pushes and screams and cries but all his cries fall on deaf ears...he makes really good plans and they still seem to fail in the face of Vasu...the shrewd planner is Ragini...I think RagVir and Alekh need to talk about this openly...right now the thorn in Vasu's side is Sadhna...what can they do to fix this, or to shield Sadhna and themselves from any danger....be frank, AlVir, Vasu can do anything.

No one else but Sadhana has to help Sadhana... We have seen Sadhana making wrong and unilateral decisions over and over again that caused pain to people around her. Her decisions are like quick sand. They are taking her down and dragging others down with her who are trying to help her.

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

why Anu? I am not demeaning Alekh... just a discussion...

Dont worry Bani. Its nothing like that. lol

If you remember Alekh's dialogue to Vasu when he was getting engaged to Mallika... he said "How can I even blame you for all this. If I had trust in my wife and love then all this would not have happened". In yesterdays episode, he made it clear to Sadhana that all Vasu has to do is accept Sadhana as his wife and he will go back to Rajvansh house. He really has no grudge against his mother and is only hurt by her actions. Alekh understands his mother and wife really well and knows exactly what he has to do.

The girls really need to grow some back bone first.They were wilting in front of Vasu in yesterday's episode.Ragini herself mentioned she couldn't tolerate like Sadhana during last year's holi episode.She is so calm now considering the fact that her MIL played with her mother's life.When we see Ragini coming out of her obedient zone towards Vasu and speaks to her a little bit harshly then Vasu's ego wouldn't even tolerate that.
Would she change once she comes to know that Sadhana is responsible for Ranvir coming out of jail?

Originally posted by: reguser

Not just me, many of us here tried to convince you. The basic problem is u r identifying Vasu as a mother first and hence try to justify her cause (though not actions). Whereas, many of us are identifying her as a self-centred and egoist person before identifying her as a mother.

A mother can not be selfish with her children and ego will never come between her love towards children. And if it comes, then she is not a good mother, however she claims herself to be the one. A mother and child's love is un-condtional. Now, dont tell me Vasu's love is un-conditional 😆

Anyways, I can not argue more. Each individual has his/her own perceptions. You may not be wrong from your point right now. It is ok, you will be proved wrong soon (I know you want to be wrong, you want to be convinced that Vasu is wrong and not Sadhna) along with Vasu 😆

LOL ... OMG I didn't know there's so much passion in wanting to prove me wrong... 😆😆😆
I know everyone is trying to convince me... but nobody has an answer to my question yet... I know there are a lot of irritated people and some who do not want to discuss with me. 😆😆😆

I would still argue that there's no bad Mother. If someone tried to establish "Bad Mother" where in the world are very rare cases may be one in millions, they have got to be scums and low life person(s) who would show a mother in such a bad light. The world has changed, technology changed, way we live has changed. But "Mother" is still the sweetest word in the dictionary. So I will continue to see Vasu as a mother first and then as a person.

Vasu is convinced and has an apprehension that Sadhana will sacrifice Aalekh in a snap. And she STRONGLY believes he needs to be protected. According to Vasu, Sadhana cannot pur Aalekh before everyone. And Sadhana did exactly that in yesterday's episode not wanting to do her wifely duties by sitting in the pooja with Aalekh. So she did put Vasu before Aalekh?

That is the real problem with Sadhana. EVERYTHING and EVERYONE else is important than her own marriage and her duties towards her marriage. That's precisely the reason why Vasu deems Sadhana unfit for her son. From a mother's point of view, Vasu is totally justified. She hates Mamaji because he never once gave her bhashan how her husband should be more important than any other relationship. Or did I miss that part? Don't fathers and mothers not tell their daughter during or before Bidaai?

The problem with Vasu is, she is a low IQ woman who doesn't know how to handle situations like that. She thinks her money power can do everything. That's where she is wrong. Also, looks like there are so many hidden skeletons in RV family. Everyone who is blaming Vasu has some dark secrets and grey areas 😛

Originally posted by: smitha80

The girls really need to grow some back bone first.They were wilting in front of Vasu in yesterday's episode.Ragini herself mentioned she couldn't tolerate like Sadhana during last year's holi episode.She is so calm now considering the fact that her MIL played with her mother's life.When we see Ragini coming out of her obedient zone towards Vasu and speaks to her a little bit harshly then Vasu's ego wouldn't even tolerate that.
Would she change once she comes to know that Sadhana is responsible for Ranvir coming out of jail?

I think Rgaini should change without even knowing about Sadhna's contributions for Ranveer. I liked Sdahna's decision during the jail track, because she followed her instincts and spoke the truth. These two need to know forst what is right and wrong and then without supporting the wrong, that is Vasu now, should try to work out ways....not just infront of Ranveer and Alekh say "she is your mother"...

Originally posted by: vishmewell

That is the real problem with Sadhana. EVERYTHING and EVERYONE else is important than her own marriage and her duties towards her marriage. That's precisely the reason why Vasu deems Sadhana unfit for her son. From a mother's point of view, Vasu is totally justified. The problem with Vasu is, she is a low IQ woman who doesn't know how to handle situations like that. She thinks her money power can do everything. That's where she is wrong. Also, looks like there are so many hidden skeletons in RV family. Everyone who is blaming Vasu has some dark secrets and grey areas 😛

I am not really sure what's Vasu's real problem with Sadhana. lol But Sadhana's sacrificing acts drives me nuts sometimes. lol I dont even think its a sacrificing act...what is she sacrificing anyways....her position or happiness as a wife to make Vasu happy...is she not hurting Alekh by doing all this ? Its clear that Alekh wants her to be with him for all his important events in life. She needs to work on her own marriage first and stand by Alekh.

Originally posted by: --Anu--

I am not really sure what's Vasu's real problem with Sadhana. lol But Sadhana's sacrificing acts drives me nuts sometimes. lol I dont even think its a sacrificing act...what is she sacrificing anyways....her position or happiness as a wife to make Vasu happy...is she not hurting Alekh by doing all this ? Its clear that Alekh wants her to be with him for all his important events in life. She needs to work on her own marriage first and stand by Alekh.

@ bold - Anu, you answered your own question. Vasu is sooo convinced in her mind Sadhana will sacrifice Aalekh in a snap. Unless Sadhana learns to put Aalekh and her marriage on top of everything else, they will not be able to convince Vasu. Sadhana's character cannot convince me that given a situation, will Sadhana make her marriage a priority or not... Sadhana needs some professional counseling. She makes unilateral decisions even when two people are involved in it. In the temple, she is not the only one who should make that decision whether or not she should sit with Aalekh in the pooja. It should have been Salekh decision... Dis she include Aalekh when she decided to leave the temple and not be there for the pooja with Aalekh?

If somebody would ask me if I want a bahu who will take care of my son before anyone else or jo sacrifices karthe ohiregi aur apni shaadi taq ko qurbaan karegi, I would always pick the first one as a mother. So is Vasu. (But there are ways to control people like Sadhana... Vasu might want to explore those options. 😊 She is dumb...)

So what's wrong with that? Sadhana will be with Aalekh ONLY when she is not in a situation she has to pick one or the other relationship... Right now she has Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) of sacrifice. UNACCEPTABLE !!! IMPRACTICAL.

We all love our mayka... but we don't sacrifice husband and marriage...